were you ever the first person to fuck someone?

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I was a mature and experienced 40 when i fucked who was 17 and a virgin. He rang me a yearlater and said he had subseqeuntly been to bed with other girls, but none had been as good as his experience with me - its why younger guys like older milfs!

What a lucky young guy! Too bad that it wasn't me when I was his age. I would've enjoyed it more than losing my virginity to my gf of the same age.
 
I've had the Pleasure of being two young ladies first, and the first to do anal with a few more
 
I have been the first for four for sure, and there are at least three others that I consider likely. It is obvious that the idea is a turn-on for me.
 
I believe I was. Debra. She really wanted to shed a troublesome virginity and I am just the helpful sort.
 
I have been the first for four for sure, and there are at least three others that I consider likely. It is obvious that the idea is a turn-on for me.

That’s very hot bongogal. Were any of these times recent? I’d love to hear more
 
Nope. My wife lost her virginity at 14 and had several sexual partners in college. I was far from her first.
 
Yes, one. First ever gf.

Others had prior experience. My wife had experienced a small army in her.... Probably similar size to the Italian army
 
I'm still a virgin and often worry about this...
If I say I'm a virgin, the person may react negatively about it and just shut down altogether.
If I don't say, the person may either think I'm a bad lay, OR feel negatively and resent me if they find out I kept that from them.
Oh, and then there's the ones that may not believe you and resent you for the perceived lie.

I will say though... some of the responses here have been encouraging and nice to see. :)
 
I'm still a virgin and often worry about this...
If I say I'm a virgin, the person may react negatively about it and just shut down altogether.
If I don't say, the person may either think I'm a bad lay, OR feel negatively and resent me if they find out I kept that from them.
Oh, and then there's the ones that may not believe you and resent you for the perceived lie.

I will say though... some of the responses here have been encouraging and nice to see. :)
There's a nothing wrong with being a virgin, so forget that nonsense and all that pressure your feeling about it.

Take a breath and understand letting someone be your first is a point of pride and honor for them and scary as hell for you.

When you have that person picked out good luck and don't be afraid to tell them what feels good or doesn't and help them be a better lover for you, once you get workings sorted out then you can try out the other stuff and above all have fun or why do it?
 
I’ve had three opportunities to be a first, all a long time ago.

The first was very memorable in that her virginity was physically tough, it wasn’t until our third attempt that her hymen broke, the first two times I actually entered beside it, thing refused to break, and it actually hurt me, can’t even imagine what she went through (was like pushing aside a pair of vice grip panties). When she finally broke on the third time, we both felt a snap, and everything got MUCH looser immediately. Unfortunately there was a fair amount of bleeding which we weren’t prepared for. After that, we enjoyed sex frequently, much better than that initial time. The second and third girls were far different, first entries were easy, and was able to enter with nothing like that first experience. In each case she had some minor discomfort and just a little bleeding, but nothing traumatic. Still remember that snapping sensation though, was like getting snapped with one of those book binder rubber bands, and it actually stung me as much as very much surprised the shit out of me.
 
There's a nothing wrong with being a virgin, so forget that nonsense and all that pressure your feeling about it.

Take a breath and understand letting someone be your first is a point of pride and honor for them and scary as hell for you.

When you have that person picked out good luck and don't be afraid to tell them what feels good or doesn't and help them be a better lover for you, once you get workings sorted out then you can try out the other stuff and above all have fun or why do it?

Thank you, what you've said, in a way, I already know, but it's still a little intimidating since it's made out to be such a big thing. The reassurance definitely helps though! When it does happen I just hope the other person won't turn out to be a stick in the mud X]
 
Thank you, what you've said, in a way, I already know, but it's still a little intimidating since it's made out to be such a big thing. The reassurance definitely helps though! When it does happen I just hope the other person won't turn out to be a stick in the mud X]
It could happen but that just means you make the next time better.
When your so caught up in the moment and you logical brain shuts down the stress does to then its just groping,kissing and rolling around.

Good luck and with that sexy ass I am amazed your still a virgin:)
 
It could happen but that just means you make the next time better.
When your so caught up in the moment and you logical brain shuts down the stress does to then its just groping,kissing and rolling around.

Good luck and with that sexy ass I am amazed your still a virgin:)


Lol To be honest I am kind of surprised of that myself sometimes considering how incessantly horny I was in my younger days :eek:
 
She was 25

We were both 25, and churchgoers. After a few take dates, some of the busybodies claimed that we were doing it. Based on that, the deacons decided that it was a problem. She decided that since we were both judged guilty, yet had not done it yet, that I would be her first.
 
I was my first's first. Our virginities disappeared simultaneously.
 
No, but close. She was my first, I was her second. Then we were together for 15 years, so that ship has most likely sailed.
 
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