To trying something new

[MastersDelight]

When was the last time you tried something new, either in the bedroom or in everyday life? I'd love to hear about it, for better or worse. What did you do? How did it make you feel? Would you do it again?

I had been talking to my Master about anal plugs. I used to not have any interest in anal play but we dabbled in it per his request and now I love it. It's not my first choice but sometimes I get a craving for it you know? Anyway he's been talking about me topping him and I (jokingly) brought up butt plugs. I know anal is a hard limit for him. He was firmly against it still, but last night during a session ( without my knowledge) he used a very small plug that I don't use anymore on himself. AND LIKED IT! I was really surprised and happy for him so I thought I'd share. There's no one else I can really celebrate with about this sort of thing so. There you go!

Anyone else?

 

[Blue]

I tried to wear shorts once.
Didn't like them.

 

[MastersDelight]

I tried to wear shorts once.
Didn't like them.

Lol not even in the summer? I guess I can relate, I don't wear shorts outside the house, capris only if I have to.

 

[MeekMe]

I try new foods whenever I can. Recently I added beets, pickled celery root, and couscous to the menu. Goat liver didn't work out. No matter what, I can't get over the flavor and texture.

 

[MastersDelight]

I try new foods whenever I can. Recently I added beets, pickled celery root, and couscous to the menu. Goat liver didn't work out. No matter what, I can't get over the flavor and texture.

Liver is definitely different. I personally like chicken and deer liver but more of a side than a main dish. I haven't tried anything new in food for a while. Maybe I should...

 

[midwestyankee]

Liver is definitely different. I personally like chicken and deer liver but more of a side than a main dish. I haven't tried anything new in food for a while. Maybe I should...

Deep-fried chicken livers. More than two meals of this per year and you may die young, but you will die most happy.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny-------<-------that's me!

I tried to wear shorts once.
Didn't like them.

Denny-------------- I never wore shorts after I left home and mommy stopped making me wear the ones she made from feed sacks.

I must have been in my early 20's. We belonged to a company camping and square dance club. They had strange things to do occasionally. Nothing sexual, remember company?
All of the men had to wear shorts at the next campout or pay a small fine. That was fine with me but my wife bought me a pair off off white long shorts. Then she sewed feet all over them to show square dance steps.

I wore them all weekend and lived. After that I was wearing short shorts and loving the coolness on my cool legs.
Photos at 5:00 o'clock somewhere.

 

[MastersDelight]

BDSM is new.

Porn is new ( and frankly still often very conflicting.....I do not feel ready for video )

I really want to try some thing else, toy wise but there is some dithering from G he sees as specific practicality concerns because of my personal situation.

I like novelty IF I feel safe. If I do not feel safe I don't. What 'safe' involves depends on the situation.

You're very cautious and rightfully so I think.

 

[MastersDelight]

Deep-fried chicken livers. More than two meals of this per year and you may die young, but you will die most happy.

I hardly ever eat liver now, it's probably been a couple years. Used to eat it at lot at my grandmas but that was before she disowned me.

 

[MastersDelight]

Denny-------------- I never wore shorts after I left home and mommy stopped making me wear the ones she made from feed sacks.

I must have been in my early 20's. We belonged to a company camping and square dance club. They had strange things to do occasionally. Nothing sexual, remember company?
All of the men had to wear shorts at the next campout or pay a small fine. That was fine with me but my wife bought me a pair off off white long shorts. Then she sewed feet all over them to show square dance steps.

I wore them all weekend and lived. After that I was wearing short shorts and loving the coolness on my cool legs.
Photos at 5:00 o'clock somewhere.

Haha yes, please pictures.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Mindfondler]

When was the last time you tried something new, either in the bedroom or in everyday life? I'd love to hear about it, for better or worse. What did you do? How did it make you feel? Would you do it again?

Since starting our exploration of BDSM together nine months ago, my wife and I have been trying a lot of new things: floggers, rope, electricity, wax play. All good fun -- and unexpectedly so in some cases!

The most recent development for us was tickling. My wife had always maintained that she hates being tickled, insisting that she didn't want me to do it to her because she might lash out uncontrollably and hurt me. A few weeks ago, though, when I had finished buckling her wrists and ankles securely to a Saint Andrew's Cross, I realised that her concern was no longer valid. I tickled her almost relentlessly (pausing only to let her catch her breath between fits of giggling) and I drew sadistic pleasure from watching her ineffective wriggling and squirming.

