Virginity lost at ?

My wife was of legal age and on oral contraceptives. She was the last of her circle of friends to lose her virginity, and she was feeling a certain degree of pressure. She told me that she was "ready". She wasn't afraid. She just wanted to do it. The girls knew slightly older guy who they used to party with because he could get them weed and alcohol. He had fucked some of her friends. She said she was at a party and had gotten stoned, which made her extra horny. The guy knew she wanted to be fucked, because her friends told him. They started making out, and then went into an adjacent room, where he fucked her. She told me that it went really well. She told me he was actually a good lover and he was considerate and took good care of her. She gave him head. He ate her out. she was very wet, so penetration wasn't too bad. He fucked her in a lot of positions. He inseminated her in doggy, which she loved. she told me she will always love him because her turned her from a girl into a woman, and she gave him something no other man could ever have.. She eventually found out that he also took her sisters virginity as well, which was a little awkward.
 
Lost mine at 18 to a guy I’d dated a couple times. He invited me over to “ watch tv”. Being fairly naive still I went. He hadn’t been home from work long and had cooked himself a pizza and we were sitting on the couch and as he ate I began innocently running my fingers along the back of his neck. He said if I didn’t stop he wouldn’t be able to control himself. I didn’t take it seriously so I didn’t stop. If anything I just thought we’d kiss a little , maybe make out a little, nothing too heavy. But he proceeds to pick me up and carry me to his bed. He began kissing me and removing my jeans and panties. I told him I’d never gone that far before hoping he’d stop but he didn’t. There was nothing sweet or tender about any of it. He just climbed on top, penetrated me and when finished climbed off. I was sitting on the end of his bed in shock and feeling so dirty and he begins telling me that “ making love” is a beautiful thing ! I went to the bathroom to clean up and told him I wanted to leave. He drive me back to where I’d parked my car , knelt down as I sat quietly in my car and asked if I was ok ! I just left and cried all the way home . I remember wondering if anyone would be able to tell by looking at me the next day.
I never heard from him again but months later I was told he’d told someone that he had only been using me to make his ex gf jealous. I didn’t know there was an ex gf or I wouldn’t have gone out with him. I didn’t have sex again until I was 20 and in love with my first serious boyfriend after dating for 3 mths I finally gave in to him.
 
I was just chatting with a friend of mine about a conversation they had with some co-workers. They were at a bar with three co-workers and they were all chatting about what their first partnered sexual activity was and at what age. My friend mentioned that they have never had sex. Their co-workers were shocked. One asked them to confirm their age (they're 28). To make themselves feel better, they told them that I'm 38 years old and have never had sex. I'm not mad or anything, don't worry. I just find it comical. By the way, I've been to their office before and met one of the people they were with that night.
 
Good for you for being confident in who you are ! I’m not sure but my son may be asexual also. He told me years ago while still in school that he was. It was a term I was unfamiliar with. He’s 30 and still has never dated nor had any desire to meet anyone. To be honest it’s not what I would have chosen for him but it’s his life . He’s a good guy, respectful, kind hearted and honest so I can’t complain.
 
15. I am a male.

With my social science teacher (married female).

A relationship we maintained for more than a decade, even as she and I both knew I had other gfs and sex mates simultaneously in life.
 
I was 15, she was 14. but two grades behind. I thought she was very pretty, but too young. She was petite with crystal blue eyes, short dark hair, a pixie smile and very physically fit. She made it known to all her friends that she was interested in me. Though initially hesitant, I was very happy to indulge her interest. She was very smart and interesting. Her father was a professor at MIT and she inherited his sharp mind. We dated for a while, neighborhood kids. We'd walk and talk together for hours holding hands. She'd babysit and ask permission for me to go over. Typically, kids went to bed early. When we first started going out, we'd kiss for a long time, a little touching. One day, we were kissing and I was touching up, she leaned back, unbuckled her jeans, then unzipped them, pulled them down about 6" and we had that adventure for several weeks. It was a revelation for me, the texture, shape, feel and her response. She'd get very wet and I was proud of that. One day we were at her house, no one home, and she got up from the couch with her jeans already open, then took off one sock, walked a few feet and took off the other, then went around the corner. At the bottom of the stairs I found her jeans, halfway up, her top and bra, and at the top of the stairs, her panties. She was in her room. Soon after, her parents moved across country and I didn't see her again. Years later, I encountered her sister who told me that she'd had four kids and was generally happy, but didn't survive cancer.
 
15. Lost to my girlfriend at the time for her to move away a month later, followed by rumors her mom made her move because she was pregnant. Then she returned 3 years later and gave me the cold shoulder while others whispered I was a dead beat dad for a couple months. Finally after that she cleared it all up and explained she hadn't been pregnant and I wasn't a father
 
We were both 18; me by six months, her just. She had lost her virginity almost a year earlier. I was mostly happy with all the oral and handjobs, and I could get her off quite well. She was insistent “There are things and places fingers cannot reach. Yours is good sized and I want it in me.” I was mostly terrified, we used a condom and I lasted long enough to get her over the top before I came which in retrospect was amazing. Of course the condom burst—which remains a kink for me to this day. We avoided pregnancy somehow, and probably had sex four more times before I was off to university.
 
