Try This & Report Back

[LivelyLilly]

I kind of figured out how to give my spouse a combined orgasm using my fingers by trial and error and have found a combination that seems to work towards giving her either multiple orgasms or one that lasts a long time, it is amazing to experience (hell, almost get some sort orgasm myself just feeling what is radiating off of her). What I found was once she is orgasming to go lightly on her clit with my thump while using my other fingers to stimulate inside, concentrating on that, so the clit doesn't get over stimulated. According to my spouse it is way, way more whole body then a clit orgasm. Her favorite seems to be getting an orgasm by this method and then having good old sex (usually with her on top), the prior orgasm seems to change how the later one happens, lot more intense or so she says

Yes, I have noticed that the earlier orgasms activate my nerves so subsequent ones are more intense. This seems to fit in well with the theory that the more the merrier, but I still conk out after four. I'm going to stock up on some energy bars, I think.

 

[Mr.G]

""the theory that the more the merrier""

I'm curious as to whether this is a result of direct nerve stimulus OR a massive increase in hormone production. G-Gasms have been acknowledged by some sources as THE greatest stimulant for oxytocin production in the brain (#2 BTW is nipple munching - again I think this all has to do with birthing mechanics) and can greatly enhance feelings of sexual satisfaction to the point where the most common phrase uttered when this begins to work is: ""I can't get enough.""

It seems that the increased production of oxytocin (the LUV hormone) can be stimulated by G & A spot manipulation at virtually ANY age ... Ok ... I'm thinking OLDER - NOT younger. Like any muscle the glands responsible for the production can be poked into high gear and after that the body craves the feeling and then, like any addiction, craves even more. Oveall this contrbutes to a feeling of increased sexuality, an increase in sexual self-confidence and typically an increase in trust/love in the whole relationship.

 

[NippleMuncher]

G-Gasms have been acknowledged by some sources as THE greatest stimulant for oxytocin production in the brain (#2 BTW is nipple munching ...

Did someone call for me?

 

[Mr.G]

700,000 !!!!

I'm wondering how many EXTRA orgasms that represents.

Yes, NM, I realized when I typed that I was invoking you. How's your summer shaping up?

 

[plainlazy]

Thank you so much Mr G, works a treat. How long would you recommend before we do it again? She loved it but said she was so tired from it. And I'm not sure but doing it often will the magic wear off/ anticipated be less so less intense results?

 

[Mr.G]

Welcome

TO THE CLUB.

Thanks for the feedback, Plain. I'm so glad it worked for ya'll.

Here's my take on the "procedure." From my experience, feedback here and other posts AND from what women have emailed me with is this: It only gets BETTER. There is no "Ho Huuum, we did this last night *boring* ...can't you think of something else ....*crickets* ? ""

What I've heard and read a LOT is that "Before it was all for him ... now it's ME TOO and I can't get enough."

There really does seem to be a surge in oxytocin production that affects both their sexuality and their sensuality. They have more self-confidence. They seem to be horny ALL the time. They can and DO orgasm faster/easier using other methods too. Even their friends / co-workers will notice the difference.

Yup, it IS exhausting for them especially if they have a dozen or more O's when they are used to having one. It's not like they're used to having one REAL one and these are little minis (for most women anyway). These are as intense or more so than their usual one. Personally the biggest turn on for me and most of the guys who post or email me is the new ability to control her O's and give her as many as she could possibly want or need. Sometimes, if you're getting kinky - MORE.

So to clarify .... she will probably want it as often as you can get your thumb UP. You can make it a rare treat if that's your thing but IMHO you have woken the TIGER in her and her hunger for O's - and you - will just continue. Have fun and if you have a few seconds let us know if or how she has changed with this new found "talent."

 

[CatBrown]

Reporting back

Well, Mr.G, you'll be happy to know you have another devoted disciple. I never did get the hubby to participate, but now have a partner who excels at g-spot stimulation! I am an ADDICT!!!. In 39 years of sexual activity, never have I begged for "More" over and over again, until now.
This weekend has opened my eyes to the incredible world of g-gasms. I have a healthy libido anyway, but WOW! This is incredible! If anyone out there still has doubts, get past them, honey, this is the real thing.
Thanks again!

 

[MR.GGG]

As A Devoted Disciple

CATBROWN ... Thanks for the post/feedback. As you KNOW it is your DUTY to pass this on. I do all the time(car dealerships, dog parks ...). Friends don't let friends go through life WITHOUT knowing and participating in this relationship enhancing fun. We ALL welcome you to this fraternity and look forward to updates and your own suggestions/techniques/positions etc etc.

