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thewillies said:
Where are the bi or bi-curious guys in Texas? I think it would be fun for discrete married bi/bi-curious married guys in Texas to have a thread to meet and have a chance to chat with other guys in the same boat.

It's a vastly different proposition being married and bi/bi-curious than it is being gay or openly bi or even single and bi. I'd like to find out about other people who are like me. Wouldn't you?

So...Post to this thread. Answer all, some or none of the questions below:

Who are you? (Not your real name, of course!)
Where are you?
Do you have much experience?
What have you tried?
What do you like?
What are the things you've always wanted to try, but haven't been able to yet?
Does your wife know?

Feel free to think of more questions and include them in your post.

Sincerely,
TheWillies
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southwest Austin here
experience limited to JO and oral, versatile
liked it all, so far
pondering more, but haven't tried
no way does wife know. I love her and want to keep the marriage strong. But she doesn't have a cock and doesn't suck mine. So....a little bit of wandering on the side.
 
I'm 41, married, in Dallas, TX. Before I got married, I had many sexual partners, including a frw other guys. I've always felt that attraction is quite separate from pleasure. That's why even absolutely straight guys who'd never even dream of touching another man's package will ocassionally get hard of another guy sucking them to orgasm. I haven't played with another guy in over 10 years, but I totally enjoyed it back then. I have a nice size tool, not too big and not too small, so guys usually asked me to let them suck me, which I was happy to oblige. Ocassionally I would return the favor. A few guys thought I was the perfect size for fucking them and begged me for it. I did it a few times and they seemed to like it. I was never interested in being on the receiving end myself, although there was this one guy who asked to play gently with my ass. So we took a shower together and then he got his wish. That was the only time I've ever felt a soft tongue in my ass and it was surprisingly good. So I guess you could say I've had a lot of experience, but to be honest some of my favorite times were simply just sitting jacking off together. There is something very satisfying about just knowing that someone else is just as horny as you are, right there and then. I would love to repeat those times again, it would have to be very discreet and I would be very careful about it. As you can imagine, my wife doesn't know and it's best that she doesn't. She would not understand and it would just upset her.


thewillies said:
Where are the bi or bi-curious guys in Texas? I think it would be fun for discrete married bi/bi-curious married guys in Texas to have a thread to meet and have a chance to chat with other guys in the, same boat
It's a vastly different proposition being married and bi/bi-curious than it is being gay or openly bi or even single and bi. I'd like to find out about other people who are like me. Wouldn't you?

So...Post to this thread. Answer all, some or none of the questions below:

Who are you? (Not your real name, of course!)
Where are you?
Do you have much experience?
What have you tried?
What do you like?
What are the things you've always wanted to try, but haven't been able to yet?
Does your wife know?

Feel free to think of more questions and include them in your post.

Sincerely,
TheWillies
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Where are you? DFW/Waco/Austin depending on work

Do you have much experience? No. Just fantasy.

What have you tried? Being naked.

What do you like? Couples really.

What are the things you've always wanted to try, but haven't been able to yet? I would love to be a bottom for an older couple. I am not a 100% on a guy alone but I think the female aspect present would make it easier. That or let me dress up as a girl I just lost alot of weight and am noticing some nice definition but I am still attracted to the larger guys and ladies. Something about being taken by an older bbw couple just gets me going. I'd love to have a gaping rear end. Always thought that was real sexy in movies. Would love it.

Does your wife Know? No. Due to her upbringing, alot of stuff is off limits.
 
Who are you? (Not your real name, of course!)
PressNightly, of course I'm referring to my prostate :)

Where are you?
SW Austin

Do you have much experience?
Back in my teens I racked up a lot of experience, with men of many different ages and ethnicities. Haven't been with a man in several years but I fantasize about it constatnly!

What have you tried?
Lots of BJ swapping, mutual masturbation, digital stimulation, frotage, and I had a guy lube up my crack once and fucked me (externally) till he came. I've also participated in one MMM threesome which was friggin fabulous, I just wish now that I'd taken their offer and gone back for more.

What do you like?
I generally consider myself a versatile bottom. I'm into pretty much everything unless it involves pain. I'm not really into cross dressing, but I will confess that I've tried on my wife's clothes before and it was definitely an interesting change of pace.

What are the things you've always wanted to try, but haven't been able to yet?
I've done most of the things you can do with a guy before, except anal. I just never found the right guy to be my first, and then I got married and my explorations were put on hold. I'd absolutely love for someone to take my virgin hole and make me their bitch. I'd also love to bareback, but of course being married, trust is a huge issue there for me cause I don't want to bring any bugs home to my wife.

