teach me some new tricks

[niwawa]

i tried fingering myself but found that it didnt stimulate me much compared to playing with the clit. Some suggest finding the g-spot but i'm not sure if its the correct way..is there any way to play better..any one can teach?

 

[emap]

Best to simply go with what you enjoy, though exploring is always good.

You sound like one of the many of us who doesn't get off with penetration, I myself get off on the penetration, but I do know if having something pushed in doesn't get you all hot and bothered, no problem, just have to employ the fingers while he is getting his fun.

Now, the G spot is generally a few inches in at the top of you, or deeper depending on the woman, it's supposed to rather feel like a clit, I've never bothered to find mine so no idea if it does or not.

I have learned that to stimulate that takes time and effort, for some more effort than time, others it's the opposite, when you get close to cumming with that you I guess feel like you have to pee and are supposed to keep going. Though I think best to try it out a few times in the bath simply because of what the G spot is supposedly for. scientist aren't sure, at least not when I saw a report on it, but they think the G spot is for giving birth to sort of help with the process, it seems to stimulate your muscles to push, which explains the pee feeling and most likely the squirting orgasms that some women have.

Though for just regular old playing, I have found it best to think about the type of man I most want inside me and picture him doing so, eventually, lots of touching beforehand.

 

[SweetErika]

i tried fingering myself but found that it didnt stimulate me much compared to playing with the clit. Some suggest finding the g-spot but i'm not sure if its the correct way..is there any way to play better..any one can teach?

There is NO "correct way" to masturbate or have an orgasm, and no one can teach you how to do so. You can learn by exploring and reading. I'd suggest checking out The Blank Manual sticky at the top of the main How To page, checking out the links below and perhaps acquiring some toys (I like the Rabbit Pearl that takes 3 C batteries about $15 in ebay's mature audiences section, under Everything Else- and the Hitachi Magic Wand with blue, vinyl attachments - about $50 online, but it provides many types of stimulation, is a great massager, and is likely to last for at least a decade).

http://www.clitical.com/ (great info overall)
http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/nfr_index.htm (excellent info on the female body in general, and the g-spot and female ejaculation, specifically)

 

[yoshimitsu]

There is NO "correct way" to masturbate or have an orgasm,

That's what the Christians say anyway

 

[ravensfx]

Easy

i tried fingering myself but found that it didnt stimulate me much compared to playing with the clit. Some suggest finding the g-spot but i'm not sure if its the correct way..is there any way to play better..any one can teach?

Generally, it is a hard spot inside on the top of the vagina. It can be other places. I really like my bf playing with the fleshy parts in the middle. Ahem! That is turning me on too much since he's gone on biz for the weekend. But, to be honest, my clit fells better. I sometimes gush that way too. If you use the vagina and clit stimulator, don't worry about it.

If you want to squirt, it isn't that difficult. Do a lot of kegel exercises and learn every fun spot inside. You have to rub the clit and inside for me anyway. I can usually do it after 3 or 4 orgasms. Good Luck on that one. Not all women can do it.

 

[emptynester]

Now, the G spot is generally a few inches in at the top of you, or deeper depending on the woman, it's supposed to rather feel like a clit, I've never bothered to find mine so no idea if it does or not.

because of what the G spot is supposedly for. scientist aren't sure, at least not when I saw a report on it, but they think the G spot is for giving birth to sort of help with the process, it seems to stimulate your muscles to push, which explains the pee feeling and most likely the squirting orgasms that some women have.

Emap - I am not sure where you got your info but if you and the OP are really interested in the G spot, I would suggest checking out the "try this and report back" thread. The G spot is not as illusive as you seem to imply. There is a lot of good info there but a lot you can skip over so don't be discouraged by the size of the thread. It is well worth your time if you are truely interested in understanding more about it. As far as scientist go, I think they would do better if they did more "research." Read the thread and you will understand.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70892

 

[ravensfx]

Huh?

Best to simply go with what you enjoy, though exploring is always good.

You sound like one of the many of us who doesn't get off with penetration, I myself get off on the penetration, but I do know if having something pushed in doesn't get you all hot and bothered, no problem, just have to employ the fingers while he is getting his fun.

Now, the G spot is generally a few inches in at the top of you, or deeper depending on the woman, it's supposed to rather feel like a clit, I've never bothered to find mine so no idea if it does or not.