As far as your statement, "I am an ADDICT!!!. In 39 years of sexual activity, never have I begged for "More" over and over again, until now."" .... I hear "ADDICT" a LOT. From the perspective of a long time perv however I don't think your partner is doing a proper job on ya unless you're BEGGING him to STOP.

But that's just me ....

 

[FoxtrotUnder]

This is such a tease. I am craving this now but sadly SO is too far away for far too long!!!!

 

[CatBrown]

Reply

CATBROWN ...
As far as your statement, "I am an ADDICT!!!. In 39 years of sexual activity, never have I begged for "More" over and over again, until now."" .... I hear "ADDICT" a LOT. From the perspective of a long time perv however I don't think your partner is doing a proper job on ya unless you're BEGGING him to STOP.

But that's just me ....

Oh, believe me, I beg for him to stop eventually, but I beg for "more" or "again" many times before I push him away and vibrate and shake for a few minutes as he holds me. Never, and I mean never, have I felt anything like this, and it can go on and on!

Yes it is necessary to spread this to as many people as possible. It's getting them to listen that's the problem.

 

[Edensgarden]

A G-Spot orgasm is pure ecstasy for me. Mmmmmmm

I find mine are very intense and cause my body to start convulsing. I am aroused now just thinking about them and trying to explain. I guess there is really no way to truly understand unless you have experienced them.

Normally I do have multiple in an extremely short period of time as long as I am still being stimulated in the right spot. I start begging him to stop, but this is an occasion when "No" does mean "Yes" for me.

I agree with Dr. G in that "Great sex is all in the Mind". As a female you have to be totally aware of your body and what you like and not be afraid to express it to your partner. He can be an amazing lover, but if you are not in tune with yourself and not willing to open up to him, the sex can be pretty dull.

I will take a body moving, earth shaking, hand clenching, teeth gritting fuck any day over dull sex. Maybe that is why I have been told before that men like me for my mind? Hmmmm..

 

[LivelyLilly]

Need Blended Orgasms for Teeth-Clenching Experiences

I don't find I get all-over body-convulsions with g-spot stimulation alone. It is pleasant and I feel soft explosions deep inside, repeatedly. I gasp and pant, and make gutteral sounds, but screaming doesn't happen for me. I am wondering if I am wired differently, because I find my clitoral, A-spot, and anal orgasms incredibly intense, but my g-spot orgasms not so much. If my orgasms are blended, the g-spot stimulation enhances the others, so there is some effect there. I'm no longer in my head and am free to enjoy my body's reactions. Just wondering if I'm touching the wrong spot. It feels like a swollen ridged nut about 2 inches in on my anterior wall. One of my friends told me that g-spot orgasms get better with time, and yes, they are pleasant, but they are not the be-all and end-all as people seem to suggest. Has anyone experienced this?

 

[LivelyLilly]

TO THE CLUB.

Thanks for the feedback, Plain. I'm so glad it worked for ya'll.

Here's my take on the "procedure." From my experience, feedback here and other posts AND from what women have emailed me with is this: It only gets BETTER. There is no "Ho Huuum, we did this last night *boring* ...can't you think of something else ....*crickets* ? ""

What I've heard and read a LOT is that "Before it was all for him ... now it's ME TOO and I can't get enough."

There really does seem to be a surge in oxytocin production that affects both their sexuality and their sensuality. They have more self-confidence. They seem to be horny ALL the time. They can and DO orgasm faster/easier using other methods too. Even their friends / co-workers will notice the difference.

Yup, it IS exhausting for them especially if they have a dozen or more O's when they are used to having one. It's not like they're used to having one REAL one and these are little minis (for most women anyway). These are as intense or more so than their usual one. Personally the biggest turn on for me and most of the guys who post or email me is the new ability to control her O's and give her as many as she could possibly want or need. Sometimes, if you're getting kinky - MORE.

So to clarify .... she will probably want it as often as you can get your thumb UP. You can make it a rare treat if that's your thing but IMHO you have woken the TIGER in her and her hunger for O's - and you - will just continue. Have fun and if you have a few seconds let us know if or how she has changed with this new found "talent."

