Suggestive Signals: with your SO, what might you say or do to initiate some intimacy?

[suckonsimon]

Ooh, Simon! Hope it was mind-blowing....

On a similar vein:

Planning the day earlier, I asked my man if he would like to fuck now or during the evening. But what I found myself saying was "Would one care to engage in sexual congress with one presently? Or would one prefer this evening?"

Think I might have spent too much time in the "English Standards" thread...

and ... yes it was

 

[suckonsimon]

Here's the latest from a couple who live in an old draughty house:

She said, "Shall we make sure the bedroom is cosy for later?"
I said, "Just for snuggling down for the night or for more than that?"
She said, "For snuggling down and for, ... whatever ..."



[I'm guessing that American English has drafty, right?]

 

[suckonsimon]

I'll bump with another, from just now in fact:

Me: "So, what are you gonna do with the evening, love?"
Her: "Well, apart from kissing you from time to time, ..."
Me: "You want some afters, eh!" [a reference to a spectacular time at the weekend].

 

[Okletsgo]

Lately dropping the words Good Girl into any conversation.
He says it an innocent non sexual way but I know exactly what he means.

 

[JanneE]

I usually ask for help shaving. A haircut is always a nice way to show you care too.

 

[a75]

I usually steal pretentious glances down her legs.

She usually asks if there is any... interesting dvd to watch.

 

[Mindfondler]

For best effect with my wife, it's not one signal, but a series of signals over the course of a day. It might start with some light touches (perhaps brushing of the upper arm or shoulders) in the morning, followed by affectionate and/or suggestive text messages during the day, with more touches, squeezes and whispered intimacies to follow. It's very effective! The tricky part is to maintain the momentum when I'm side-tracked by work and other unwelcome distractions.
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[tightmedicine]

I'll often slip on a sexy pair of underwear, maybe do a light brushing off the front of his pants, or if I really want to cut to the chase masturbate in front of him.

 

[Shy01]

I'll often slip on a sexy pair of underwear, maybe do a light brushing off the front of his pants, or if I really want to cut to the chase masturbate in front of him.

Yep... I think that's a pretty clear signal...

 

[Sheana_V]

This really depends on the guy, though it helps with all of them that I'm pretty bold.
One guy, who was sort of submissive, I'd literally removed my panties and start grinding on his face, he'd always stop what he was doing.
Sometimes I straddle them, and sometimes I unzip them. Like I said, pretty bold.

If a guy is just uninterested I tell him I'm going into the other room to masturbate, about 50% of the time he'll join me.

Women are hard to seduce though, and with them the most common tactic for me is just telling them I want it.

Of course this is about the 20% of the time that I just want sex now. The other 80% of the time I'm just relentlessly being a cocktease to them until they insist on fucking me.

 

[suckonsimon]

Bumping with one I got this week.

She left for work 7.40am and this was a text at 9.05pm:

"On bus now
decaf tea please
xxxx
and shall we join?"

Sweet, eh?

 

[Okletsgo]

Very sweet

Better get the kettle on...

And the cockring

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

Hey bitch see this hard on? It ain't goin to waste. Either you git naked now or I'm going next door!











In my dreams!

 

[UrbanBohemian]

Planning the day earlier, I asked my man if he would like to fuck now or during the evening. But what I found myself saying was "Would one care to engage in sexual congress with one presently? Or would one prefer this evening?"

Think I might have spent too much time in the "English Standards" thread...

Okay, now that is funny! Thanks for making me chuckle.

 

[Passionnee]

I put a pair of thong in my husband's underwear drawer and told him whenever he wants me to wear them, to just put them on the bed or door knob of the bedroom and I will oblige him.

Sometimes in the morning, I put a thong on the door knob and leave for work. He knows what will be waiting for him when he gets home after work. I get a lot of text messages throughout the day, not sure why!

 

[luv2bfkd]

Just recently when I was needing it I went up behind him, put by arms around him and told him “You look like you’re needing some pussy. It just so happens I have just what you need and you know I’m an easy fuck.”