Hello everyone. This is my first post so please (don't) be gentle with me.
I'm interested in chatting to any girls/women who like to tease (I have Skype).
I'm interested in understanding my sexual preferences and those of everyone else. I like "normal" or "vanilla" sex but after many years of this activity I find the whole routine a bit dull.
Which is where BDSM features.
I much prefer the variety of this and the scope for extended pleasure, especially when compared with the typical "normal" sexual activities such as penetration.
For me, the enjoyment is NOT penetration. Yes, from a male perspective it feels pleasurable enough, but - really - nowhere near as pleasurable as I thought it would be.
Foreplay, and in particular extended foreplay in the form of teasing, suits me far better. It not only prolongs the anticipation, which is more enjoyable than the event (like Christmas), but it creates paths where nobody would think of crossing. Without BDSM my sex life can be foreplay and penetration and ejaculation in 10-15 minutes. 10-15 enjoyable minutes, yes, but BDSM in the form of teasing extends this. It slows down time in a way Hawking could never calculate. Teasing turns seconds into minutes. From my partner's perspective teasing may seem calculated or formulaic, but when "in the zone", for me her teasing seems random and exciting and addictive.
She is in control.
Alone, I have the power to ejaculate when and how I want (within legal boundaries) but when my partner decides how and when AND IF I may do so . . . then time dilates. Dr Who with a stiffy, if you prefer.
I am flying the teasing flag and am interesting in hearing any teasing techniques and stories etc.
Sorry if I have rambled on, but I am interested in chat with any girl/woman over 18 for mutual please. Any country/colour/height/weight etc. Don't be shy.
I am also open for non-sexual conversations.
I have a brain.
I have an MA and MSc.
But I also have bulging trousers.
I'm interested in chatting to any girls/women who like to tease (I have Skype).
I'm interested in understanding my sexual preferences and those of everyone else. I like "normal" or "vanilla" sex but after many years of this activity I find the whole routine a bit dull.
Which is where BDSM features.
I much prefer the variety of this and the scope for extended pleasure, especially when compared with the typical "normal" sexual activities such as penetration.
For me, the enjoyment is NOT penetration. Yes, from a male perspective it feels pleasurable enough, but - really - nowhere near as pleasurable as I thought it would be.
Foreplay, and in particular extended foreplay in the form of teasing, suits me far better. It not only prolongs the anticipation, which is more enjoyable than the event (like Christmas), but it creates paths where nobody would think of crossing. Without BDSM my sex life can be foreplay and penetration and ejaculation in 10-15 minutes. 10-15 enjoyable minutes, yes, but BDSM in the form of teasing extends this. It slows down time in a way Hawking could never calculate. Teasing turns seconds into minutes. From my partner's perspective teasing may seem calculated or formulaic, but when "in the zone", for me her teasing seems random and exciting and addictive.
She is in control.
Alone, I have the power to ejaculate when and how I want (within legal boundaries) but when my partner decides how and when AND IF I may do so . . . then time dilates. Dr Who with a stiffy, if you prefer.
I am flying the teasing flag and am interesting in hearing any teasing techniques and stories etc.
Sorry if I have rambled on, but I am interested in chat with any girl/woman over 18 for mutual please. Any country/colour/height/weight etc. Don't be shy.
I am also open for non-sexual conversations.
I have a brain.
I have an MA and MSc.
But I also have bulging trousers.
