the line between bicurious and bisexual

[Etoile]

I have to say that curious is when you haven't acted on it..

I consider myself curious because even though I have had oral with a woman and made out with them, I have not returned the favor.

Until I do and decide that it is for me..(which I am sure it is)..I will not call myself bisexual. I don't think it would be right to those that actually are bisexual.

So wait, you have to enjoy licking a girl's pussy before you'll consider yourself bisexual? That's very interesting. I know plenty of bi women and dykes who don't enjoy that at all, just like there are guys who don't enjoy it. I wouldn't say a specific sexual practice defines a person's sexuality.

(edit: if this comes across as inflammatory or angry, I don't mean it to! I'm just stating it but I feel like I've phrased it kind of funny.)

 

[kitiara]

So wait, you have to enjoy licking a girl's pussy before you'll consider yourself bisexual? That's very interesting. I know plenty of bi women and dykes who don't enjoy that at all, just like there are guys who don't enjoy it. I wouldn't say a specific sexual practice defines a person's sexuality.

(edit: if this comes across as inflammatory or angry, I don't mean it to! I'm just stating it but I feel like I've phrased it kind of funny.)

Not taken wrong at all darlin'

Yup, that is how I feel-kinda. Now I might just not like it and still like women..But then I will have tried it and at least know.

For me, I just don't think it is fair to say I am a bisexual until I know that if I am-I would feel like a poser. Or like I was doing it for attention.

I don't want to do that. I guess it is just my own rules. LOL

 

[shy little fairy]

hmmm

how is "not fair" to those who are bisexual to call yourself bisexual even if you don't have experience? if it's what you want - it's what you are.
are you saying as a virgin, i can't label myself hetero-sexual yet?

 

[puddles38]

Crossing the line

There is no line drawn in the sand to cross.Someone who is Bi curious is just that curious.They will never go any farther than there fantasy's.

Some one who was born a Bi sexual will know as early as they can conceive of there feelings.They will have both a loving and sexual relationship with men and women.

Sorry I took so long to answer been out with back surgery.

Puddles

 

[Sycamore]

I have recently come to the opinion that nobody is 100% 'straight'. There will be males who will say that they are, although probably not too many on a liberated site like Literotica.

My rationale for this is fairly simple - 'normal' porn films cater for men and a large part of those films involve the sight of erect cocks being used to perform various roles that need no further explanation. I have seen films where black dots have appeared when a blow-job was being done and you also frequently see women using various plastic toys. Now, what would you rather see? In my humble opinion, a real cock looks so much better.

So basically put, an erect cock is a horny/erotic sight that turns almost everybody on and so for all the other men who accept this, i would argue that we must all be bi-curious . I struggled to accept this at first but now feel great and i get a thrill talking about it. I do not 'fancy' men like I do women but giving a blow-job certainly does look good fun!

I only got the internet about about 5 months ago and that rapidly advanced my already held interest in cross dressing. As a result I am now turned by the sight of dressed 'girls' and, as someone else mentioned, I really enjoy cyber sex with like minded people. These are things that about a year ago I would never have even considered.

I have never had any bi-experience but definitely becoming more curious!!!

 

[ExplicitAngel]

 

[69forever]

Here we go again....

To me, someone who is "bicurious" is not sure if they are attracted to the same sex or not, but has a real curiosity about it and is probably interested in experimenting to find out. If you've had sexual experiences with the same gender, and you continue to desire it, I would consider you bisexual.

Is one encounter enough to know? Maybe, maybe not. I would say it depends on each individual person's situation leading up to that one encounter. Also, I don't believe every bisexual is also "biamorous" as well.

Just kidding. When I first came here and saw discussions about Bi vs. Gay vs. Hetero, I wasn't sure where I fell in the "labeling".

I had both hetero and homo sexual experiences from my teens on. Society, my upbringing and the predudices therin made me question and hide my sexuality. I loved the sex with a man but was never in love with a man, or concidered it. Until coming here.
My loves, the intimate emotional relationship, have always been with women. It is now.

I can only be in love with one person, of either gender. So I am Bi-sexual or just sexual....and maybe Bi-amorous??? Now that's how these labels screw things up. ~soft smile~

 

[adidasv40]

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[909dude]

Bi

I like having sex with men but love making love with a woman. What does that make me????? Horny LOL

 

[Angel]

Quoted From Another Thread

You don't need actual experience to be Gay or Straight, and I don't think you need experience to be Bi-Sexual. I was quite sure of my sexuality before my experience.

Bi-Sexual is Bi-Sexual.

IMHO, Bi-Curious is simply when you're curious but unsure not only if you are, but if you want to take it a step further and find out.

I mean seriously. Does a straight person have to have a sexual encounter to know they're straight? I don't think so.


In all honesty, the label can only be truly applied by yourself. Whatever you feel you are is what you are, nobody else can define it for you, even if they think they should.

 

[Pookie]

Re: Here we go again....

Just kidding. When I first came here and saw discussions about Bi vs. Gay vs. Hetero, I wasn't sure where I fell in the "labeling".

I had both hetero and homo sexual experiences from my teens on. Society, my upbringing and the predudices therin made me question and hide my sexuality. I loved the sex with a man but was never in love with a man, or concidered it. Until coming here.
My loves, the intimate emotional relationship, have always been with women. It is now.

I can only be in love with one person, of either gender. So I am Bi-sexual or just sexual....and maybe Bi-amorous??? Now that's how these labels screw things up. ~soft smile~

I don't think it's too hard for a person to label themself if they want. I know I'm sexually attracted to both sexes. I've been in several romantic relationships with the same sex, and quite a few with the opposite sex. I can understand those that haven't had an experience with the same sex being a bit confused and frustrated though about their own sexual orientation.

But If the labels fit, then so be it. It really doesn't change me in any way though.

 

[conntom2002]

i consider myself bicurious in a limited way.....

i love to see big diks...at the gym showers,,, in a porno...i fantasize about sucking one to fruition....but i wont consider myself bi sexual unless i do it and like it....

that being said.....well..i was gonna make some great point but i really need to masterbate now...i saw the biggest limp dik ever at the gym tonight......