Thinking about letting a man fuck me

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I definitely agree with cleaning yourself before a date. As Hitchhiker says, it is not pleasant to have a partner banging up against fecal material, and for the partner, having a piece of stinking brown shit at the end of his dick when he pulls out isn't pleasant, either, irrespective of whether he's wearing a condom or not.

However, I haven't experienced the post-coital problems that he describes. I never bareback, but have heard that sperm because of its strong alkaline Ph can kill normal bacteria in the colon, and that will cause loose stools and gas.

Personally, if I could be fucked three or four or five times a week I would love it.

As I have aged, I don't fuck as often as I used to. I figure it is for the best anyway as I want to be satisfied and satisfy my guy without wearing him out. I don't think that most guys could get fucked all the time. However, I think that is about getting sore, not about loose bowels and farting. I'm sure there may be some of that right after sex when many go to the bathroom.

Keep in mind that for some of us who are also romantic towards men, we don't leave after it is all over but rather cuddle & sleep next to our partners. I'm sure that I would have noticed if a bottom had to keep farting or needing to go to the bathroom all night long.

I think most bowel behaviors are more likely tied to diet and whether someone has something like an intestinal virus. One f-buddy I had when I was young, was almost always clean and he didn't always know when I would show up. So I know he wasn't douching just for me, or 24x7 with some Howard Hughes cleanliness fetish. Note he was a very heavy beer drinker. One day he thought he should drink red wine instead. Well something in the wine caused him to have a lot of bowel problems. That was the only time I was aware of that he had problems big time.