What’s something you find incredibly sexy that isn’t sexual at all?

[dirk2024]

On you or on someone else?

I vote for, "please say someone else!"

 

[Djmac1031]

A woman drummer. Sexy AF.

 

[Wifetheif]

White ankle socks on bare legs or nylons. Joggers or secretaries in sneakers with their work shows in ther hand bags.

 

[SimonDoom]

On you or on someone else?

You really have to ask?

I don't wear yoga pants.

 

[PennyThompson]

You really have to ask?

I don't wear yoga pants.

Snug little running guy shorts with the slits on the sides?

Tight grey sweatpants?

 

[MelissaBaby]

You really have to ask?

I don't wear yoga pants.

So, you might feel sexy wearing them, you just haven't tried it out?

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

On you or on someone else?

NOT on me...

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

A woman drummer. Sexy AF.

Not that I'm trying to one up you, but how about a EDIT: Redhaired(for @StillStunned), woman cop(gun and handcuffs) that plays drums on weekends???

 

[anthrodisiac]

A woman with a nice voice who seemlessly slips into demonic growls. I will never tire, nor fail to appreciate the level of talent required, as I've been trying to learn how to do this for six months and only just starting to actually get any consistency and quality. One day, I hope to be able to growl like this

 

[Bramblethorn]

A woman drummer. Sexy AF.

Here you go.

Sadly she left the band soon after and went off to become a psych professor, but we still have Katha Mia.

 

[SimonDoom]

Snug little running guy shorts with the slits on the sides?

Tight grey sweatpants?

 

[Bramblethorn]

You mean submission, complete and total abdication of control?

I was thinking more patience, empathy, and respect for boundaries, but I acknowledge those things can overlap...

 

[ElectricBlue]

Snug little running guy shorts with the slits on the sides?

Tight grey sweatpants?

This is still far too much information, just sayin'.

 

[OddLove]

For me, I think a 'strange' one would be Comfy.

So like a pretty lady in a sexy dress, maybe some thick Dutch braids or long wavy hair elegantly down, and some sexy shoes, makeup done beautifully, etc... that's sexy, right? But for some reason, I will find that person more attractive when they're just waking up or getting ready for bed, and they get their hair in a messy bun, some baggy sweatpants, a way-too-big shirt, and maybe some fuzzy slippers. To see them existing "Comfy" gives my heart a boner.

A more weird thing, something that still makes me cringe at myself, is seat belts. Like, I think the sexiest thing in the world is a partner opening the car door for his lady partner and putting her seat belt on for her. It like makes me giddy and excited, to the point where it creeps me out and makes me judge myself sometimes. But the strap running around her waist and over her shoulder, and the clicking sound that screams 'you're safe a sound my Queen' uggg, I'm a freak.

A maybe more common one, but still very specific, and not inherently sexual by it's own nature, would be tom boy looks. Like shorter hair or shaved head, maybe some looser fitting cloths, a hoodie sweater, some converse shoes, etc. IDK why, but that breaks my brain in a very specific way and I find it extremely sexy. I find it so sexy in fact, that I've had to intentionally stop myself from fetishizing trans men, and even though it was just happening in my own head, I still felt this weird disrespect radiating from me where I wasn't respecting that the person wasn't a "Tomboy" they're literally a trans man who was born with a female body and there's a whole struggle they had to go through that's way deeper than "I like guy clothes." so I kind of pulled back. But like a short haired chick with baggy overalls on a skateboard is still always going to make my insides tingle and I can't change that.

There's a lot more. I live most my life in my own head. But I don't want to write a 10k word essay on it.

 

[TheLobster]

Not body parts.

Narrator: The thread was, in fact, 80% about body parts.

 

[anthrodisiac]

For me, I think a 'strange' one would be Comfy.

Comfiness is sexier than anything else. Nothing sexier than someone lounging about, comfy as fuck.

At least, I hope so. I'm a perpetual comfy lounger.

