the joy of oral sex!

[el_uno77]

Wow that's a hot experience... lucky lady! I absolutely love giving oral sex to my husband, that I get multiple orgasms almost everytime from it without any genital stimulation. The sensation of feeling his penis growing harder and going deeper in my throat is like nothing else!

So refreshing to read that men also experience the same kind of orgasm too!

thank you Anne.

 

[el_uno77]

When I was in my teens, and first started having sex with my HS GF at the time (this was in the 80s) I knew about eating a woman out (from Penthouse forum I'm sure). I ate my GF out, but just to get her to give me a BJ. When I first came into her mouth, and she swallowed it, thats a time in every mans life we'll remember. It wasnt until college when I discovered my fetish of eating a GF out. I was feeling playful one night in her apartment, and kept my GF at the point before her orgasm (I found my mom's book on Extended Sexual Orgasm (after my HS GF) and took it to heart), when I finally allowed my GF to come, it wasn't a garden variety orgasm, it was a grab my ears orgasm with my face drenched in her juices. It was at that moment, taking her to the heights of pleasure, that I became hooked. She was naturally hairy, and I loved her pubic hair - it was a great distraction to play with with my lips between assaults on her clit.

She had been assaulted as an undergrad (we met when she was in grad school, she now has a Phd), and turned herself completely off sexually for the remainder of her time as an undergrad. I took her virginity when she was 23. One night for my birthday she tried to take me into her mouth, her Apartment was pitch black and we were on her living room floor), but couldnt do it, I guess memories of what happened to her a few years before me were still in her mind. I held her (she was ugly crying hard thinking I was going to leave her) for quite a while. Slowly I was able to kiss her, then overtime I was able to nestle between her thighs and gave her a couple of orgasms, then I slipped inside her and joined her with one of my own, that I remember to this day.

We ended up living together for a year (with a lot of oral , but went our separate ways. 15 years later we had an affair - the first time in the hotel, she told me that after we had been together she had experimented with a couple of female lovers, but she told me no one ate her out like I had, and that I had never pressured her to perform that on me, meant the world to her.

For me, it is the most intimate thing a lover can do, and I love listening to my partner reacting to what my mouth is doing. The first weekend with my now wife we were in the hotel and over a weekend together I went down on her like 5-6 times. After my college lover, if a woman wants to take me into her mouth - I'm good with that , but if she doesnt, I'm ok with that too - my goal is her pleasure. I can orgasm one way or another.

yep! giving oral is number one for me. maybe i'll try my skills on a man and see what happens.

 

[tristantrotsky]

wow tristan...i would love to be the recipient of your oral skills! your description has me with a hard on....

There's only one logical way to deal with a rogue hard-on, and that is to suck it to full mutual satisfaction...!

 

[lit_ch3]

I've always loved giving oral, at least as much as receiving it, maybe more so. Then, for a while, was dating a girl who felt the same way. And everytime we tried to 69, she'd completely fall apart. Couldn't handle the stimulation. We'd fall apart, sometimes laughing, sometimes screaming in pleasure. We just couldn't get that down.

 

[Tayloroc]

Me too! So so satisfying for both!

 

[Milene]

My favorite thiing in life is giving oral sex (to women). I love how it stimulates all my senses - sight, taste, smell, sound, and of course, feeling. Love giving oral to a very responsive girl, so much so, it’s the main topic of every one of my Literotica stories.

 

[eroticspank]

I've always loved giving oral, at least as much as receiving it, maybe more so. Then, for a while, was dating a girl who felt the same way. And everytime we tried to 69, she'd completely fall apart. Couldn't handle the stimulation. We'd fall apart, sometimes laughing, sometimes screaming in pleasure. We just couldn't get that down.