Does your wife know?
I just recently came out to her, you can find the story in the GLBT section if you want. So far she's really supportive, and we've been having all kinds of fun with fantasies and toys. She's promised me that someday she'll treat me to a 3 way with another guy. I've also told her about all the stuff I've done in the past, and told her all of my dirtiest most private fantasies and it really turns her on!


Ultimately what I'm looking for is another married guy who's monogamously commited to his wife, but is interested in exploring his bi side with me. Basically a regular sex partner where we don't have to worry about all the BS that comes with internet hookups and where we don't really need to worry about disease and stuff. Even better would be if we had stuff in common other than sex and could also become friends as well. And when my wife is ready to open our bedroom, we'd have someone already that could join us.

My wife has expressed some bisexual curiosity herself, so the absolute 'dream come true' for me would be for him to have a curious wife as well, for some nice safe 4 way fun.

A tall order I know, but there it is.
 
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PressNightly said:
Who are you? (Not your real name, of course!)
PressNightly, of course I'm referring to my prostate :)

Where are you?
SW Austin

Do you have much experience?
Back in my teens I racked up a lot of experience, with men of many different ages and ethnicities. Haven't been with a man in several years but I fantasize about it constatnly!

What have you tried?
Lots of BJ swapping, mutual masturbation, digital stimulation, frotage, and I had a guy lube up my crack once and fucked me (externally) till he came. I've also participated in one MMM threesome which was friggin fabulous, I just wish now that I'd taken their offer and gone back for more.

What do you like?
I generally consider myself a versatile bottom. I'm into pretty much everything unless it involves pain. I'm not really into cross dressing, but I will confess that I've tried on my wife's clothes before and it was definitely an interesting change of pace.

What are the things you've always wanted to try, but haven't been able to yet?
I've done most of the things you can do with a guy before, except anal. I just never found the right guy to be my first, and then I got married and my explorations were put on hold. I'd absolutely love for someone to take my virgin hole and make me their bitch. I'd also love to bareback, but of course being married, trust is a huge issue there for me cause I don't want to bring any bugs home to my wife.

Does your wife know?
I just recently came out to her, you can find the story in the GLBT section if you want. So far she's really supportive, and we've been having all kinds of fun with fantasies and toys. She's promised me that someday she'll treat me to a 3 way with another guy. I've also told her about all the stuff I've done in the past, and told her all of my dirtiest most private fantasies and it really turns her on!


Ultimately what I'm looking for is another married guy who's monogamously commited to his wife, but is interested in exploring his bi side with me. Basically a regular sex partner where we don't have to worry about all the BS that comes with internet hookups and where we don't really need to worry about disease and stuff. Even better would be if we had stuff in common other than sex and could also become friends as well. And when my wife is ready to open our bedroom, we'd have someone already that could join us.

My wife has expressed some bisexual curiosity herself, so the absolute 'dream come true' for me would be for him to have a curious wife as well, for some nice safe 4 way fun.

A tall order I know, but there it is.
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A tall order? I think you have the pick of the litter! I'm like you, looking for a monogamous couple. You won't believe how many times you talk to someone and they want you to be "one of 50 guys" they hook up with. I mean, trust IS a huge issue. Also, it's difficult to feel comfortable with someone who may PM you and go "so U wanna SuK Mai Cock?". No conversation, no input from them whatsoever. Atleast on a chat site the bots have atleast a 2-3 question courtesy line. I'd hate to vent bit rest assured by the sound of it, anyone would be lucky to enjoy their time with you. Rest assured, someone like me would feel honored to lose our virgin ass flower to someone like you!
 
Hey thanks man!

In the past whenever I'd want to hook up, it was always 'now now now!', I'm not interested in now, I'm interested in next week, next month, next year. I knew I couldn't be the only guy out there looking for the same, but I've always looked on pure chat sites like squirt and gay.com... I guess that's my problem.

When I did most of my masculine fun in the past, I was mostly cruising at the local nature park near my home, and on the rare occasion when I'd either have the house to myself or had rented a hotel room in advance and I'd ask them if they wanted to go somewhere private I'd get this look of 'whatdya mean?' lol

There seems to be a great difference between married guys who are really bi-curious, or gay guys looking for some quick fun; and the majority of frustrated married/straight guys who are just looking to have their dick sucked.

Personally I want to take a bit of time to get to know a guy before I give him a ride he's not soon to forget. BTW redstar, where are you located in texas? ;)
 
PressNightly said:
Hey thanks man!

In the past whenever I'd want to hook up, it was always 'now now now!', I'm not interested in now, I'm interested in next week, next month, next year. I knew I couldn't be the only guy out there looking for the same, but I've always looked on pure chat sites like squirt and gay.com... I guess that's my problem.

