Using a strapon in a man???

[BerksMartin43]

Thanks T H Oughts I will live in hope of finding another lady to achieve this excitement with .. however I don't think it would be wise to hold my breath .. I might die ... (smile)

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Thanks T H Oughts I will live in hope of finding another lady to achieve this excitement with .. however I don't think it would be wise to hold my breath .. I might die ... (smile)

Good things come to those who wait.

 

[lovablo]

Told my wife just the other day that I would like for us to get a strap on, but she said that it reminds her of gay relations. I am not gay I just love the way it feels when plays with my ass, or when she's not home I slip a condum on one of the vibrators we have and massage my on prostrate.

 

[Kingterp]

Told my wife just the other day that I would like for us to get a strap on, but she said that it reminds her of gay relations. I am not gay I just love the way it feels when plays with my ass, or when she's not home I slip a condum on one of the vibrators we have and massage my on prostrate.

Yes you are gay

 

[Bandit58]

Yes you are gay

He said he wants his wife to do it, not another guy Try it you might like it

It amazes me the number of guys who automatically think ass play=gay In reality the anus is one of the most erotic places on the human body, both male and female. I pity people who won't even try something just because they are afraid of being labelled

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Told my wife just the other day that I would like for us to get a strap on, but she said that it reminds her of gay relations. I am not gay I just love the way it feels when plays with my ass, or when she's not home I slip a condum on one of the vibrators we have and massage my on prostrate.

Search the net and find some photos of women doing men. It might make her realise it is just not a gay thing. It is natural for all too try.

 

[tkinsc]

I think how to do it properly depends on what kind of mood he is in. If he is in a normal mood, you may want to start small and work you way up. This allows you both to build up the excitement. Having him get on top to get things started may help, that will allow him to control how deep you go to start with, then you could switch positions once you are going good.

If he is in a submissive mood, you may want to just bend him over and give it to him. A bit painful to start, but it goes away very quickly. Plus, this gives neither of you any time to build up any anxiety. IT is also a bit of a turn on to be taken quckily and forecfully by your partner.

Him on his back will also allow easier penetration.

Like you said earlier, us lots of lube.

Enjoy, and don’t be surprised to find he is more vocal when you are doing him, than he is when he is penetrating you.

 

[BerksMartin43]

I'm straight and it definately something I would like to try .. I agree with the posts that its good to experiment and enjoy it .. I have been with ladies who have just lightly touched that area of the anus but never gone any further and if they too think its wrong .. if it was wrong why would it bring pleasure ??

 

[Bob Briton]

He said he wants his wife to do it, not another guy Try it you might like it

It amazes me the number of guys who automatically think ass play=gay In reality the anus is one of the most erotic places on the human body, both male and female. I pity people who won't even try something just because they are afraid of being labelled

Hi everybody... Great thread & its great to hear that there are plenty of you sexy ladies out there!

Male ass play is not gay...it is just another way to experience sexual pleasure and intimacy with someone.
One question - is why do Gay men enjoy receiving anal sex in the first place? - and why should they be the only ones to savour it?

The Prostate gland is one wicked organ and its feels great to be stimulated. Plus the feeling you get when your orifice is stretched is amazing.

Okay I've never had the pleasure with a lady but I would love to surrender and pucker myself ready!!! I don't really see it as a BDSM submission thing but as a chance to discover another side to my masculinity.

Plus I would love to feel her boobs & stiff nipples against my back as she does me doggy..Thats definately not gay is it!?

 

[rcuhljr]

Oh to find a woman like this

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I don't really see it as a BDSM submission thing but as a chance to discover another side to my masculinity.

I think it depends on the persons makeup what it means to them as a male.

1.Some people see it as another sexual activity to explore.

2. Some men think of it as playing with their fem side.

3. Some men like the total submissive side of it after being in a 'man's' world all day of being in charge.

For the two of us it it is him tuning into his fem side as he is going to wear stocking and lingerie. For me it is a power thing doing a man with my 'cock'. Also I love the thought of men in stocking and lingerie. I don't want him to shave his legs or chest. I just want to enjoy the softer side of a 'man' and be dominant about it. We are both bisexual so we do enjoy the sensual side of our own gender.