I love the 69 position. I know it is not for everyone. In fact, it took a while for my wife and me to get it down. Sometimes she would just stop until I made her cum, and then continue with me. But I really enjoy it when she in on top, her pussy on my face. I am sure it would take me a long time to cum if I just had her give me a handjob. Having her wet pussy on or right above my face is such a big turn-on, I am ready to go when she grabs my dick. Plus we usually do a lot of foreplay, touching, and kissing before we get into position. So when she gets on top, she is already very wet and smells wonderful.
ES

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I can't remember having sex with a woman and not going down on her before we fucked. It's an essential, as far as I'm concerned.
Now, I also enjoy sucking cock, given the chance.

 

[lit_ch3]

I love the 69 position. I know it is not for everyone. In fact, it took a while for my wife and me to get it down. Sometimes she would just stop until I made her cum, and then continue with me. But I really enjoy it when she in on top, her pussy on my face. I am sure it would take me a long time to cum if I just had her give me a handjob. Having her wet pussy on or right above my face is such a big turn-on, I am ready to go when she grabs my dick. Plus we usually do a lot of foreplay, touching, and kissing before we get into position. So when she gets on top, she is already very wet and smells wonderful.
ES

You're so right. The sights and sounds and smells are intoxicating....

 

[eroticspank]

I guess I am from a different generation or maybe it was because I grew up in the Midwest. When I first started dating, giving the woman oral was never thought of or brought up. Maybe she would give you oral or a HJ to get you hard, and then it was intercourse. I found my love for oral when I had a gf that was very tight. The only way to enter her was lots of lube. So we tried oral, she got very wet and we fucked. I wanted to continue until she came but she was self-conscious about cumming on my face. One day I kept it up and she had a nice orgasm. She had a big smile on her face but it was still kind of taboo for her. But with my next gf it became a regular thing.
ES

 

[lit_ch3]

I dated a bisexual girl for a while in my late teens. She was very verbal, and very detailed in her instructions, and she taught me everything about eating pussy.

Years ago, under another username, I put this story up:

https://www.literotica.com/s/thank-you-8

 

[Pairaclities]

Interesting that a long time lover of mine did not particularly like giving oral - sucking cock. but on the ocassions that she did she got so hot and wet that the fucking was just awesome. I still don’t really understand the dichotomy of this, but perhaps it was a childhood training or experience in teens that drove a supposed taboo.

 

[tristantrotsky]

wow tristan...i would love to be the recipient of your oral skills! your description has me with a hard on....

That seems like an entirely reasonable suggestion...

 

[ImiGirrst]

So, a few questions/discussion items.
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I don't know that I've ever had a vaginal orgasm, but I definitely know I've had clitoral ones. But when I was married, it got to the point where my ex felt like he HAD to give me one before we had intercourse. Though just as likely, earlier in our marriage, I probably made the demand that he give me one because a) if he was going to get off, fair's fair and b) I liked how a clitoral orgasm made penetration so much more intense.
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That said, there were a lot of times that I felt a lot of pressure to cum. And that's been a real issue as I journey through menopause. Orgasms are more difficult to come by, but sex is still very enjoyable. And really, that's the whole point of this post. I want to ENJOY my time having sex. And I can't necessarily have as good of a time if so focused on getting off that I stop enjoying the journey.
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But really, now that I'm single again - I'm seeking perspective on what is....typical? (Cause we all know that normal is a setting on a dryer.) I've heard that it takes 45 minutes to really warm a woman up. But for those of you that really like to eat at the Y, is that something you look forward to? I've gone down on a couple of gf's and I admit, I got tired!
.
And it's only in my 50s that I'm really discovering how to switch things up in a single sex session (for a lack of a better way to describe it). You get tired of going down on me, so I go down on you. Maybe I switch to a HJ, maybe you do too. Somewhere in there, maybe a little dirty, naked conversation, maybe a little nibble and then some penetration - maybe a bit of masterbation - maybe pull back, so that over stimulated flesh can reset, maybe some edging. Maybe a little or a lot of each of these.
.
So I have no idea when I should think about 'getting on with it', if I've been laying there blissed out for 10 mins or 20. Does 30 mins make me a selfish lover or reveal that I have a difficult clit? Does it even matter?