I was 18, the young lady was above the age of consent. 60 years later, we’re still a couple. Note, there have been encounters with a few other people for both of us over the intervening years. LOL
 
I lost my virginity at 19 to my eventual wife as a Sophomore in College; she had lost it nearly four years earlier as a Sophomore in high school. Before we met, she had many boyfriends and I.... not a single girlfriend. In fact, I had kissed a girl only once! She was my Sr. Prom date and a family friend; our mom's set up the date. Yep, pretty sad.. :ROFLMAO: Growing up, I was incredibly insecure around girls so I couldn't bring myself to ask a single one out. Though I desperately wanted a girl friend, I felt totally invisible to them.

Things started to change for me when my freshman room mate brought his bench-press and weights from home. I quickly fell in love with weight-lifting and soon was a fixture at the campus gym. By the time I returned as a Sophomore, I had put on 15 lbs of muscle; plus, my skin cleared up, I grew another inch and I finally got a decent haircut. Though I still lacked the confidence to approach girls, it finally seemed like a few were starting to notice me, including a very pretty and outgoing girl who had just moved onto our co-ed floor, just a few doors down. Though her interest in me was obvious, I still couldn't muster the courage to make the first move. Lucky for me, I didn't need to.

During our first floor-party, two weeks after school started, she approached me and said, "Show me your room." ..As soon as the door closed behind us, she was all over me...kissing me deeply, then pulling me onto the top bunk. A few moments later, she started to take off her clothes, prompting me to do likewise. I remember audibly sighing as she removed her bra, giving me my first real-life glimpse of bare breasts. I was wide-eyed - they were as beautiful as any I had ever seen in a Playboy magazine. I asked if I should get a condom. "No..", was her reply, "I'm on the pill."

Over the next 20 minutes, I went from having NO sexual experiences to doing all the things I ever fantasized about. We French kissed, she gave me head, I sucked her nipples, I fingered her, I went down on her, and finally...we had intercourse. We started in missionary position and finished with me spooning her from the side. It was incredible.

Looking back, do I wish she was also a virgin, so we had crossed that threshold together? No, not at all! I'm glad she had sexual relationships before meeting me - I certainly would have done likewise, if given the chance. And I hope she remembers them fondly. Plus, her being sexually experienced made losing my virginity to her so easy, and incredibly pleasurable. She doesn't reveal much about her own first time, but I hope it was at least half as enjoyable as she made mine.

For the rest of our sophomore year, we slept together almost every night - sometimes in my room, sometimes hers. And we’d often quietly fuck once the room mate fell asleep. I was so enthralled with our relationship that I didn't care that my grades were tanking. I was in heaven. I was crazy for her, she was crazy about me, and she seemed to enjoy sex as much as I did - we were doing it at least 4 times a week.

Three years later I broke up with her for a while, during which I had 2 other brief sexual relationships. I did it because I was afraid of marrying her without first sowing my oats just a bit. It was risky as I might have lost her forever. Luckily, nine months later, we were back together. We eventually married about 8 years after that first night in my dorm room. And now, after almost 40 years together, I'm blessed to say that I still adore the girl who took my virginity more than anything on this earth. And....we still have great sex, at least twice per week. And just like that first night, I still lose my breath whenever she removes her bra for me. :love:

Added: Regarding the 2nd question. Yes, my wife gave BJ's before losing her virginity. She was quite boy-crazy in high school and felt giving head wasn't a big deal. To her, it was just a part of the fun of making out with a guy. She says she did it quite a few times before finally having intercourse. Again, I'm glad she enjoyed her sexuality before meeting me.
 
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I realize I didn't respond to the 2nd Question - ie., "Ladies, did you give head before losing your virginity..?"

My wife sure did. She was quite boy-crazy in high school and felt giving BJ's wasn't a big deal. To her, it was just a part of making out with a guy and she enjoyed doing it. So did it quite a few times before finally having intercourse.

I love that my wife enjoyed her sexuality before we met... I certainly would have if girls were likewise attracted to me. :LOL:
 
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13 to 16 yr old Jill G. She was pretty experienced and I had never got to 3rd base . Never made it in 🤷‍♂️ came right as was about to . Definitely shocked me but she was so cool and said it was normal all her bfs had 🤣🤣🤣. She did t let me down and kept at me orally and in no time she said time to try again lol. Got inside and just couldn’t contain myself. Might have lasted 15 strokes probably in 5/6 secs lol . I still love to vacation in Canada🤗
 
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