Howdy!
Longtime lurker (well read/never posted).
Been with this website for 10 plus years. Have thoroughly enjoyed the stories. This site brought me into the lifestyle from the first time I read a story. Actually stumbled across the site by accident when I naively goggled "brand spanking new car". First click brought me here. I didn't find a new car that day but I did walk away with something else on my mind!! For that I thank all of you who have submitted stories. Its funny how I cant see a wooden bench without thinking of the many different ways to tie a beautiful woman to it and pleasure her in the way that she desires! Since that day I have been very involved in the lifestyle, only privately. I have had a handful of meaningful relationships in that time that I have been able to incorporate my BDSM desire into. The last one however proposed a question I have not been able to answer. She asked if I would enjoy being submissive. I explained that I enjoyed everything that being dominant had to offer. I have never had the opportunity to be in a submissive role. After much talk about it she explained that she thought I would have a better understanding of the wants, needs and possibly the motivations of the submissive if I had ever experienced that role. I didn't think to much more about it after that evening until a few weeks after we parted ways (amicably). Since then I think about it a lot. I have decided that for me to be a better dominant I should better understand the role of the submissive. In my opinion one of the best ways to understand another's position (no pun intended) is to put yourself in theirs. So that brings me to the reason for my post. I'm here seeking a dominant female to help me explore my submissive side so that I can in turn be a more compassionate and understand dominate person next time. If interested in assisting me with this please respond how you see fit!
Thanks
Always willing to learn
Brian
Longtime lurker (well read/never posted).
Been with this website for 10 plus years. Have thoroughly enjoyed the stories. This site brought me into the lifestyle from the first time I read a story. Actually stumbled across the site by accident when I naively goggled "brand spanking new car". First click brought me here. I didn't find a new car that day but I did walk away with something else on my mind!! For that I thank all of you who have submitted stories. Its funny how I cant see a wooden bench without thinking of the many different ways to tie a beautiful woman to it and pleasure her in the way that she desires! Since that day I have been very involved in the lifestyle, only privately. I have had a handful of meaningful relationships in that time that I have been able to incorporate my BDSM desire into. The last one however proposed a question I have not been able to answer. She asked if I would enjoy being submissive. I explained that I enjoyed everything that being dominant had to offer. I have never had the opportunity to be in a submissive role. After much talk about it she explained that she thought I would have a better understanding of the wants, needs and possibly the motivations of the submissive if I had ever experienced that role. I didn't think to much more about it after that evening until a few weeks after we parted ways (amicably). Since then I think about it a lot. I have decided that for me to be a better dominant I should better understand the role of the submissive. In my opinion one of the best ways to understand another's position (no pun intended) is to put yourself in theirs. So that brings me to the reason for my post. I'm here seeking a dominant female to help me explore my submissive side so that I can in turn be a more compassionate and understand dominate person next time. If interested in assisting me with this please respond how you see fit!
Thanks
Always willing to learn
Brian
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