Some potential lovers have told me they hoped I liked oral sex - and that just dumbfounded me. I mean, how could you not? But I guess a lot of women don't. And then there was the time that I was just getting going and my new lover...stopped. Did he think that was sufficient? Especially without checking in with me?
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Last question - I always felt bad when my ex asked me to sit on his face. For one thing, I couldn't actually relax because a) I was worried about hurting him, b) wondered like all hell how he could actually get around my pussy if I was sitting on it, c) was often pushed right up against the wall because of where his head was on the bed and d) I couldn't keep my knees bent that long. While d) is totally mine, are any of the others a consideration? I would like to learn how to have an orgasm in a position other than on my back, but it would take some time to teach by body how to have one. Which could mean even more time on my partner's face while i figured it out.
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Thanks for any perspective any one can give me for what is reasonable. And yes, I'll certainly take my own advise to talk more with my partner.

 

[Lickr4u]

So, a few questions/discussion items.
.
I don't know that I've ever had a vaginal orgasm, but I definitely know I've had clitoral ones. But when I was married, it got to the point where my ex felt like he HAD to give me one before we had intercourse. Though just as likely, earlier in our marriage, I probably made the demand that he give me one because a) if he was going to get off, fair's fair and b) I liked how a clitoral orgasm made penetration so much more intense.
.
That said, there were a lot of times that I felt a lot of pressure to cum. And that's been a real issue as I journey through menopause. Orgasms are more difficult to come by, but sex is still very enjoyable. And really, that's the whole point of this post. I want to ENJOY my time having sex. And I can't necessarily have as good of a time if so focused on getting off that I stop enjoying the journey.
.
But really, now that I'm single again - I'm seeking perspective on what is....typical? (Cause we all know that normal is a setting on a dryer.) I've heard that it takes 45 minutes to really warm a woman up. But for those of you that really like to eat at the Y, is that something you look forward to? I've gone down on a couple of gf's and I admit, I got tired!
.
And it's only in my 50s that I'm really discovering how to switch things up in a single sex session (for a lack of a better way to describe it). You get tired of going down on me, so I go down on you. Maybe I switch to a HJ, maybe you do too. Somewhere in there, maybe a little dirty, naked conversation, maybe a little nibble and then some penetration - maybe a bit of masterbation - maybe pull back, so that over stimulated flesh can reset, maybe some edging. Maybe a little or a lot of each of these.
.
So I have no idea when I should think about 'getting on with it', if I've been laying there blissed out for 10 mins or 20. Does 30 mins make me a selfish lover or reveal that I have a difficult clit? Does it even matter?

Some potential lovers have told me they hoped I liked oral sex - and that just dumbfounded me. I mean, how could you not? But I guess a lot of women don't. And then there was the time that I was just getting going and my new lover...stopped. Did he think that was sufficient? Especially without checking in with me?
.
Last question - I always felt bad when my ex asked me to sit on his face. For one thing, I couldn't actually relax because a) I was worried about hurting him, b) wondered like all hell how he could actually get around my pussy if I was sitting on it, c) was often pushed right up against the wall because of where his head was on the bed and d) I couldn't keep my knees bent that long. While d) is totally mine, are any of the others a consideration? I would like to learn how to have an orgasm in a position other than on my back, but it would take some time to teach by body how to have one. Which could mean even more time on my partner's face while i figured it out.
.
Thanks for any perspective any one can give me for what is reasonable. And yes, I'll certainly take my own advice to talk more with my

I’m not sure if there is any such time as reasonable. When finished both partners should be equally satisfied!
45 min is definitely NOT to long and for him to just stop is criminal, just saying. Lit is a wonderful place to find ways to “switch” it up. Seeking ideas through primate messaging a beautiful young women, she convinced to buy a wand, even though my wife as said no various times in the past, and now it’s her new favorite toy.