I have learned that to stimulate that takes time and effort, for some more effort than time, others it's the opposite, when you get close to cumming with that you I guess feel like you have to pee and are supposed to keep going. Though I think best to try it out a few times in the bath simply because of what the G spot is supposedly for. scientist aren't sure, at least not when I saw a report on it, but they think the G spot is for giving birth to sort of help with the process, it seems to stimulate your muscles to push, which explains the pee feeling and most likely the squirting orgasms that some women have.

Though for just regular old playing, I have found it best to think about the type of man I most want inside me and picture him doing so, eventually, lots of touching beforehand.

Huh???? The G-Spot has nothing to do with childbirth. Feels like a clit? LOL! No, it feels like a hardened place with a bumpy-like texture.

 

[AvaAdore]

I find it hard to stimulate my G spot on my own, at least with my hands. It's better to get someone else to do it for you :-D

Also unless I'm really aroused, having it touched feels kind of weird.

 

[tanyachrs]

Back to the original question, some women enjoy grinding type stimulation. Lay on top of something or put something like a pillow between your thighs and grind your vulva into it. Some women like the feel of water running onto the clit from a bathtub spout or a shower massager.

There's a site I found once with great emails from readers (male and female) on how they masturbate but I can't find it now. Maybe someone else knows the URL.

 

[EveAnna]

i tried fingering myself but found that it didnt stimulate me much compared to playing with the clit. Some suggest finding the g-spot but i'm not sure if its the correct way..is there any way to play better..any one can teach?

You could always try a G spot vibrator - I wasn't even sure that I had a G spot until I bought a new vibrator, its one of the new style ones - looks just like a small plastic yellow hand massager but its been contoured to fit the body (according to the box) and to hit the G Spot, its bent LOL.

Me and my little plastic playmate have been having a lot of fun. - Have a look around online, you'll probably find something.

 

[SweetErika]

Emap - I am not sure where you got your info but if you and the OP are really interested in the G spot, I would suggest checking out the "try this and report back" thread. The G spot is not as illusive as you seem to imply. There is a lot of good info there but a lot you can skip over so don't be discouraged by the size of the thread. It is well worth your time if you are truely interested in understanding more about it. As far as scientist go, I think they would do better if they did more "research." Read the thread and you will understand.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70892

Just to add to this, I'd say don't be discouraged if your g-spot isn't where that thread says it should be, you don't like the type of stimulation described or the technique doesn't work for you. For example, my g-spot is several inches in, and you have to press hard to get it. I like more subtle stimulation - rubbing it hard can feel good sometimes, but a more gentle touch that gets most of my vagina plus the spot gets me to orgasm. Most of the time, I need to have a clitoral or combination orgasm first, and I vastly prefer those orgasms over g-spot alone because they're far more intense. And, I don't want to have 20 orgasms - a couple/few are perfect for me.

My point is that the thread is a good starting point for many, but it's certainly not the end-all-be-all on g-spot stimulation for all, or even most, women (which is why I posted links to unbiased, condensed info).

 

[bitterdecadence]

Masturbation site

Back to the original question, some women enjoy grinding type stimulation. Lay on top of something or put something like a pillow between your thighs and grind your vulva into it. Some women like the feel of water running onto the clit from a bathtub spout or a shower massager.

There's a site I found once with great emails from readers (male and female) on how they masturbate but I can't find it now. Maybe someone else knows the URL.

Tanyachrs,
The site I think your trying to locate is Solo Touch
www.solotouch.com
I enjoyed reading them also!

 

[bitterdecadence]

Gee

i tried fingering myself but found that it didnt stimulate me much compared to playing with the clit. Some suggest finding the g-spot but i'm not sure if its the correct way..is there any way to play better..any one can teach?

Niwawa,
There are endless sites with G spot information.
One such site is:
www.collegesexadvice.com/g-spot.shtml
You should explore your body to find what works for you initially
There are masturbation techniques used by readers detailed on:
www.solotouch.com
A vibrator might assist you also either in combination with fingers or just vibe alone.
Learn about your body thru self exploration - what works for you & what doesnt.
Of course, a partner adds yet another dimension to the discovery.

 

[Honeybee80]

Another great site is theclitoris.com

 

[Evil Kirk]

You need fantasies more than fingering techniques. Find a genre of porn, and go with it.

 

[Skylla]

This may sound weird but learning to breathe really slowly and push your diaphragm down as you breathe out makes an orgasm last longer.