The Divine Ms. M

snake0067 said:
Well if you're willing to waiver on the 'good' part I'm your man. :cool:


You *might* be good...you just dont know yet... :kiss:
have to paint the picture first then you can see if your the best artist around...LOL
 
TheDivineMsM said:
You *might* be good...you just dont know yet... :kiss:
have to paint the picture first then you can see if your the best artist around...LOL
True, as long as I can learn as I go. More than once too that's only fair.

You're just on a different level though. ;)

I'm all about honesty too. Just ask why he hasn't talked with you much lately.
 
Do you know how close he was to his Grandfather?

Was he visiting a lot of family or anything while he was gone?


Maybe he's just going thru a rough patch.
 
P. B. Walker said:
Do you know how close he was to his Grandfather?

Was he visiting a lot of family or anything while he was gone?


Maybe he's just going thru a rough patch.


Yeah i have considered that. He was close from wha i understand, and yes he did see a bunch of family while he was gone...

I guess, if he was going through a rough patch, i wish he would just talk to me about it...
Oh geeze i hate when i get all woman-y like this...
Fuck...maybe its my hormones...I guess it boils down to this. I like him alot we have had a blast togther, and if its to come to an end, i would rather at least have the chance to say goobye, its been great you know? I have not called or addressed this with him, because i find when i think about it, what i would say and what not...Its not me...I am the one that doesnt give a fuck...and everything i think of saying comes off as womanish...you know like clingy and needy and shit. And that just isnt me...well it wasnt...fuck that it isnt.
And like the thing that throws this all off, is the last real converstion we had was like this...
ME: Hey i want to talk to you cause this is kind of where things generally fall apart for me in relationships...You know i am Domme and all about my BDSM stuff... well you know our realtionship is wierd cause we havent had any conversations about being exclusive, were not even BF/GFand i am not saying we should be i have no problem with our realtionship as it stands, but when i have had opp. to fuck other people, well it just seems like a waste of my time cause i really like fucking you...
HIM: i agree, have had chances myself, and turned them down
Me: cool...so i am just bringing this conversation up to say that since you cant go to this party this weekend (this was last weekend) i am going to invite a sub i have been wanting to get together with and i would rather you know from me personally if i am seeing other people. I wish you could go but of course i understand you cant. Of course i will always be Domme and that will involve other people. And i felt we should talk about it.
HIM: well thats cool and i appreciate your talking to me about it, and i really havent been in a situation like this before, so i am gonna say that i am open to seeing what happens, and i am fine with it. and i will let you know if there comes a time when i am not.
ME: cool, cause you know our realtionship is wierd, ya know...more than fuck buddies, but not quite serious BF/GF...ya know
HIM: Chuckling...yea i know. I am good.
ME: great..glad we had the conversation.

So what does your testosterone tell you?

I am going to bed before i stress myself out.
FUCK i hate being a woman sometimes....emotions are a BITCH
 
Well sounds like he was cool with the way things in your relationship.

Just from what I've heard, I get the feeling something either happened on his trip, or he's just going thru a rough patch. Or maybe in a funk.

I know in the summer of 2005, my paternal grandmother and maternal grandfather both died, about 2 months apart and I was really in a funk for about 2 or 3 months. In was a bad summer and fall all around. And unfortunately it wasn't really anything I could just discuss with someone... I was just in a funk and had to let things sort themselves out. But I met a ton of new friends that summer, plus a really cool chick (who almost became a FwB), and in the end things worked themselves out. Anyhoo, I'm rambling.

I think probably your best bet is to just call or email or IM, or whatever ya'll do mostly and just say "Hey how ya doing? Haven't heard from ya in a while and just wanted to make sure things are cool."

It's what a friend would do. And to me as a dude, doesn't appear clingy or anything like that. Just lets him know you are there to chat if he wants.

Good luck... hope it works out.
 
You guys are the BEST!
I took your advice, took a deep breath and called, very cas. He is dealing with stuff at work, and is indeed in a rough patch. I feel confident that things are status quo.
Thanks again...
SOmetimes a girl just needs some guy friends to keep her sane, and NOT clingy!
~Kisses~to all my lit-sters...
MsM!
 
TheDivineMsM said:
You guys are the BEST!
I took your advice, took a deep breath and called, very cas. He is dealing with stuff at work, and is indeed in a rough patch. I feel confident that things are status quo.
Thanks again...
SOmetimes a girl just needs some guy friends to keep her sane, and NOT clingy!
~Kisses~to all my lit-sters...
MsM!


Good to hear. :)

Now ya can think of some fun ways to get his mind off those things when ya seen him again. :D
 
TheDivineMsM said:
You guys are the BEST!
I took your advice, took a deep breath and called, very cas. He is dealing with stuff at work, and is indeed in a rough patch. I feel confident that things are status quo.
Thanks again...
SOmetimes a girl just needs some guy friends to keep her sane, and NOT clingy!
~Kisses~to all my lit-sters...
MsM!
Well I dunno about that. I mean I am, but not so sure about the rest of these guys. :p


Cool glad things are looking bright. :cool:
 
P. B. Walker said:
Good to hear. :)

Now ya can think of some fun ways to get his mind off those things when ya seen him again. :D


Funny you shoudl mention that PB...
I said to him...God, sounds like you need a stress releaving blow job! And you all know i am not the blow job queen...
He laughed...and said umm yeah!
 
TheDivineMsM said:
Funny you shoudl mention that PB...
I said to him...God, sounds like you need a stress releaving blow job! And you all know i am not the blow job queen...
He laughed...and said umm yeah!


It's hard to imagine (as a guy) when a really long, slow, teasing, very wet blowjob won't make you feel better. :D

Maybe even start it off with a nice long back rub with oil... moving to a butt massage (with lots of soft teasing grazing finger probes that tickle the balls), then a leg massage, flip over, good thigh massage, then the blowjob.

If that doesn't put a smile on his face, he needs medical intervention. LOL
 
P. B. Walker said:
It's hard to imagine (as a guy) when a really long, slow, teasing, very wet blowjob won't make you feel better. :D

Maybe even start it off with a nice long back rub with oil... moving to a butt massage (with lots of soft teasing grazing finger probes that tickle the balls), then a leg massage, flip over, good thigh massage, then the blowjob.

If that doesn't put a smile on his face, he needs medical intervention. LOL


LOL agreed...
And i have done just that...Not to this lad, but i have done that before...It was very nice indeed....
 
Snoozebutton2 said:
If that doesn't work he needs a understaker. Damn , damn, damn thats paradise.


Or i would have rubbed him so right he would have died right there...LOL
 
TheDivineMsM said:
Lucky...maybe...but apparently not smart...or they would still be around!
LMAO


Well, as much as I wish it were true, us men aren't always that smart.... or know when we just need a good blowjob. lol
 
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