Those in open relationships, what are your rules?

[Kolejdayz]

Yes

 

[Swuchrow]

My wife and are in an open relationship. She doesn’t ask questions and I don’t ask questions. I know she fucks her bf and she knows a fuck women and submit to men.

 

[JackStayII]

My wife and are in an open relationship. She doesn’t ask questions and I don’t ask questions. I know she fucks her bf and she knows a fuck women and submit to men.

Sounds like the two of you found what works best for you.

 

[Swuchrow]

Sounds like the two of you found what works best for you.

The cherry on top would be having her invite me to watch her with other men. So far this has been a no go. I think the only way this will happen is if we meet a man at a bar. She has a few drinks and I convince her to bring him to the bedroom or hotel room.

 

[gtnlynn]

Our rules were no sex with friends (one exception); condoms required (two exceptions); one "date" only per man; full disclosure of who/where/when/what. She chose to have sex with others in our 30's, but stopped when she turned 40. She still has permission, but chooses not to do anything.

 

[VioletClit]

We tried to create "rules", but we found them too limiting and we both often broke them ... often in the heat of the moment. The one rule we have never broken and that we retain is complete honesty. We do not hid anything from each other. And that honesty actually develops an added intimacy to our relationship. So, we now have a "no rules" relationship when it comes to sex and relationships with other people. My husband is my #1, and I am his ... and a rule cannot make that happen or change that.
But, the funniest rule I come across in the LS is the "no kissing" rule. Kissing is fun and really adds to the play. But I have never understood the idea that you are allowed to put your inside someone else's body (in various ways), but God forbid that you should allow your lips to touch or have your tongue in someone's mouth! Just always SMH in wonder at that one!

 

[Naughtylo]

Our rules are we can have sex with anybody we want to but we have to clear it with eachother before hand.

 

[easyoff]

Our rules are we can have sex with anybody we want to but we have to clear it with eachother before hand.

Sort of kills the spur of the moment sex.

 

[Naughtylo]

Not at all hun.

 

[VioletClit]

You can't get "pre-clearance" @Naughtylo ? That way y'all can go to a party and split up and enjoy as things develop?

 

[Naughtylo]

A quick phone call is all it takes.
If we are at the same party we dont need to call as we both know why we're there.

 

[Naughtylo]

It works for us and that's all that matters.

 

[Robbo694u]

You can't get "pre-clearance" @Naughtylo ? That way y'all can go to a party and split up and enjoy as things develop?

A hall pass for those spontaneous or unexpected salacious events that get the mind racing and the juices flowing.... sounds good!

 

[VioletClit]

It works for us and that's all that matters.

Very true! No judgement here. I was just asking to clarify, and you did. It makes sense to be a bit more free and spontaneous - as you say - when you're at a LS party together! Enjoy yourselves!