Things That Make You Uncomfortable....But Also Turn You On

This is definitely a situation that makes me uncomfortable and also turns me on.
Her heavy breathing - is it excitement or trepidation? Being secured helpless into a chair legs lewdly wide open. The fetish wear both excites me while knowing these types of garments often don't feel that comfortable to wear - leather bra, very high heels, garter belt... restraints in this image are very unforgiving...metal spreader bar, cuffs to wrists. I can't tell if her ankles are secured beyond the heavy shoe straps and the spreader bar.

The approaching man feels very predatory... her response is correspondingly prey like.
I wonder if the man pulling her hair back is reassuring her or verbally asserting control and expectations.

Is he telling her that's she's his good girl and he'll keep her safe, or is he reminding her this is just what she has said she wants. That he's giving her all of the loss of control and allowing another man to use her in all the depraved ways she has whispered in the dark to him. The way he looks up at the approaching man also has a bit of a supplication feel- like he's checking to be sure that the presentation of the woman meets his approval, as her head tilts back with the pull on her hair and her neck exposed.

Another element of this that seems to heighten my discomfort with this scene is the full brightness of the room where there are no shadows to hide in. I also can't decide if it is worse to be able to see what is happening or if I'd rather be blind folded. Both options turn me on and freak me out in this scene/setting. She is not gagged - but appears to be holding her tongue in this clip. Do they want to hear her beg? Or is she expected to not protest or question? Again... I am conflicted about whether it would be more arousing/crazy making/triggering to be gagged or become a whimpering mewling mess of inarticulate subby noises.

It all makes me deeply uncomfortable and turns me on as much or more than she appears. I am so conflicted about the desire for complete loss of control and situations that involve more than one man. It's complicated fantasy fodder. I crave the idea of such a scene while simultaneously afraid that I might be dared into going through with it. My panting terror would echo hers. And my panties would be soaked before the second man ever touched me. 😈🥵

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This is definitely a situation that makes me uncomfortable and also turns me on.
Her heavy breathing - is it excitement or trepidation? Being secured helpless into a chair legs lewdly wide open. The fetish wear both excites me while knowing these types of garments often don't feel that comfortable to wear - leather bra, very high heels, garter belt... restraints in this image are very unforgiving...metal spreader bar, cuffs to wrists. I can't tell if her ankles are secured beyond the heavy shoe straps and the spreader bar.

The approaching man feels very predatory... her response is correspondingly prey like.
I wonder if the man pulling her hair back is reassuring her or verbally asserting control and expectations.

Is he telling her that's she's his good girl and he'll keep her safe, or is he reminding her this is just what she has said she wants. That he's giving her all of the loss of control and allowing another man to use her in all the depraved ways she has whispered in the dark to him. The way he looks up at the approaching man also has a bit of a supplication feel- like he's checking to be sure that the presentation of the woman meets his approval, as her head tilts back with the pull on her hair and her neck exposed.

Another element of this that seems to heighten my discomfort with this scene is the full brightness of the room where there are no shadows to hide in. I also can't decide if it is worse to be able to see what is happening or if I'd rather be blind folded. Both options turn me on and freak me out in this scene/setting. She is not gagged - but appears to be holding her tongue in this clip. Do they want to hear her beg? Or is she expected to not protest or question? Again... I am conflicted about whether it would be more arousing/crazy making/triggering to be gagged or become a whimpering mewling mess of inarticulate subby noises.

It all makes me deeply uncomfortable and turns me on as much or more than she appears. I am so conflicted about the desire for complete loss of control and situations that involve more than one man. It's complicated fantasy fodder. I crave the idea of such a scene while simultaneously afraid that I might be dared into going through with it. My panting terror would echo hers. And my panties would be soaked before the second man ever touched me. 😈🥵

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I love when you analyze pictures you post! So much food for thought
 
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I have never liked the idea of boot/shoe licking - it just seems gross.
But this... somehow the elegance of this image where she is both furniture and obedient submissive willing to do anything to show/prove that she is his willing toy... this makes me uncomfortable and turns me on.
 
watching bareback caning in bdsm scenes followed by sodomy bareback creampie
 
Going off of a few points that the last poster mentioned - Answering embarrassing questions is one of them for me too. Stripping and showing off in front of someone in person or on cam... Being groped... Being naked and observed by others... and public play.
 
I'm the opposite. I'm more enthralled by eye contact. The more intense, the better. Not consistent throughout, but enough to show my passion a different way.

