Talk Dirty to Me

[ScottyS]

To me it's much more about the voice than the actual words.

To that effect, I feel my dirty talk is at its most effective when it's spontaneous and real. Anything too premeditated usually sounds premeditated.

 

[cindy70s]

To me it's much more about the voice than the actual words.

To that effect, I feel my dirty talk is at its most effective when it's spontaneous and real. Anything too premeditated usually sounds premeditated.

That's so true. For me words that just flow when I'm in the heat of passion are better than anything thought out.

 

[lindahotstuff]

My man likes me to say 'cunt' too - 'fuck my cunt baby, harder, shove that hard cock deep inside me". In bed it's Ok, but I dont use 'cunt' out of bed. My man likes me to talk about other guys I fuck when he is ready to cum. So I tell him about how big an ex's cock was and how it filled me and stretched me and made me orgasm, hearing me do this really turns him on

 

[ScottyS]

Although I'd say it's way more about the voice and mood and emotion behind the voice, there are a few words that tend to be tried and true, whereas others need to be handled with skill, IMO. 'Cunt', as most people have attested, is all about context. I've listened to a lot of erotica and guys rarely sound good saying cunt, but maybe that's just me. Cock and pussy are much more tolerable in all contexts.

There are a few verbs I don't really care for: 'slide,' 'cram', 'slip' and a few others don't do it for me. 'Fuck' is a more all-purpose verb, the quality of which depends on the delivery, of course.

Dirty talk in general has to have a story structure, IMO, to be effective. Loosely speaking, there has to be a beginning, crisis, climax and resolution. Of all the audio erotica I've listened to, such as on this site, my absolute favorites are the ones where the person begins with a calm chat, then deliberately builds in excitement and anticipation, culminating in ecstacy, then some kind of post ecstatic exclamation point.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

Him/her speaking the very thoughts that are already on my mind.
When something has been implied enough, so that they already know what to say.

 

[lili_fromtx]

I know what my guy likes when he's close.

"Oh fuck youre so big."

"Fuck me harder big boy"

"Fuck yes, fill me with your cum."

and of course he loves it when I say

"Cum on my face"
or
"Cum in my mouth"

 

[thirty]

For all the guys out there, I was wondering...when you are having sex and are close to cumming, what dirty talk really sends you over the edge?

If my girl moans and scream loudly, I will take it as praise.

 

[Sgt. Hartman]

ready...aim...

interesting thread that got me thinking.............an ex in voice that was somewhere between a moan and a whisper with a touch of demand used to say "shoot a big load in me"............yeah, that worked

 

[Mark_Felt]

Hearing a girl (younger or older than I) say 'Fuck me Daddy' has always driven me mad with lust!

Wow...what a great forum. My first visit. I'd wondered if there was a place on the web where real people...both men and women felt free to talk about sex. (I don't get out much. ) I have to say that after reading a post or two like the one above, I guess I don't feel, so...weird??

Not sure if it's just the fact that I'm entering that awful place called middle age...but it's lately been my fantasy to have my wife utter "Fuck me Daddy...Fuck me HARD". That line was delivered by Jessie St James in an old 70's porn flick and I've never forgotten it. Now...I have absolutely no inclination to incest (heck, I don't even have a daughter) but somehow it would just seem so sexy for my lady to deliver that phrase.

Heck, I'd even settle for a simple, well-placed, lady-like, "Fuck me". Nothing over the top is required...just enough to express the intensity of the moment. My sweet wife does her best to oblige now and then...but I suppose she has "issues" with certain things.

 

[KellysCrack]

I love it when my SO talks dirty... normally as he is pulling my hair while I am performing some form of oral service.

 

[cindy70s]

Although I'd say it's way more about the voice and mood and emotion behind the voice, there are a few words that tend to be tried and true, whereas others need to be handled with skill, IMO. 'Cunt', as most people have attested, is all about context. I've listened to a lot of erotica and guys rarely sound good saying cunt, but maybe that's just me. Cock and pussy are much more tolerable in all contexts.

There are a few verbs I don't really care for: 'slide,' 'cram', 'slip' and a few others don't do it for me. 'Fuck' is a more all-purpose verb, the quality of which depends on the delivery, of course.

Dirty talk in general has to have a story structure, IMO, to be effective. Loosely speaking, there has to be a beginning, crisis, climax and resolution. Of all the audio erotica I've listened to, such as on this site, my absolute favorites are the ones where the person begins with a calm chat, then deliberately builds in excitement and anticipation, culminating in ecstacy, then some kind of post ecstatic exclamation point.

Welcome to lit. I'm sure you'll find many interesting topics to explore here.

I'm not sure there is such a thing as a lady like "fuck me" but I don't believe talking dirty makes you unlady like. It is merely an expression of the moment and there is nothing like letting go...

 

[Mark_Felt]

Welcome to lit. I'm sure you'll find many interesting topics to explore here.

I'm not sure there is such a thing as a lady like "fuck me" but I don't believe talking dirty makes you unlady like. It is merely an expression of the moment and there is nothing like letting go...

Thanks for the welcome, Cindy. Totally agree. If anything, when a lady chooses to express herself in the bedroom with a gut-level "Fuck me", it enhances her beauty and femininity.

 

[fiery_tongue]

When she says...

Use my cunt for your pleasure!

I'm cumming!

Fuck me daddy lol, yeah sometimes

 

[whalee]

"Pussy" just makes me laugh. And not in a sexy way.

But then I'm British and grew up watching 1970s sitcoms...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=unmkX15AeN8&feature=related

Thanks for this, Cattypuss....great way to start the morning.

 

[Cattypuss]

My pleasure

 

[Julio12345]

ttttt

 

[heyscanman]

something like..

...oh, God, you're fucking me with your big, fat cock. you're sticking it so deep in me. i'm gonna come, i want you to come inside me. i want all of your come inside me. fuck me with that big, hard cock. come all inside me.

something like that is nice.