trying to find someone

[too_easy]

Hi. I’m hoping to discover a girl to call my own.
Key criterion:
18 - eh… well… maybe 25, maybe 30;
preferably based in the UK (if things go well, I’d prefer to have my options open, regarding meeting up);
partially submissive nature, or wanting to experiment (to fulfill my partial dom tendencies);
intelligent, open-minded, unattached… (ambitious eh?)
It’s tough for me to narrow the things I’m looking for because there’s a lot I feel I have to explain. It may be best if these are discussed when chatting on IM.

[There’s a lot I can say to explain a partly-dom/sub relationship, but it’s complicated. Each thing I should explain needs to be qualified (second definition: restricted/limited by conditions) to be properly understood and not get the wrong idea/impression.]

A little about me, eh… well… med-tall height, athletic build, dark hair, tanned skin (Scottish born and bred but not Scottish, if you know what I mean), in early 20’s. In a few words i'd describe myself as: caring, considerate, honest guy, perhaps ruefully adding i'm relatively cynical too. I can’t think of anything else to add that should be mentioned, so if you wanna ask anything or get in touch, please pm me.

The folks just reading this outta interest, as a gesture of goodwill, please consider posting something to keep this thread going, just to extend the small time-frame that this thread is on top of others. Hopefully it’ll be enough for me to discover a girl to call my own.
Thank you.

 

[Firebrain]

It would be useful to know what kind of dom you think you are.

 

[too_easy]

It’s a fair question.

Being called "master/sir" or having a "slave" etc isn't important to me. The underlying bond though, is something I long for.

Punishment preferences extend to a desire for giving light spanking (enough to give a jolt at most and a warm, rosy glow by the end).

As for control, well, when the occasion and mood for either person calls for it, being authoritative and getting utter submission in response. Needing someone who craves to be told what to do, how, etc; I expect my girl to do as instructed and commanded (occasionally it might be fun to challenge or defy me; read above to see what kinda punishment you’ll be in for).

I can have a fondness for rough play, it’s not exclusive though; the sharp contrast of delicate teasing is very much vital to me (each has it's time and place). As much as I may want to roughly pinch (sensitive skin between my lips), grope, bite etc… loving caresses, absent-minded fond holding/playing etc are equally loved.

If it is part of mutual fantasy/rp, I’d like to experiment with non-con/ ravishment.

(Humiliation, pain, torture… are areas I’d probably not diversify into)

Hope that clarifies what kind of dom I am.

 

[too_easy]

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