I’m pushing 60 this year and my wife slightly younger, is currently going through menopause. We found that her Libido has actually increased.

Most evenings are centered around her being pleased. Which they should be. Let’s face it, guys are pretty easy to get off. Her orgasms start off mostly clitoral and then a combination of sucking her clit and slowly fingering her G spot, then penetration after her first couple clitoral orgasms.

Lately we’ve switched it up by bringing cards to the bedroom. The first game is always strip poker. Loser of each game has to succumb to 10 min of pleasure. A timer is set and the fun begins. Sometimes she tied and blindfolded, or licked slowly through her lingerie, a new favorite is tied standing bent over a chair with a wand against her clit while I lick and nibble her ass. Sometimes I’m to stroke myself while watching her please herself with a vibrator then she’ll suck me while she orgasms. We’ll play several rounds with a break with a glass of wine in between rounds.

Having her sit on my face is often a request. She was always hesitant until she found that it would make me harder or bring the erection back to life. I guess just something primal with her wetness and smell smothered all over my face. Never did think about how her knees might feel. Maybe have her stand over me more?

The morning erection is my time. She’ll lay along side me and play with my erection and ass for about 30-45 min while she slowly wakes up. It could be followed by a blow job or when I can’t take anymore I’ll climb on top and fuck her like crazy. She usually doesn’t orgasm, I’ll make it up to her in the evening.

 

[ImiGirrst]

Oh, thank you so much for such a detailed message!

I’m not sure if there is any such time as reasonable. When finished both partners should be equally satisfied!

Well, realistically, sometimes you just don't have the time you

45 min is definitely NOT to long and for him to just stop is criminal, just saying. Lit is a wonderful place to find ways to “switch” it up. Seeking ideas through primate messaging a beautiful young women, she convinced to buy a wand, even though my wife as said no various times in the past, and now it’s her new favorite toy.

I’m pushing 60 this year and my wife slightly younger, is currently going through menopause. We found that her Libido has actually increased.

Most evenings are centered around her being pleased. Which they should be. Let’s face it, guys are pretty easy to get off. Her orgasms start off mostly clitoral and then a combination of sucking her clit and slowly fingering her G spot, then penetration after her first couple clitoral orgasms.

Lately we’ve switched it up by bringing cards to the bedroom. The first game is always strip poker. Loser of each game has to succumb to 10 min of pleasure. A timer is set and the fun begins. Sometimes she tied and blindfolded, or licked slowly through her lingerie, a new favorite is tied standing bent over a chair with a wand against her clit while I lick and nibble her ass. Sometimes I’m to stroke myself while watching her please herself with a vibrator then she’ll suck me while she orgasms. We’ll play several rounds with a break with a glass of wine in between rounds.

Having her sit on my face is often a request. She was always hesitant until she found that it would make me harder or bring the erection back to life. I guess just something primal with her wetness and smell smothered all over my face. Never did think about how her knees might feel. Maybe have her stand over me more?

The morning erection is my time. She’ll lay along side me and play with my erection and ass for about 30-45 min while she slowly wakes up. It could be followed by a blow job or when I can’t take anymore I’ll climb on top and fuck her like crazy. She usually doesn’t orgasm, I’ll make it up to her in the evening.

 

[Lickr4u]

For those “quick” moments.
A gummie a little earlier, a few drinks prior to loosen all inhibitions, and the vibrator set a little higher!

Communication during, tell me what you want, faster or slower, watch me.

Sometimes the 10 minutes is, I’ll only do what you tell me to. You’ll find what pleases your partner and he’ll find out about you.