My g-spot orgasms are little minis, that I like to add along with my intense clitoral, A-spot, and anal orgasms. Even though the g-spot orgasms are small, soft convulsions, that slightly build in intensity with each one, I am totally knocked out and sleep for hours after. It is interesting that some people find the g-spot orgasms to be intense. Mine are very pleasant, as I squirt with each one, but as for earth-shattering, not so much. I'm wired differently.

 

[Mr.G]

"" I'm wired differently. ""

Everybody is and thank GOD for that. Imagine the crushing boredom if everybody reacted exactly the same way to everything. Gaaaa Zzzzzzzzzzzzz!

Overall from the feedback and personal "research" the GSPOT stimulation and resultant G-Gasms seem to be THE most intense for most/many women. Then again some don't react at all and many women NEVER orgasm at all so feel lucky your other orgasm types are intense as you get to enjoy.

 

[salaciouslady]

I have been reading this thread religiously for the last week and I think I have made it to page 20. I thoroughly enjoyed the time travelling posts of Mr. G. This thread has been here a LONG time.....wow!

We have now tried twice to find my g-spot. The first time I felt that urge to pee but didn't my husband kept touching that spot and then would miss it again. After reading through the thread further, I am learning techniques and reading the comments of others, so we tried again. The second time wasn't any better, but there was a difference. I found the side to side motion, as well as round and round rubbing of his fingers turned me on and was getting me somewhere. But then we again gave up. Its all trial and error, and I think we are narrowing down what works. I want to get him to read this thread, which is what I intend or him tomorrow. (Since he'll be at Rogers stadium. Go jays!)

Is two minutes the usual amount of time it takes?

Oh and a little shout out to bluedaisy.

 

[stuby3]

never give up.

I have been reading this thread religiously for the last week and I think I have made it to page 20. I thoroughly enjoyed the time travelling posts of Mr. G. This thread has been here a LONG time.....wow!

We have now tried twice to find my g-spot. The first time I felt that urge to pee but didn't my husband kept touching that spot and then would miss it again. After reading through the thread further, I am learning techniques and reading the comments of others, so we tried again. The second time wasn't any better, but there was a difference. I found the side to side motion, as well as round and round rubbing of his fingers turned me on and was getting me somewhere. But then we again gave up. Its all trial and error, and I think we are narrowing down what works. I want to get him to read this thread, which is what I intend or him tomorrow. (Since he'll be at Rogers stadium. Go jays!)

Is two minutes the usual amount of time it takes?

Oh and a little shout out to bluedaisy.

I have been rubbing my wife's g-spot now b-4 we have sex, she rubs her clit at the same time. After the fifth or sixth O I let her have my now throbbing. dripping six" rod. She hardly ever had an O during sex but now it is every time, her o's are more intense when I rub her g-spot then when she just rubs her clit alone.
After reading this thread about two years ago now our sex is around 80% more fulfilling. How ever I don't think she totally triggered that magic spot quite yet.
It took a long time to get to this point, and thankfully it just keeps getting better.
When it comes to her sex life she say's she can take it or leave it, I'm thinking and hoping that someday she will be wanting it more, when that eye opening experience happens some of you ladies describe.
Mr. G a lot of pages back I wrote something like I would never stop trying, well
I wanted to come back and thank-you for this thread and to encourage others to give it time as for us it was a slow process that got better in time and still does.

 

[salaciouslady]

I have been rubbing my wife's g-spot now b-4 we have sex, she rubs her clit at the same time. After the fifth or sixth O I let her have my now throbbing. dripping six" rod. She hardly ever had an O during sex but now it is every time, her o's are more intense when I rub her g-spot then when she just rubs her clit alone.
After reading this thread about two years ago now our sex is around 80% more fulfilling. How ever I don't think she totally triggered that magic spot quite yet.
It took a long time to get to this point, and thankfully it just keeps getting better.
When it comes to her sex life she say's she can take it or leave it, I'm thinking and hoping that someday she will be wanting it more, when that eye opening experience happens some of you ladies describe.
Mr. G a lot of pages back I wrote something like I would never stop trying, well
I wanted to come back and thank-you for this thread and to encourage others to give it time as for us it was a slow proses that got better in time and still does.

Yes, I foresee the same possibilities with myself. And I just want to take take take......couldn't consider leaving it. Thanks for the response......I'm going back to read more on this thread......its huge and I've got so much more to read. I'm rather impressed with Mr. G's 10 year dedication on this....

