Supportive husbands holding their hotwives

My wife suffers from my premature ejaculation which is the reason she has other male lovers. I usually don't participate physically when she is getting fucked. I DO like to participate sometimes when she is actually cumming. He will be fucking her in the missionary position. He will be standing at the side of the bed with her lying across the bed. I would be kneeling at her head so I have access to her upper body. She likes when I stroke her hair and her face. she likes when I gently extend her arms over her head and I gently stroke her inner arms. The first sign that she's about to cum is a change in her breathing. At this point, I stroke her ribcage. I'll notice a flush overcome her face and chest. She's getting close.When her nipples become VERY erect, I give attention to her titties. I usually do a combination of a gentle massage and a little pinching of her nipples. The first sign that she is cumming is a pretty strong twitch of her leg. Now she's starting to vocalize. At this point, I back off a bit and let her enjoy her orgasm. I might gently rub her shoulders or stroke her hair, but mostly I stay out of the way.I have a pretty good view from my perspective. She lubes a lot when she cums and I like seeing how wet she makes her lover's cock. It's nice. I'm happy to say that her lover is very considerate and generous, and I let them have some private time. The most exciting time for me, though. is when he cum for her. It is SO erotic to be in physical contact with your woman while another man inseminates her. I can feel the strength of his thrusts as he gets ready. I can hear the sound of his voice. I can sense her joy as she feels his flow into her, and she will look up at me with an incredibly joyful expression. Unlike me, he is able to stay inside her after he ejaculates, and she likes that feeling. It goes one of two ways after they make love. Most of the time, they go off to shower together and I wait for them. Once in awhile she will ask to shower with me. I enjoy that.It's a very intimate time for us. It's almost a ritual where I clean her body and re-claim her as my wife. Sometimes, his semen will drip out of her and I clean her pussy. It's very erotic.
That my friend is very sexy!
 
Years ago this idea, this possibility, arose in me and it has remained a primary fantasy for me ever since.

Being the supportive partner in this scenario fills my heart, while sharing her lust and ecstasy as fully as possible launches me over the edge.

Heaven
 
Many husbands — according to one big survey, as many as 58% — want to see their wives with other people. It's a thing. I'm one, and I've even gotten to do it.

My theory:

Societal, familial and religious strictures peddle notions that women "don't like" sex, or at least not as much as men and that "monogamy" is some high moral ideal.

Because of that, many women have deeply etched resistance to the idea of being a "slut," even if they know at some level they might enjoy sex with other men (or women). Women have been conditioned to think that they should be "passive" when it comes to sex, and that being too forward is more or less off limits; men, especially insecure men, reinforce this phony narrative (yes, there is likely an evolutionary component, but anthropology makes clear that cultural conditioning is the main influence).

Men who want to see their wives as insatiable, ultimately sexy and desirable, yearn to see them cut loose all inhibitions and express themselves fully as independent, lusty sexual beings. That expression may be muted in a marriage where there is "baggage," and the stakes may subconsciously feel too high ("Oh my god, if I act on my desires my man might leave me," etc.).

That's the number one reason for me.

Second is the fact of my bisexuality. I think any man who enjoys watching his wife with other men is probably fooling himself if he thinks he doesn't have at least a tiny sliver of, shall we say, heteroflexibility. At minimum, he enjoys seeing a nice dick — so long as it's in a hetero context. I acknowledge that seeing (of not more) hot cock is part of the thrill.

Breaking taboos and societal controls: I love when people have sex of a kind they are not "supposed" to, according to their culture, religion or upbringing. Wives openly "cheating" on their husbands (it's not, obviously; but I get off on cheating stories, too) really turns me on.

My desire that my wife not feel controlled by me. That she is allowed to be her full self in every way, without interference from me. I do not own her. I do not want to own her.
Well said. I agree with you on the not wanting to be seen as a slut thing. However, my wife flat out told me once, that after I die when is gonna be a "big slut"

I was left wondering why she wouldn't just start now? 🤷‍♂️
 
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