What’s the most humiliating thing a woman can do in a femdom JOI scenario

[Dearelliot]

Masturbate with her soiled panties in my mouth, into a glass of her pee, knowing when I'm done, she will make me drink the full glass...She has emptied a used condom into a spoon for me...professionals only, I get nada otherwise.
After I masturbate, I have lost interest in kink for a while, so being made to perform after isn't as exciting, it's a bit mechanical...But I do as I'm told.
Some Mistresses are very talented at keeping my interest in sex, after, while others are not.
I've had Mistresses give me orders when I leave...they have given me a small bottle of their pee and told me I have to drink it when I get home. Some have told me I have to call them and ask permission if I want to masturbate. These are professional mistresses I have seen many times...One made me save my cum and freeze it...yes I did that, and she did make me. This interaction made my worship of her even stronger, and in her mind guaranteed repeat business.

 

[Justynewhitney]

Make him expose himself in public. Wear panties and bend over so people see them.

 

[Erosfan]

After I cum, I'm pretty much done with the sexual aspect. I lose interest almost instantly. On a few occasions, where it was quite possible that we were being observed, my wife would make me stay naked and at her disposal. It was humiliating. After a while, I would recharge and be ready to go again. Anything she wanted from me was good.

 

[Justynewhitney]

After I cum, I'm pretty much done with the sexual aspect. I lose interest almost instantly. On a few occasions, where it was quite possible that we were being observed, my wife would make me stay naked and at her disposal. It was humiliating. After a while, I would recharge and be ready to go again. Anything she wanted from me was good.

Would love to watch that and masturbate, knowing I was being watched

 

[Erosfan]

Would love to watch that and masturbate, knowing I was being watched

I think I would enjoy that too.

 

[Horny_traveler]

I'm working on some ideas and wanted to get input from others into femdom and JOI. In your opinion, what’s the most degrading or humiliating thing a dominant woman can do or say during a JOI scene? I'm especially interested in creative or intense examples that really reinforce control and power dynamics, whether it's verbal, psychological, or physical. Open to all ideas — curious to see what people think pushes the limits in a consensual, erotic way.

for me, great JOI's include the speaker telling me to say things and asking me questions ("tell me you love me", "tell me you'll do anything for me", etc etc), so maybe having the listener say degrading things?

My current mood would suggest things like: Tell me you'll take cock for me, tell me to steal your wife from you, tell me you'll beg for chastity, or things like beg me to make you cum while explicitly saying you'll deny them.

 

[MtrFmd]

Today my wife and I had an interesting conversation. Her biggest turn on is actually watching men treating women brutally, like throat fucking them mercilessly. But she sees herself as the guy there.

So, I asked her why she isn't really into pegging me. Her answer: she doesn't think she is strong enough to do it in a convincingly hard and long way, so she rather doesn't do it at all. Therefore, the idea was born that she could make me use a dildo on myself. She could order me to go deeper and harder, just like she pleases and if I don't perform adequately, she could use the whip to motivate me.

We haven't actually done this yet but just that the option is on the table is equally freighting and exciting.

 

[9to5]

she had a dildo in her hand and was showing me on the dildo how to stroke my cock for her. she was clothed and I was naked. fun tto copy her stokes on the dildo and doing the same to my cock

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Being called degrading names and having to admit they turn me on is good. Being spat on while I'm told how to masturbate. Having to detail the most secret fantasies I have, and only then will she give me the countdown ....

 

[HotWifeOC]

she had a dildo in her hand and was showing me on the dildo how to stroke my cock for her. she was clothed and I was naked. fun tto copy her stokes on the dildo and doing the same to my cock

Sounds fun

 

[9to5]

Sounds fun

it was! she was nice even that she was dressed on cam and I wasn't. she gave the instructions on what I should do.
she enjoyed watching me

 

[HotWifeOC]

it was! she was nice even that she was dressed on cam and I wasn't. she gave the instructions on what I should do.
she enjoyed watching me

Hmmm

 

[9to5]

Hmmm

Hmmm ? what's got you thinking?

 

[HotWifeOC]

Hmmm ? what's got you thinking?

Watching

 

[9to5]

Watching

if you like to watch I could help if you want.
its been a long time since I did this. on the old skype format

 

[SexyAruna]

yummy yummy
Which of you losers wants a femdom JOI? Beg me for it.

 

[9to5]

yummy yummy
Which of you losers wants a femdom JOI? Beg me for it.

I would be on my knees and locked in chastity waiting for the time you tell me to unlock and use my cock in the manner you like

 

[lowcollar]

Cock and balls taped between the legs. You are required to shave your armpits in front of her. She makes you up like a slut with eye shadow, lipstick etc. She slaps you in the face before urinating on the floor and requiring you to lick it up. Then, she will not be sexual with you. You have to clean the house, dress in pink, scrub the tub and toilet while she watches. Ev ery time that you don't do something to her liking, you are called names and slapped in the face. Unless you are being ordered around, you are completely ignored. When she needs to fart, she required your face at her asshole and verbally berates you for it.
This might be a good start

 

[BillyWalrus]

We used to use rubber band castration on male calves. It cuts off circulation to the ball sack and they eventually fall off. They should make these available for human males and then the wives of cucks could use them on their husbands. They would be happier as eunuchs anyway.

 

[PaxNurgle]

^I am not so sure about that. Part of the appeal of being a cuck and/or being in chastity, is the constant tease and arousal, and the erotic torment that goes with it. With castration, all the appeal is gone, the desire is gone, and the whole mechanism of using chastity as a means of manipulation and control of your partner will dissappear.

 

[BillyWalrus]

^I am not so sure about that. Part of the appeal of being a cuck and/or being in chastity, is the constant tease and arousal, and the erotic torment that goes with it. With castration, all the appeal is gone, the desire is gone, and the whole mechanism of using chastity as a means of manipulation and control of your partner will dissappear.

That is true but the cuck can revel in the fact that his manhood is COMPLETELY gone. He has taken it as far as it can be taken.

 

[NancyPan]

Erotic humiliation is truly an art form. The words of JOI are important, of course, but tone of voice, inflection, and timing are crucial elements. As we all have unique “triggers,” it is difficult to write a universal script that will arouse all submissive males. The Domme must know her subject and watch his reaction to be most effective. I am fortunate that my wife is quite good at it. Sometimes she will simply say, “Remind me why I don’t let you put it in me any more,” or “Convince me why I should let you eat my pussy.” It is often her laughter that puts me over the edge.

 

[switchersm]

That is true but the cuck can revel in the fact that his manhood is COMPLETELY gone. He has taken it as far as it can be taken.

Both arguments of Billy and Pax are understandable but don't forget castration of a man is against law and leads to jail

 

[nothingatall27]

I once told a boyfriend, while I was giving him a face-down "massage", that his asshole was "winking" with the rhythm of my handjob. He seemed pretty embarrassed by that.

That would have just made me want you to peg me, even though it might have been embarrasing too