Rape play. It chills me consistently because of how many women I know that have suffered. But with a woman who wants to act it out, I find myself both disgusted and turned on.
I had a gf who wanted me to rape her, it wasn’t really rape as she wanted me to do it. More of the being chased, held down, etc. We did while house sitting. She ran through the house, I eventually caught her on the stairs, held her down, lifted skirt, ripped her pants of and entered her. Wasn’t long until she responded to my thrusts so knew she really wanted sex. Told off later for ruining her favourite thong and red mark in her waist and bottom where I ripped them off. She did enjoy..
 
when a stranger stands behind me and presses his hard in my rear cleavage, in a public place or a private party gathering, although i like the daring gesture, it turns me on.
 
I used to think being anally penetrated with a finger, especially if it got a bit wiggly.

Then I met someone who did it just right, and even with her nails it felt really damn good.
 
From the dominant standpoint teasing a helpless sub into a frenzy with a vibrating wand to the point they are literally squirming out of control, begging you to finish them off and let them cum.... but you want to hear them say some really dirty things that they would never ever utter... Then you just barely brush the vibrator on the tip of their clit for a millisecond and before "say it" can come out of your mouth, she blurts out every filthy thing you want to hear, as you immediately bring the wand to it's target and she explodes..... Getting her reward
 
This is definitely a situation that makes me uncomfortable and also turns me on.
Her heavy breathing - is it excitement or trepidation? Being secured helpless into a chair legs lewdly wide open. The fetish wear both excites me while knowing these types of garments often don't feel that comfortable to wear - leather bra, very high heels, garter belt... restraints in this image are very unforgiving...metal spreader bar, cuffs to wrists. I can't tell if her ankles are secured beyond the heavy shoe straps and the spreader bar.

The approaching man feels very predatory... her response is correspondingly prey like.
I wonder if the man pulling her hair back is reassuring her or verbally asserting control and expectations.

Is he telling her that's she's his good girl and he'll keep her safe, or is he reminding her this is just what she has said she wants. That he's giving her all of the loss of control and allowing another man to use her in all the depraved ways she has whispered in the dark to him. The way he looks up at the approaching man also has a bit of a supplication feel- like he's checking to be sure that the presentation of the woman meets his approval, as her head tilts back with the pull on her hair and her neck exposed.

Another element of this that seems to heighten my discomfort with this scene is the full brightness of the room where there are no shadows to hide in. I also can't decide if it is worse to be able to see what is happening or if I'd rather be blind folded. Both options turn me on and freak me out in this scene/setting. She is not gagged - but appears to be holding her tongue in this clip. Do they want to hear her beg? Or is she expected to not protest or question? Again... I am conflicted about whether it would be more arousing/crazy making/triggering to be gagged or become a whimpering mewling mess of inarticulate subby noises.

It all makes me deeply uncomfortable and turns me on as much or more than she appears. I am so conflicted about the desire for complete loss of control and situations that involve more than one man. It's complicated fantasy fodder. I crave the idea of such a scene while simultaneously afraid that I might be dared into going through with it. My panting terror would echo hers. And my panties would be soaked before the second man ever touched me. 😈🥵

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Incredibly well put!
 
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I find this image to be beautiful. And then I start wondering wtf is going on here? Is this the start of a 3-some? Is the woman in red being groomed for a new role? A new man? To be an escorts? To be the plaything or eye candy for a kinky event? Is she to be auctioned for services at a million dollar a plate hoi polloi?
In any case - it all turns me on and makes me uncomfortable. I'm not at all bi and multi partner encounters are not my thing. But this scene intrigues me. I want to be in the picture and see what happens next.
 
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I find this image to be beautiful. And then I start wondering wtf is going on here? Is this the start of a 3-some? Is the woman in red being groomed for a new role? A new man? To be an escorts? To be the plaything or eye candy for a kinky event? Is she to be auctioned for services at a million dollar a plate hoi polloi?
In any case - it all turns me on and makes me uncomfortable. I'm not at all bi and multi partner encounters are not my thing. But this scene intrigues me. I want to be in the picture and see what happens next.
I've played some wonderful roles like this in the chat (I AM bi and love multi-partner things). I think being the submissive unicorn of a powerful couple is one of the most exciting things I've participated in (in real life, chat, and reading some incredible stories here). Men and women have a different energy and style of dominance, but it's also blended with my own programming of what each of them mean and should be. The sexual cocktail that results is one of my favs.
 
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