To my surprise, when I eventually released my wife from her 'X'-shaped captor, she didn't try to punch out my lights. She didn't even slap me or shout at me. Instead, she admitted that she had "sort of" enjoyed the experience. I think she has started to understand the paradox that bondage and submission can sometimes give freedom.
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[MastersDelight]

Since starting our exploration of BDSM together nine months ago, my wife and I have been trying a lot of new things: floggers, rope, electricity, wax play. All good fun -- and unexpectedly so in some cases!

The most recent development for us was tickling. My wife had always maintained that she hates being tickled, insisting that she didn't want me to do it to her because she might lash out uncontrollably and hurt me. A few weeks ago, though, when I had finished buckling her wrists and ankles securely to a Saint Andrew's Cross, I realised that her concern was no longer valid. I tickled her almost relentlessly (pausing only to let her catch her breath between fits of giggling) and I drew sadistic pleasure from watching her ineffective wriggling and squirming.

To my surprise, when I eventually released my wife from her 'X'-shaped captor, she didn't try to punch out my lights. She didn't even slap me or shout at me. Instead, she admitted that she had "sort of" enjoyed the experience. I think she has started to understand the paradox that bondage and submission can sometimes give freedom.
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Amazing! I love this, I never even thought of tickling. I'll be sure my Master doesn't hear about this. And electricity sounds... Scary. You're brave sir.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny-------<-------that's me!

Everything leads us in a circle. I ended up on this forum when several members of another suggested we put our stories here.
That site is mostly a photo site with short comments.
First I'll say my wife hated being tickled.

There were several posters, I believe in Germany, adding photos in pubs and information about tickle games.
One thing led to another and we stopped at a small bar we used to attend until it closed for years. New owners. I suggested some sort of tickle games since the law cracked down on topless and wet T-shirt contests which my wife enjoyed several years before.
The owners agreed and set up a place to play. Rather than a table there was a large easy chair like we have in living rooms but with collars and regular truck tarp straps for attaching someone to it.
My wife was the first volunteer, wearing what she usually wears, very little. The game remained a tickle game and nothing really sexual happened.
Now the bar tickle game is popular.
I took it to another level with some of Dollie's special friends in an automoblie garage. Again she agreed to be the tickled. just no feet tickling, was her rule.
These were games we never considered yet seem to be enjoyed by others.

And many wonder where we get all of our stories!

 

[RawHumor]

I was able to try a velvet wand and a tens unit last weekend (in non sexual but experimental ways).

Electricity play was always a bit of a limit for me... they were both interesting, but neither was one I'd really feel excited about bringing into sex play.

 

[MastersDelight]

I love and hate and love and tickling. It's always been a favourite.

I also love the idea of electricity. . G is unbend ably no on electricity though.

I think I would pee if tickled lol.

I was shocked once by a lamp. It sucked, I couldn't imagine using it in play.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[MastersDelight]

He used the riding crop on me while fucking me from behind. oh....my.....god....

 

[LucyBee01]

Master and I played together in a public bdsm play party for the first time recently. He was the spanker, me the spankee
We both really enjoyed it, both the activity and the fact it was in public so will definitely do that again.

 

[Freya_Gin]

He used the riding crop on me while fucking me from behind. oh....my.....god....

I used to love my back being flogged and being held by my hair while being fucked from behind in my subbie days. Hell, it kinda sounds like fun even now.

 

[Freya_Gin]

Nothing sexual, remember company?

Is that like a chat room? No, wait, chat rooms are made for cybering... wait a minute, I'll get this...

Kidding. I'm 45, of course I remember. But seriously, does anyone do this anymore?

 

[MastersDelight]

Master and I played together in a public bdsm play party for the first time recently. He was the spanker, me the spankee
We both really enjoyed it, both the activity and the fact it was in public so will definitely do that again.

We're also talking about joining a play party group in our area. I'm excited but nervous, not sure what to expect. I think the first time we'll just observe....

 

[Mindfondler]

We're also talking about joining a play party group in our area. I'm excited but nervous, not sure what to expect. I think the first time we'll just observe....

That's a good idea. For our first play party, my wife and I agreed that we'd just go along and watch -- no pressure. As it turned out, though, it didn't take long for us to cast aside our inhibitions and join in with gusto.
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