 

[LivelyLilly]

More work needed to be done to attack elusive G

I agree with the two previous posters. Things are getting better, I'm feeling more pleasure, but more research/reading and/or hands-on/penis-on work needs to be done. Yesterday, instead of my usual warmth, squirt, and soft flutterings, I felt pushout contractions stronger than before. It reminded me of the time I had an orgasm with the birth of my third child. What was different this time? My mind was totally blank. Usually, I think sexy thoughts, but this time, nothing. I guess I was more in my head than I thought. Not to sound cliched, but it opened the way for new possibilities. Even though I'm not screaming, I would like to thank Mr. G for his encouragement. I didn't think I was wired that differently, lol!

 

[salaciouslady]

I still haven't gotten there, sigh. I'm tempted to by a Gspot vibrator to help things along. Makes me frustrated....

 

[stuby3]

I still haven't gotten there, sigh. I'm tempted to by a Gspot vibrator to help things along. Makes me frustrated....

What ever it takes---don't give up. Is sex any different for you since you have been experimenting in this area? Don't get frustrated just enjoy what you do get what of it.

 

[LivelyLilly]

What ever it takes---don't give up. Is sex any different for you since you have been experimenting in this area? Don't get frustrated just enjoy what you do get what of it.

Stuby3 is right, Salacious Lady. I got frustrated, and couldn't understand why I didn't scream with g-spot stimulation. It was nice, but not as intense as my anal, a-spot and clitoral orgasms. I found out a couple of things. #1. I was overthinking, and should just surrender to the feelings I get, which are getting stronger. #2. My g-spot is being stimulated to provide mild to medium responses. Either I'm wired this way, or they will get stronger over time. Only time will tell, and I'm ready to find out!

 

[Mr.G]

The debate rages on ...

Another fine article. At least Pamela sounds like she's found hers and is aware that for some it isn't the Nirvana that some claim. Then again for some it represents the FIRST time they've orgasmed in 30 YEARS of sex in marriage ... and that IS Nirvana ... an epiphany for many. For some it takes a while to explore, find, share with a partner or be taught by a partner, time to recognize the build up and let it happen or a partner who recognizes the onset of G-GASMS and holds her down and pushes her through that physical and psychological barrier that many women have to fully letting go.

THIS is one of the best quotes I've ever seen from ANY article on GSPOTS so kudos to her.

""But it would be good to give women and men good information and research about their bodies. And simply asking women to self-report about a part of their body that they have never seen – or never have been introduced to – is not good science.""


http://www.**********/greenliving/has-the-g-spot-been-over-marketed.html#ixzz22Qt3Dgwy

 

[LivelyLilly]

Another fine article. At least Pamela sounds like she's found hers and is aware that for some it isn't the Nirvana that some claim. Then again for some it represents the FIRST time they've orgasmed in 30 YEARS of sex in marriage ... and that IS Nirvana ... an epiphany for many. For some it takes a while to explore, find, share with a partner or be taught by a partner, time to recognize the build up and let it happen or a partner who recognizes the onset of G-GASMS and holds her down and pushes her through that physical and psychological barrier that many women have to fully letting go.

THIS is one of the best quotes I've ever seen from ANY article on GSPOTS so kudos to her.

""But it would be good to give women and men good information and research about their bodies. And simply asking women to self-report about a part of their body that they have never seen – or never have been introduced to – is not good science.""


http://www.**********/greenliving/has-the-g-spot-been-over-marketed.html#ixzz22Qt3Dgwy

Yes, I enjoyed the article. It's also as I have experienced it, and have been told about it by forthright friends. Everybody is different, and as Mr. G says, let's celebrate those differences!

 

[khebert6482]

Before i met my husband I thought GSpot orgasms were a total lie... One night he found that sweet spot and immediately got about 6 orgasms out of me. Now he tries to see how many he can get out of me before I safe-word him to stop!!!

 

[josephanthony69]

Tried the technique with a lady friend and she totally soaked everything With her being a toy aficionado, we added first a vibrating bullet and then a vibrating egg to the equation - lmao..amazing!! Just a thought probably mentioned earlier in this thread!! adds some variety to it!!

Wow, that's great. I'd be mush after 8 to 10 orgasms. I only convulse, spasm, and squirt internally and externally. I don't scream, but actually grunt and pant. My favorite orgasms are combo g-gasm, c-gasm, anus-gasm, and a spot-gasm. Somehow, I can't get more than 4 of those as I'm wiped. How can I gain the stamina to complain about these incredible all-over body orgasms?