 

[Sienna62]

I want to start this thread for those of us that enjoy giving oral sex. Oral sex is my number one thing to do with my wife. I consider myself lucky because my wife and I still enjoy sex. Despite going through menopause my wife looks forward to our special time together. She loves to lay on her back, put a pillow under her butt, one pillow under each leg and presents her self for my viewing pleasure. She has plump outer lips that I enjoy touching, kissing and licking. I take my time while I enjoy her warmth, the subtle muscle spasms and the taste of her secretions. There is nothing better under the sun! It doesn't stop there. I continue to touch, kiss and lick all over including her ass and that special area between both orifices. Her pussy opens ever so slowly and I am greeted with the most beautiful site that never seizes to amaze me. Eventually I spread her lips out further so that I can find her clit. I kiss and suck it ever so gently. Her muscle spasms increase and I know that she is having quick orgasms. I open my eyes to find her pulling and twisting her nipples while she enjoys my mouth. The best is yet to come when I take my tongue and flick her clit in every direction possible. Her legs open further and before having a body shaking orgasm she gives a low grunt. She pushes herself upwards giving me access to her contracting pussy. On many occassions she grabs her ankles which drives me crazy. I love the taste of her secretions so much so that I have an orgasm just from making her come. Needless to say I use my mouth to lap up anything left over. I finally stop, pull the pillows from under her and we lay down in each others arms to take a much needed nap.

Okay ya'll don't be shy. Regardless of what gender or sexual orientation you identify with tell us how or what you enjoy most about giving oral sex to your partner(s).

Every minute of the day

 

[Sienna62]

So, a few questions/discussion items.
.
I don't know that I've ever had a vaginal orgasm, but I definitely know I've had clitoral ones. But when I was married, it got to the point where my ex felt like he HAD to give me one before we had intercourse. Though just as likely, earlier in our marriage, I probably made the demand that he give me one because a) if he was going to get off, fair's fair and b) I liked how a clitoral orgasm made penetration so much more intense.
.
That said, there were a lot of times that I felt a lot of pressure to cum. And that's been a real issue as I journey through menopause. Orgasms are more difficult to come by, but sex is still very enjoyable. And really, that's the whole point of this post. I want to ENJOY my time having sex. And I can't necessarily have as good of a time if so focused on getting off that I stop enjoying the journey.
.
But really, now that I'm single again - I'm seeking perspective on what is....typical? (Cause we all know that normal is a setting on a dryer.) I've heard that it takes 45 minutes to really warm a woman up. But for those of you that really like to eat at the Y, is that something you look forward to? I've gone down on a couple of gf's and I admit, I got tired!
.
And it's only in my 50s that I'm really discovering how to switch things up in a single sex session (for a lack of a better way to describe it). You get tired of going down on me, so I go down on you. Maybe I switch to a HJ, maybe you do too. Somewhere in there, maybe a little dirty, naked conversation, maybe a little nibble and then some penetration - maybe a bit of masterbation - maybe pull back, so that over stimulated flesh can reset, maybe some edging. Maybe a little or a lot of each of these.
.
So I have no idea when I should think about 'getting on with it', if I've been laying there blissed out for 10 mins or 20. Does 30 mins make me a selfish lover or reveal that I have a difficult clit? Does it even matter?

Some potential lovers have told me they hoped I liked oral sex - and that just dumbfounded me. I mean, how could you not? But I guess a lot of women don't. And then there was the time that I was just getting going and my new lover...stopped. Did he think that was sufficient? Especially without checking in with me?
.
Last question - I always felt bad when my ex asked me to sit on his face. For one thing, I couldn't actually relax because a) I was worried about hurting him, b) wondered like all hell how he could actually get around my pussy if I was sitting on it, c) was often pushed right up against the wall because of where his head was on the bed and d) I couldn't keep my knees bent that long. While d) is totally mine, are any of the others a consideration? I would like to learn how to have an orgasm in a position other than on my back, but it would take some time to teach by body how to have one. Which could mean even more time on my partner's face while i figured it out.
.
Thanks for any perspective any one can give me for what is reasonable. And yes, I'll certainly take my own advise to talk more with my partner.

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