 

[MaudeBlack]

I went on the Guiness brewery tour thing. There was a stunningly beautiful dark haired girl on it and think she was on a very boring date. You’d have loved her pouring and drinking a Guinness. She told me about a good pub serves great guiness near me.

Just reading that gave me the tingle.
There's definitely a story there - beer, a hot girl with a sexy accent (I'm assuming the accent bit!) and a stranger in town.
It practically writes itself.

Xx

 

[anthrodisiac]

Somebody that animals immediately like. Not someone who like animals — even a jackass can claim, or even actually like, animals — but someone that even grouchy or shy animals immediately warm up to. I believe most animals can intuit a person's vibe pretty well, it's been a pretty reliable indicator of people over the years.

Also, similar situation, but kids as well. Someone that kids get along with really well is pretty good in my book. Again, not someone who likes kids, but whom kids like. Not quite as reliable as an animal, but pretty close.

 

[jonnoback]

Just reading that gave me the tingle.
There's definitely a story there - beer, a hot girl with a sexy accent (I'm assuming the accent bit!) and a stranger in town.
It practically writes itself.

Xx

There was an accent. A lovely Irish one but not too strong. If I hadn’t been with my mate I think I’d have spoken to her a lot more as she seemed fairly uninterested in the guy she was with.
The story does write itself. So maybe I will.

 

[Erozetta]

Somebody that animals immediately like. Not someone who like animals — even a jackass can claim, or even actually like, animals — but someone that even grouchy or shy animals immediately warm up to. I believe most animals can intuit a person's vibe pretty well, it's been a pretty reliable indicator of people over the years.

Also, similar situation, but kids as well. Someone that kids get along with really well is pretty good in my book. Again, not someone who likes kids, but whom kids like. Not quite as reliable as an animal, but pretty close.

Yes!

I trust the intuition of kids and animals over most adult people any day.

My husband and I both get "They normally don't like strangers!" From so many people who seem genuinely shocked that their dog would run over and lay its head in one of our laps or their kid would approach to talk to us about something they greatly enjoy.

But we get the same reaction from old people. I think we just give off "helper" vibes.

 

[Lizzyliv]

To be fair I have a huge crush on Jammalynn.. but any ladies with amazing talents are a huge turn on to me

 

[Cagivagurl]

Many have mentioned eyes...
I think there's a moment... Two people see each other for the first time...
There is an attraction, you see her and are immediately drawn to her... You take several sneaky furtive glances. She has a nice figure, her hair glistens, she exudes a presence you feel.
Then, there is that moment... You're taking another sneaky peak, and your eyes meet. She's caught you staring. Aghast, you quickly turn away, embarrassed...
You can't help it, you have to take another look. This time, it is her who quickly looks away... She's embarrassed to...
The thought blossoms... She's interested.
It is that moment between glances. Nothing has happened... but...

 

[FoxtrotJulietRomeo]

A woman going barefoot where she otherwise probably wouldn't.

I have no interest in the thing for feet stuffed into the camera, toes spread awkwardly wide or anything so contrived but bare feet with a long, linen skirt or dress... barefoot in jeans.... driving in bare feet....!

Thong sandals are a good second-best!

Years ago, my Lead Design Engineer used to drive me bats!

She sat at a corner desk with her back to me (mine was in the centre of the office) and she'd 'absent-mindedly' slip her shoes off and twirl her pretty, bare feet around the base of her chair while she worked.

Must have cost me hours....!!

 

[ConstanceEvermuse]

As a British woman, I melt when hearing men with Southern US accents. (This is possibly due to Bo Duke, my first girlhood love, for those of you old enough to remember.)

There’s something about the slow, warm drawl of the Southern accent that turns me feral…

I'm from the place those accents are born, and it's a thing for me as well. Both Southern drawl and country twang. Either one melts my butter.

I find that people either love my accent, or immediately equate it with ignorance. No middle ground. It's very odd to me.

 

[BDA73]

A woman wearing a baseball hat with her pony tail through the back of the hat

Sexy