When I did most of my masculine fun in the past, I was mostly cruising at the local nature park near my home, and on the rare occasion when I'd either have the house to myself or had rented a hotel room in advance and I'd ask them if they wanted to go somewhere private I'd get this look of 'whatdya mean?' lol

There seems to be a great difference between married guys who are really bi-curious, or gay guys looking for some quick fun; and the majority of frustrated married/straight guys who are just looking to have their dick sucked.

Personally I want to take a bit of time to get to know a guy before I give him a ride he's not soon to forget. BTW redstar, where are you located in texas? ;)
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Believe me, I know all about wanting to be comfortable before taking that next step. Especially with a newbie like me who hasn't taken the plunge. Let's see, it's been a while since I tried chatting with someone but I remember the last few talks ended pretty rude. It was either "are you in or out?", they needed an answer now. Or they stopped talking to me because I wanted to use protection.

I am in DFW with frequent trips to Abilene, Austin, and Waco.
 
Looks like this thread has been asleep for awhile and I would love to find a regular local bud. So, here goes...

Who are you? (Not your real name, of course!)
fun4yall2...bi married male, 40, 5'10, 240, 8" cut & shaved

Where are you?
Houston

Do you have much experience?
Not a complete expert by any stretch of the imagination, but have done this enough to know what I like and don't like.

What have you tried?
Lots of mutual sucking and jacking. Have topped a few guys and bottomed once.

What do you like?
Pretty much into anything that the moment brings as long as it doesn't involve pain, potty or blood. My absolute favorite is to start off with some masturbation, solo at first and then some mutual jacking. Swapping places and sucking each other off and on, neither person letting the other one cum. Light anal play, some rimming and fingering just to really build the orgasms.

Like I said, though, open to pretty much anything clean that you would want to try. My one experience on the bottom wasn't very good and I really didn't enjoy it. I like to have my ass played with, though, so maybe I need to try again with another partner.

Does your wife know?
Absolutely not!

My wife does travel from time to time, so I can host when that happens. Very rare, though, and would love to find a regular bud that has a place we can meet up and have fun. I'm my own boss, so as long as I'm not traveling I can meet whenever your schedule is free.
 
checking in

Who are you? (Not your real name, of course!)
22 year old bi-male

Where are you?
South Texas, rio grande valley area

Do you have much experience?
None whatsoever but I believe that I am past the curious bit, I have no hang ups over my attraction to men.

What have you tried?
Nothing

What do you like?
I'm up for anything really, though I have no hang ups I know i'd be very nervous so I'd very much like to take things slow and build some trust because that means a lot to me.

Does your wife know?
I am not married and as of Saturday I am no longer attached as well. For what it's worth while I was with my girlfriend she knew and was supportive of my bi-sexuality. Lol I guess i'm looking to rebound because I really think i'm swearing off women for a while
 
Where are you? Ft Hood
Do you have much experience? None
What have you tried? Nothing
What do you like? I don't know yet?
What are the things you've always wanted to try, but haven't been able to yet? oral and bottom
Does your wife know? Yes
 
Corpus Christi guy is interested

raygrinnin said:
hey i'm going to be in south texas in mar of 2012 and i would sure like to have a couple of fuck buddies to play with while i'm there.i'm bi married ,no she don't know and would freak out if she found out.i've had a few men in my mouth and ass i love to be fucked
.i love to make out.rubbing,touching licking sucking.i have dressed up for guys that ask me to and found out i love to wear panty hose,when i'm getting fucked .very excitingi want a hot tranny with sweet titties and a hard cock to fuck the shit out of me.thats my ultimate fantasy.i'm more than ready to have some fun with regular guys or cd,or tgurls.i'm a submissive bottom i can switch sometimes
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Staying in Corpus Christi??
 
Looking for a cock in Dallas

Looking for a cock to suck in Dallas and the surrounding area.

not looking for recip, i just want to feel a cock in my mouth pulsing its seed into it.

if you want you can suck me too, but I want it 1st...
 
I'm new here but eager to learn

Where are you? Central Tx
Do you have much experience? Not enough
What have you tried? Oral
What do you like? Feeling someone elses cock get hard, smooth cocks
What are the things you've always wanted to try, but haven't been able to yet? Bottom
Does your wife know? NO
 
I am glad to see this thread getting some movement again :D

If your in my area, feel free to pm me;)
 
North of DFW about 50 miles, looking for a daytime cock. I am in DFW area all the time. I have been wanting to suck a cock for a while, but have not been with a guy. I am a bit of a sub, so you would have to take control. I could be a top or bottom, but have to suck cock.

37 white married male, 5'10" 195. I have been looking for a couple as with no luck. Please PM me if you would like to break me in.

Also, wife would flip if she knew...She really don't have much of a sex drive...
 
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