Unattractive and Sexually Active

[stephencummings]

Ok so here goes.

I’m in my late 50s, over weight and nothing special to look at.

I am Bi Sexual but favour women over men.

What I have found is, that it is way easier for me to find men to have sex with than women.

I go cruising for men, and like myself many are happy just to be having sex regardless of the attraction. I guess they don’t mind how I look over having their cock looked after.

How do you guys and gals find your sex life is if you are way passed your prime?

 

[Natcase69]

I’m in a very similar boat. I’m not attracted to men at all, so it doesn’t really matter to me what you look like, I just want your cock in my hand or my mouth. I’m guessing a lot of straight cock lovers (as opposed to genuinely bi guys) feel exactly the same way.
Straight women who are attracted to men will need to feel some level of attraction before they’ll consider sexual contact, in my experience. The same is probably true of gay and properly bi men.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Get in shape!

 

[stephencummings]

Get in shape!

Round is a shape

 

[BillyWalrus]

I am 71 and I have had an attractive girlfriend for the past eight years. Obviously I am past my prime but she is devoted to me so I must be doing something right.

 

[stephencummings]

I am 71 and I have had an attractive girlfriend for the past eight years. Obviously I am past my prime but she is devoted to me so I must be doing something right.

So you are not actively looking for anyone else to have sex with then?

 

[BillyWalrus]

So you are not actively looking for anyone else to have sex with then?

Why would I be? I am crazy about her and I don't want anyone but her:
https://imgbox.com/EJX1NsmX

 

[seekrtadmyr]

Ok so here goes.

I’m in my late 50s, over weight and nothing special to look at.

I am Bi Sexual but favour women over men.

What I have found is, that it is way easier for me to find men to have sex with than women.

I go cruising for men, and like myself many are happy just to be having sex regardless of the attraction. I guess they don’t mind how I look over having their cock looked after.

How do you guys and gals find your sex life is if you are way passed your prime?

damn, I just posted almost the same thing! Watching....

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Round is a shape

Whatever you like man! It’s your life! Cheers

 

[Dearelliot]

I feel far far fewer ladies over 60 are as kinky as we men over 60 are..maybe over 50...and those ladies are for the most part taken and taken good care of, kept home and not easily spoken to. For years now I've worked with pros...not worth the effort...trying to get the planets aligned, the moon in the right spot...weather...and besides I'm way to kinky for 90% of the ladies...atleast in my circles, maybe if I lived in New york city...

 

[Sign54]

I am 71 and I have had an attractive girlfriend for the past eight years. Obviously I am past my prime but she is devoted to me so I must be doing something right.

Is there an age gap of any kind??

 

[magicalmoments]

Perhaps older women in New Zealand are different. Women coming into their 70's now had their formative teenage years in the late 1960's, early 1970's. These were liberated, burn your bra, feminists who had the contraceptive pill available to them, they were the generation influenced by the Hippie free love culture. as they married and went into their 20's/30's they went to "wife swapping" parties. They've brought those attitudes into their mature years/retirement and they are easy to find and they are keen for male "company". If you're a guy of the same age and out there looking, you're not looking long.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Is there an age gap of any kind??

Indeed there is. She turns 40 next month so while she is not very young, she is 30 years younger than I am! I posted her pic in this thread. The age gap between us never seems to come up - I don't know why.

 

[kccasey]

Why would I be? I am crazy about her and I don't want anyone but her:
https://imgbox.com/EJX1NsmX

your a lucky dawg Billy

 

[Phkrep85]

Hey kc

 

[liqueur]

75 here. Guys seem to find me attractive enough. At least when in on my knees... I'm sure I could find women, if I went to churches or bars. But (a) that's not my thing, and (b) finding kinky women interested in someone my age is another story.

(Yes, maybe in an urban area, at kink clubs or gatherings. But I'm in a very rural area)

 

[BillyWalrus]

your a lucky dawg Billy

I am a lucky dawg but how many guys would be willing to visit a Filipina regularly for long periods of time and chat with her daily when not visiting? It's a big commitment and I am not sure how many men would sign up for it even given the benefits.

 

[EctoJohn]

How do you guys and gals find your sex life is if you are way passed your prime?

I never had a prime.
My sex life is dead.

 

[kccasey]

I am a lucky dawg but how many guys would be willing to visit a Filipina regularly for long periods of time and chat with her daily when not visiting? It's a big commitment and I am not sure how many men would sign up for it even given the benefits.

That's a good point Billy, Don't think I would be willing to do that. There is another guy on the board who does the same as you E something, you probably have read his posts too.

 

[StrongMaster7]

As usual, I have to reframe the question with my answer.

I think that I was a relatively attractive man from age 20-55. And in those 35 years, I was with the woman who was my gf, then wife. And in those years, I don’t think I EVER got the vibe from a woman that she was really attracted to me.

Since age 55, over ten years, I have gotten that vibe MANY times. Now, the standards for ‘good looking’ change with age. But women that I find desirable are now giving me the signals that I wish I had gotten all along. And the kicker is that, while I am in pretty good shape, I look like a skinny, old, nearly bald dude who, I wouldn’t think would EVER get attention from hotties.

Old too soon. Wise too late.

 

[BillyWalrus]

That's a good point Billy, Don't think I would be willing to do that. There is another guy on the board who does the same as you E something, you probably have read his posts too.

That guy is Escierto who is also me. That account was banned for something stupid so I reincarnated myself as Billy Walrus.

 

[Britva415]

As usual, I have to reframe the question with my answer.

I think that I was a relatively attractive man from age 20-55. And in those 35 years, I was with the woman who was my gf, then wife. And in those years, I don’t think I EVER got the vibe from a woman that she was really attracted to me.

Since age 55, over ten years, I have gotten that vibe MANY times. Now, the standards for ‘good looking’ change with age. But women that I find desirable are now giving me the signals that I wish I had gotten all along. And the kicker is that, while I am in pretty good shape, I look like a skinny, old, nearly bald dude who, I wouldn’t think would EVER get attention from hotties.

Old too soon. Wise too late.

I think the older we get, the less we're stuck believing our appearance matters much. Or, the more we just confidently own whatever appearance we have, and that attitude is naturally attractive. So, we're right to believe it doesn't matter as much as we used to think. It's the confidence that matters.

I mean, we can't expect any attention if we go out there as dirty grubs, but just being old and heavy and balding are not the liabilities we would have thought when we were younger.

Back when we didn't know what to do with the looks we had, before we lost them.

 

[Wageslave]

I'm in the no man's land of not being physically attractive but liked by people but totally sexually inactive.
If it weren't for pick pockets, I'd have no sex life at all

 

[kccasey]

Hey kc

Uh, Hey?

 

[liqueur]

I am a lucky dawg but how many guys would be willing to visit a Filipina regularly for long periods of time and chat with her daily when not visiting? It's a big commitment and I am not sure how many men would sign up for it even given the benefits.

I would in a heartbeat, if I could afford it. At this point in life I can't even afford to keep my car running. I almost deleted this, because it sounds like a sob story. It's not. My point is simply that different people have different life circumstances. If a person doesn't or can't do what they'd like to do, it doesn't necessarily mean they're not willing to make the effort.

And even so, your point is well-taken: sometimes, it does.