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I've looked through search and I'm not having any luck. Is there a thread that talks about communication for LDR in the sense of what's a healthy communication. I'm kind of wondering if there is such a thing like talking too much or too little, or even a thread about how often others speak/email/call each other.


Over in Talk there is the Distance Domination thread. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=474229&page=192

(yeah, i know there is a better way to put up a link but I forget how...lol)

Daddy and I usually IM late in the evening then move to phone after our families are asleep. Many times we are up until 3am or later. We often will talk around lunch time either by phone or IM also. It really depends on what is going on with our families and work. Unless one of us are away on vacation we at least exchange off-line IMs every day. I feel like there is something missing in my day if I don't vheck in at least in the morning and before bedtime.

That's just us though, everyone is different
 
Over in Talk there is the Distance Domination thread. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=474229&page=192

(yeah, i know there is a better way to put up a link but I forget how...lol)

Daddy and I usually IM late in the evening then move to phone after our families are asleep. Many times we are up until 3am or later. We often will talk around lunch time either by phone or IM also. It really depends on what is going on with our families and work. Unless one of us are away on vacation we at least exchange off-line IMs every day. I feel like there is something missing in my day if I don't vheck in at least in the morning and before bedtime.

That's just us though, everyone is different

I'm familiar with that one. Maybe I will post the question there. Thank you :rose:
 
So how is everyone doing, lovies?


*hugs everyone tight*


I hope all is well here.... and there. :)
 
it goes wonderfully.

how are you dear? Tell me everything. Catch me up. :)

Ha, not all that much to tell. Same old, same old, which is just fine by me! Still with Mister Man, still enjoying life with kidlet. Busy busy, but it's all good.

And yoooouuuuu?
 
Ha, not all that much to tell. Same old, same old, which is just fine by me! Still with Mister Man, still enjoying life with kidlet. Busy busy, but it's all good.

And yoooouuuuu?

Things are good for me. I have had an amazing summer. I have been doing a lot of traveling and enjoying the real world. My romantic life is wonderful. If anyone is interested in the details then pm me. Otherwise, work and life is great and all is well. I have missed some of you very much.


Hi Gigi!!!!!!

Just wanted ask where you were hiding! :):rose:

*huggs you tight back*


You been missed!!! :kiss:

I might have been missed by you, deary... but I'm sure I wasn't missed by many. Real life has been hiding me. How are things with you and the jock?
 
Things are good for me. I have had an amazing summer. I have been doing a lot of traveling and enjoying the real world. My romantic life is wonderful. If anyone is interested in the details then pm me. Otherwise, work and life is great and all is well. I have missed some of you very much.

Hi Gigi!

Glad to here that things are going well in your world :)
... are congratulations in order?

:rose:
 
I'm just coming to take up residence in this thread for a while.

And to say as a submissive I'm missing my Dom :eek: It's no big secret we are in a LDR, so we go periods of time without seeig each other but this week he's out of the country on vacation. Despite contact, and the fact that I'm so glad he's having a good time, I cannot help but miss him. :eek: Its just weird not having him in the same country...if that makes sense.

anyone got any cookies? lol :p
 
I might have been missed by you, deary... but I'm sure I wasn't missed by many. Real life has been hiding me. How are things with you and the jock?
I am sorry Gigi, didnt see your reply sooner! I wasnt on Lit much myself either lately.

Well know you're ALWAYS missed by me!! Fuck the rest! lol


Hope you are well girlie!! :rose:

{{{{{:kiss: HUGS Gigi tight :kiss:}}}}}
 
I'm just coming to take up residence in this thread for a while.

And to say as a submissive I'm missing my Dom :eek: It's no big secret we are in a LDR, so we go periods of time without seeig each other but this week he's out of the country on vacation. Despite contact, and the fact that I'm so glad he's having a good time, I cannot help but miss him. :eek: Its just weird not having him in the same country...if that makes sense.

anyone got any cookies? lol :p
Yes IT DOES make sense!! *HUGGS and HUGGS*

Heres your cookies! :rose:

http://i324.photobucket.com/albums/k353/hispeanut/cookies_333x250.jpg
 
Hello All,

I just wanted to tell someone...I went to my first sort of munch tonight, more a dinner. I was really nervous before I got there. As I am sure many of you know kinda new to this and still trying to find my way. Anyway it was nice, I met some really nice people and had a good meal. I did talk some with others so I was definatly not a wallflower. :)

Hope you all had a great weekend.:rose:
 
Hello All,

I just wanted to tell someone...I went to my first sort of munch tonight, more a dinner. I was really nervous before I got there. As I am sure many of you know kinda new to this and still trying to find my way. Anyway it was nice, I met some really nice people and had a good meal. I did talk some with others so I was definatly not a wallflower. :)

Hope you all had a great weekend.:rose:

Good for you! Very brave. :rose:

So are you going back? Did you learn about any activities you could take part in? Please share more if you want to.
 
The best way to get involved is to do just that. Google area munches and see what is close to you. If you have a friend who would be willing to go with you, all the better. Just take your time and don't rush things. Be patient and enjoy the ride.
 
Well all I figured I'd just poke my head in here and say hello. And sinse we all seem to be sharing a little about our selves... I figured I'd just go ahead and share that it seems I'm one of the few male pyt's that hangs out on the forums. Either that or I just need to start reading more posts heh. :) So as of right now I'm trying to find a "munch" in my area. Even googling for one dosn't seem to help me very much. Heh, I guess I live a little bit to far out in the boonies. Heh
 
My bad. I'm located in New Mexico USA. As for a specific town, thats not something I'm going to divoulge in main forums. Nothing personal.
 
Love pet, you can be as specific or vague as you like about your location. No one will judge you here either way. :) No need to condition your reasons. You owe us nothing. I asked simply so we could see if there is any one here who might be close to you that could offer suggestions.
*noogie*
 
Well all I figured I'd just poke my head in here and say hello. And sinse we all seem to be sharing a little about our selves... I figured I'd just go ahead and share that it seems I'm one of the few male pyt's that hangs out on the forums. Either that or I just need to start reading more posts heh. :) So as of right now I'm trying to find a "munch" in my area. Even googling for one dosn't seem to help me very much. Heh, I guess I live a little bit to far out in the boonies. Heh

There are a few other male subbies around.

Read profiles, unless its obvious there really is no other way to tell... and then even when it seems obvious, in the bedroom people change.
 
I just wanted to say "hey". I am married to my Master (lucky me!) and we live a 24/7 TPE M/s life.

I enjoy writing and since Master decided about a month ago I was to stop working and stay home I have a lot more time to indulge my passion. I am far from accomplished but am determined to get better.

I am not sure what else to say. So I will stop my nervous ramblings...

s
 
welcome! have a sit, enjoy the scene and have some fun. if you need anything just ask. most all of us are always willing to lend a hand.

and dont worry about rambling. we all do at first. you are more than welcome to ramble to your hearts content.

be well.
 
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