Venting 1

[Ebonyfairyqueen]

I'm just going to vent here, I just need to air out my feelings. I know no one really care but here goes nothing

So everyone know I'm still fresh to the whole Lit scene. I'm just trying to figure out why a good amount of men I have met so far are very impatient with me....I have a life outside of lit as well and I cannot dedicate my 100% attention to them. So now I am getting a lot of rude messages and so on. Like what the hell? I came here to escape reality and find online love. But it looks like to me....I'm dealing with it here as well.

I dont know to be honest......I guess it is just me......

 

[Jada59]

I'm just going to vent here, I just need to air out my feelings. I know no one really care but here goes nothing

So everyone know I'm still fresh to the whole Lit scene. I'm just trying to figure out why a good amount of men I have met so far are very impatient with me....I have a life outside of lit as well and I cannot dedicate my 100% attention to them. So now I am getting a lot of rude messages and so on. Like what the hell? I came here to escape reality and find online love. But it looks like to me....I'm dealing with it here as well.

I dont know to be honest......I guess it is just me......

Very sorry. I haven't found that to be the case with people here but perhaps our situations are different.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

There's so much fucking porn out there, why is this impatience issue even a thing?

 

[Ebonyfairyqueen]

Very sorry. I haven't found that to be the case with people here but perhaps our situations are different.

Maybe so

 

[Ebonyfairyqueen]

There's so much fucking porn out there, why is this impatience issue even a thing?

That is a good question...

 

[13Fantasies]

I think some men feel that they take a chance and get nothing in return. A lot are here already due to insecurities, etc, so I think they get anxious.

Not saying that is the case here, but I have seen it. I hope you can weed out the chaff, hun. -Hugs-

 

[Debbie]

Perhaps you could make a PSA.

Or a note in your sigline or bio.

Stating your terms and conditions and that impatient people will get a scolding and maybe even ignored?

Welcome. We do have some very interesting decent posters so I hope you find happiness and so much more

 

[amflyer2018]

I'm just going to vent here, I just need to air out my feelings. I know no one really care but here goes nothing

So everyone know I'm still fresh to the whole Lit scene. I'm just trying to figure out why a good amount of men I have met so far are very impatient with me....I have a life outside of lit as well and I cannot dedicate my 100% attention to them. So now I am getting a lot of rude messages and so on. Like what the hell? I came here to escape reality and find online love. But it looks like to me....I'm dealing with it here as well.

I dont know to be honest......I guess it is just me......

I wont be impatient with you. I will never be rude to you. I completely understand your situation and I am here to talk to you and help you any way I can. I meant everything I said to you in my PM. I will be here if and when you are ready to chat.

Take care, dear

 

[Hypoxia]

You show signs of weakness on the GB. Hyenas will scent you and home in to attack.