smartandsexy
Not Dead Yet
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ShyGuy68 said:Oh you are??![]()
They're pink!
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ShyGuy68 said:Oh you are??![]()
smartandsexy said:Gosh, it's horrible being here on my own.
I bet they look nice on you!!smartandsexy said:They're pink!
bearlee said:Pretty much the same but it finally comes to the end-the long distance thing I mean-getting married in August![]()
Some nice new pics-haven't seen you around much lately-now get back to work, knickers or no knickers![]()
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smartandsexy said:I think I'd better stop. Sexual attention is not what I need now, so I don't quite know why I thought posting these would be a good idea.
God, I'm just a distressed lonely mess at the moment. Sorry.
meat_squirrel said:I know you don't know me, but I hope you find what you are looking for. It's clear there's a lot going on in your life and it is possible that Lit was not what you needed at this juncture.
Lit provides a great many people, myself included, an outlet of creativity and sexual experimentation. It can bring confidence to those insecure, excitement to those bored and companionship to those alone. It can satisfy any number of other needs that can't be easily addressed in our real lives.
But Lit is a shared experience. Posters and viewers must both be comfortable for the partnership to be successful. If we aren't comfortable with our posts, and Lit is not providing an outlet that serves our needs then posting may not be the best thing for us. We should all remember we post because it fills a part of our lives, because we enjoy the partnership and because primarily we personally get something out of the experience.
That said, I've witnessed the most loving support on this board. This is a community unlike anything I've ever experienced on line or in the real world. People here actually care for each other in the most sincere manner even though they don’t always show it and they will go out of their way to make sure each member is attended to in times of need.
The long story short is that if you need support, if you need something beyond the experience provided by posting you may just find that support here if you ask. If you choose to share I know at least some of us will be here for you. We are good people, we are deeply compassionate and even though it may not seem like it sometimes we really do care.
I hope you find your path.
smartandsexy said:Thanks, that was incredibly sweet of you and so nice to read.
Essentially I am really struggling coming back here and getting back into my normal life. I miss him incredibly, this distresses me - my sleep is completely screwed - vicious cycle. I live alone here and don't have any close friends to turn to, besides it's the middle of the night. When I feel like this I get anxious and panicky about everything even though the separation is the trigger.
I've been looking for that human connection online tonight and haven't found that, though what I really need is a physical presence. I'm looking into maybe going to see family for a few days - I need to work out if I can organise my work and bring it with me so that that's feasible. At least the thought of that as a possibility is calming me down a bit. The negative side is while I'm there I have very limited communication with my beloved - swings and roundabouts.
I dunno. I just need to get through tonight until I can sleep or get on a coach or train. I don't know. I need a hug.
meat_squirrel said:I know you don't know me, but I hope you find what you are looking for. It's clear there's a lot going on in your life and it is possible that Lit was not what you needed at this juncture.
Lit provides a great many people, myself included, an outlet of creativity and sexual experimentation. It can bring confidence to those insecure, excitement to those bored and companionship to those alone. It can satisfy any number of other needs that can't be easily addressed in our real lives.
But Lit is a shared experience. Posters and viewers must both be comfortable for the partnership to be successful. If we aren't comfortable with our posts, and Lit is not providing an outlet that serves our needs then posting may not be the best thing for us. We should all remember we post because it fills a part of our lives, because we enjoy the partnership and because primarily we personally get something out of the experience.
That said, I've witnessed the most loving support on this board. This is a community unlike anything I've ever experienced on line or in the real world. People here actually care for each other in the most sincere manner even though they don’t always show it and they will go out of their way to make sure each member is attended to in times of need.
The long story short is that if you need support, if you need something beyond the experience provided by posting you may just find that support here if you ask. If you choose to share I know at least some of us will be here for you. We are good people, we are deeply compassionate and even though it may not seem like it sometimes we really do care.
I hope you find your path.
meat_squirrel said:It sounds like you have yourself together...you know what you need to do, you just need time to do its thing...which is simply pass.
Good luck...
..and by the way *hug*

pm6hnd said:Truer words I have yet to read on Lit. Thank you Squirrel.
Pretty Lady, you are with friends here. I am glad you made it
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smartandsexy said:August? That's wonderful!
We're hoping to be together permanently at the end of September, but nothing is definite (yet?). I don't know how I can wait till then though. Hell, right now I'm not sure how I'm gonna get through the night.![]()
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bearlee said:Thanks! I read the other stuff you just wrote and I understand, maybe not to the same extent but kinda. Hope it all works for you just as planned and you can get through the night![]()
smartandsexy said:Thanks, Lee. At least upstairs is silent now, thank goodness.
I do hope we'll get to see wedding pictures.![]()
bearlee said:I don't know-we were thinking of just having us and our kids and no one else-suppose we could take some photos though-yeah, I guess we really should![]()

smartandsexy said:For sure. You're going to want to look back on your happy day and how beautiful your bride looked.
And more importantly I WANT TO SEE THEM!![]()

smartandsexy said:grrrrrrrrrr