Today I picked up...

[SweetCherry]

....my divorce papers from the county court house. I looked at that stack of papers and just shook my head. I then look at the very helpful woman behind the desk and commented that maybe three should be this much paperwork required to get married. Either that or show everyone that stack before they fill out for the marriage lisence. I think divorce rates would drop drasticly. I'm guessing a lot of people would rethink taking that step and getting married in the first place.

*sighs*

 

[alltherage]

its the last lap in a very tiring marathon. hang in. it does end. ....................eventually.

 

[SweetCherry]

I just cringe looking at that stack. Not because I dread getting the civorce, but because I loathe filing out forms. Especially when there's 50 or more pages of instructions alone. I think divorce and income tax must be created by the similar torture master.

 

[Oilpainter]

I have been there too SweetCherry. Just know you have now emerged into the light and there is life after divorce. Good luck my friend.

 

[SweetCherry]

Thank you, Oilpainter. I'll be glad to get it done. i've been wanting a divorce for 2 years now, and it's finally coming thru. I just wish I didn't have all the paperwork to do.

 

[Debbie]

Think of Draco as you fill in the forms. The time will fly then, lol
just don't get too intimate in your thoughts and get distracted.

 

[SweetCherry]

Debs, my eyes keep crossing and rolling back in my head as I read the forms and instructions. Now I know why I never wanted to be a lawyer. I'd fall asleep in court. It was bad enough on jury duty.

 

[Orwell84]

Sweetcherry, around here the divorce papers consist of 3 or 4 pages. Don't know about the instructions, though. Are you sure all of the papers apply to your situation?

 

[SweetCherry]

Orwell, I went into the local courthouse and got the ones that deal with divorce with children. Seeing as how I've got the 2 rugrats, these ones apply. It's not ALL pages that need to be filled in, but there's a rathre large amount of things to do. The instructions on the packet they gave me say "Disolution of Marriage with childre", sections 1 and 2. I went to the court administrator's office and asked and that's what I was given.

 

[LittleMsNaughty]

Great news Cherry.......... bummer about all the paperwork - I hate paperwork which is why all our bills etc stay in a pile on the table til I eventually get round to filing everything....... lucky Wookie likes to live like a pig in shit...

 

[SweetCherry]

Great news Cherry.......... bummer about all the paperwork - I hate paperwork which is why all our bills etc stay in a pile on the table til I eventually get round to filing everything....... lucky Wookie likes to live like a pig in shit...

Aren't wookies and pigs somehow related? I was thinking maybe warthogs. I get the impression he's somewhat like Pumba from the Lion King.

 

[Orwell84]

Orwell, I went into the local courthouse and got the ones that deal with divorce with children. Seeing as how I've got the 2 rugrats, these ones apply. It's not ALL pages that need to be filled in, but there's a rathre large amount of things to do. The instructions on the packet they gave me say "Disolution of Marriage with childre", sections 1 and 2. I went to the court administrator's office and asked and that's what I was given.

Sounds like the right papers. I hope this difficult time passes quickly for you.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Best of luck with the process sweety.

 

[SweetCherry]

Sounds like the right papers. I hope this difficult time passes quickly for you.

Thank you. And thank you for answering my questions the other day. At least I knew where to go and what to do.

TH, I'm sure it'll all go well. It just takes time to get thru all those questions and decipher legal-ese.

 

[Orwell84]

Thank you. And thank you for answering my questions the other day. At least I knew where to go and what to do.


You are welcome. Glad I was able to help in some small way.

 

[Jim_Henson]

Fine then... I might still talk to you sometimes.

 

[SweetCherry]

I got a better idea. How about you coem and read me this stack of papers that's supposed to be my declaration of independence. My eyes keep crossing and I get a headache after like 20 minutes of trying to decipher what they want in each blank.

 

[Jim_Henson]

You really sure hire someone else to think for you.

I'm happy to see that you are on the way.

 

[SweetCherry]

Hell, if I could afford to hire someone to think for me, I'd have had a lawyer and been divorced months ago.

And yeah, I'm on my way. I just needed a bit of a nudge here and there from friends who care enough to remind me why I've got to stop being scared.

 

[Jim_Henson]

I do scare people dont I.

 

[SweetCherry]

You've never scared me. Then again, I'm not exactly what could be considered normal.

 

[JackIsCool]

You should have no reason to be scared, you are beautiful and your posts are always good to read.