 

[Bob Briton]

I just want to enjoy the softer side of a 'man' and be dominant about it.

Thank you. That explains perfectly how I feel about it.

I wish you two well in your adventures!

Will you be taking pictures??

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Will you be taking pictures??

For personal pleasure only. He is very well known in this country so I don't think he would like the chances of anything showing up in newspapers etc.

 

[Bob Briton]

For personal pleasure only. He is very well known in this country so I don't think he would like the chances of anything showing up in newspapers etc.

I understand..but then again it will only be butt shots!

 

[rcuhljr]

I understand..but then again it will only be butt shots!

Maybe that's whats really well known about him?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Maybe that's whats really well known about him?

lol, I'll tell him that, he will be here in about an hour. Actually he does have a cute ass.

 

[rcuhljr]

lol, I'll tell him that, he will be here in about an hour. Actually he does have a cute ass.

and remind him how lucky he is, they need a jealous emote

 

[Bob Briton]

lol, I'll tell him that, he will be here in about an hour. Actually he does have a cute ass.

He doesn't play rugby by any chance?

If so, could you keep him tied up when the Lions tour!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

He doesn't play rugby by any chance?

If so, could you keep him tied up when the Lions tour!

No rugby.

 

[pupper]

I enjoy when my wife plays and fingers my ass with her fingers (usually with lots of lube)We/I have an aneros prostate massager I wear sometimes during sex or foreplay.I do not enjoy when she takes her fingers in and out,I likewhen she sinks them to my prostate and massages it(she usually does a come here motion like I do to her G spot)she also stimulates it from the outside.I don't know abouta strap-on though,I guess if thats what she wanted I would let her.She has just really started with playing with my ass,I never knew it would feel as good as it does,and I am neither homophobic or homo,just a plain old hetero male.

 

[mr happy]

here's a second hurrah for the feeldoe! just recently got to realize my fantasy of taking a man....my new love. this is the perfect strap on dildo...i get to give him pleasure and also get some of my own too! we used it with a harness so it doesn't slip out when i get too wet. we also have used a vibrating cock ring with it as well....mmmmm. i like to start by orally worshipping his beautiful cock, then work my way to licking his little star. playing with it with my tongue, my fingers, fucking and teasing him with my tongue and fingers....just to warm him up first. my favourite position is to have him on his back, with his legs up.....this way i can play with his cock and nipples too and watch the pleasure on his face as i slide in and out of him.

have fun, T.H. Oughts! you're going to love it!!

Nice to see someone else enjoying the pleasures of this toy

Hmmm Maybe we can compare notes sometime

 

[chittylove]

Nice to see someone else enjoying the pleasures of this toy

Hmmm Maybe we can compare notes sometime

mmm, we love it..... apparently it now comes with a vibrating unit now too, but we use a vibrating cock ring on it sometimes, which works wonders as well!

another thing we are going to explore is to have him wear it......so he can d/p me (another fantasy of mine....)

damn....was going to post a pic but all those pics are in his computer maybe later, when i'm over there!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I've just been researching the feeldoe and it looks like you can not buy them in New Zealand. It will take about 4 weeks to get one in from overseas... thats far too long a wait.

http://www.thesassykitten.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000001/feeldoevibe.jpg

http://www.thesassykitten.com/page/100/PROD/6000S02/20200617

 

[rcuhljr]

I've just been researching the feeldoe and it looks like you can not buy them in New Zealand. It will take about 4 weeks to get one in from overseas... thats far too long a wait.

http://www.thesassykitten.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000001/feeldoevibe.jpg

http://www.thesassykitten.com/page/100/PROD/6000S02/20200617

Thats not cool, have someone order it in the states and airmail it to you?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Thats not cool, have someone order it in the states and airmail it to you?

yes I will have too or find a place I can trust in the USA too send it direct to me....