What catagory am I in now?

[Fmature2play]

I am the same way, and quite frankly I have stopped wondering why. I like what I like. It really is just as simple as that.

the only time I seem to run into issues is when having to explain that to other people....

Yeah my son has been asking a lot lately "why" and "when" and really I can't answer him and it has gotten me to thinking. Certainly not enough to make the earth stop spinning. My daughter has had no problem at all with my decision but my oldest might need more time to come to terms with it. Thanks for your comments Hottie it makes me feel better and a bit more normal.

 

[Fmature2play]

It's wolfman's brother!


Back to the actual topic-- my personal theory as to why SOME women, including you, fmature, and I, SOMETIMES like to fuck men EVEN THOUGH we don't mostly need them in our lives-- is because of the yummy pheromones they emit.

Has nothing to do with having a dick, or intelligence, or money, or looks or likeability. Some guys just smell good, and give you a chemical boost into the brains through the sinuses.

That's what I think.

Funny thing is, Stella, that now that I am not wanting a romantic involvement with a man - just enjoy an evening with literally NO strings attached, I am meeting all of these men that want to tie me down. Where are all the funny, witty, wine and dine and talk for a couple hours over a drink and f*ck me silly men now? When I was married and not available for them they seemed to be a dime a dozen. Intelligent, funny, sexy men will never go out of style but I want a woman to capture my heart and she is very hard to find. Then again, the search is part of the fun maybe. Thanks to all for your advice and comments.

 

[Seamen]

Moron.

Bitch.

 

[girlsmiley]

Bitch.

My feewing is hurted.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Funny thing is, Stella, that now that I am not wanting a romantic involvement with a man - just enjoy an evening with literally NO strings attached, I am meeting all of these men that want to tie me down. Where are all the funny, witty, wine and dine and talk for a couple hours over a drink and f*ck me silly men now? When I was married and not available for them they seemed to be a dime a dozen. Intelligent, funny, sexy men will never go out of style but I want a woman to capture my heart and she is very hard to find. Then again, the search is part of the fun maybe. Thanks to all for your advice and comments.

Crazy how that happens!

 

[Seamen]

My feewing is hurted.

I'm sorry for what I said before .. I felt bad as soon as I pressed "Post". I most definitely didn't mean it; and I am also sorry for what I said before what I said this time. That was totally uncalled for on my part. I just come here to have a good time and definitely not to step on any toes. I apologize unconditionally and take back my words.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I'm sorry for what I said before .. I felt bad as soon as I pressed "Post". I most definitely didn't mean it; and I am also sorry for what I said before what I said this time. That was totally uncalled for on my part. I just come here to have a good time and definitely not to step on any toes. I apologize unconditionally and take back my words.

Did you know that you could have also pressed "edit" the moment you realised you felt bad? Do it fast enough and there won't even be a timestamp. It's an excellent thing for those kinds of moments.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

Yeah my son has been asking a lot lately "why" and "when" and really I can't answer him and it has gotten me to thinking. Certainly not enough to make the earth stop spinning. My daughter has had no problem at all with my decision but my oldest might need more time to come to terms with it. Thanks for your comments Hottie it makes me feel better and a bit more normal.

Seems like you just got worn out on men and is perfectly fine just fucking them when the need arises. It happens. It's not really hard to explain, there's just many ways to explain it. I'm sorta the same way(except being a dude) I like to have sex with men but don't really seek out a relationship with one. I have my reasons too.

Did you know that you could have also pressed "edit" the moment you realised you felt bad? Do it fast enough and there won't even be a timestamp. It's an excellent thing for those kinds of moments.

Well you know how m en are... being rabid dogs and all.

 

[Seamen]

1. I like to have sex with men

2. Well you know how m en are... being rabid dogs and all.

Combining 1 and 2, we can infer that you like to have sex with rabid ... now that makes you something worse, dunit ?

 

[Stella_Omega]

No, I don't know how men are rabid dogs. This thread doesn't warrant all this hostility.

 

[Seamen]

This thread doesn't warrant all this hostility.

I agree. I for one don't even remember how the commotion got started in the first place; I skipped back to the start, and for the life of me I can't figure it out

I say we all just get up, go home, get off and call it a night

 

[Stella_Omega]

I agree. I for one don't even remember how the commotion got started in the first place; I skipped back to the start, and for the life of me I can't figure it out

I say we all just get up, go home, get off and call it a night

You've done some nice and precise apologising, I'll say that for you.

But you know... it's very obvious where the commotion started.

I hope things get better for you, for me, for us all.

 

[Horseylover]

Umm, surely the obvious thing would be to say you're bisexual? Not that confusing really?

xx

 

[Fmature2play]

Perhaps you are right but for me it just doesn't seem that simple. I am much more interested in a relationship than just a sexual escapade with a woman. I have little desires for a one nighter no matter what she may be like. It sort of bothers me that I have gotten so shallow as to prefer just sex with a man sometimes rather than any form of intimacy. I have turned 180* from what I was for so many years. For those of you that have it all figured out you have my envy. Me, still lots of stuff to sort thru in my cupboard.

 

[Stella_Omega]

You could say, as I do, that you are a bisexual dyke.

Or, you could say you're a four or five on the Kinsey Scale

or that you like men-- but you love women.

 

[Fmature2play]

I think all of the above fits me like a glove.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think all of the above fits me like a glove.

*thinks of half-a-dozen really dumb jokes about gloves fitting*

 

[HottieMama]

You could say, as I do, that you are a bisexual dyke.

Or, you could say you're a four or five on the Kinsey Scale

or that you like men-- but you love women.

I have used that "like men but love women" descriptor before with varying degrees of success.

 

[Horseylover]

Perhaps you are right but for me it just doesn't seem that simple. I am much more interested in a relationship than just a sexual escapade with a woman. I have little desires for a one nighter no matter what she may be like. It sort of bothers me that I have gotten so shallow as to prefer just sex with a man sometimes rather than any form of intimacy. I have turned 180* from what I was for so many years. For those of you that have it all figured out you have my envy. Me, still lots of stuff to sort thru in my cupboard.

Kind of sounds like me at the start of uni. I came out of a relationship with my first serious girlfriend, and then kind of went through a bad spell and actually enjoyed the company of a few boys, just one nighters, nothing meaningful.

xx

 

[Fmature2play]

*thinks of half-a-dozen really dumb jokes about gloves fitting*

hmmmm Stella has been hitting the margarita's this afternoon? Got the giggles from an earlier post and now thinking of silly jokes. This might get even better.

 

[Fmature2play]

I have used that "like men but love women" descriptor before with varying degrees of success.

I am determined NOT to become a man hater. I will admit that men try my patience quicker than women now and I am working on that because everyone deserves to be treated the way I insist on being treated......no matter how wrong the guys are.....I mean even if they don't quite get it.......no that didn't come out right either.......oh ya'll know what I mean. guys I am j/k please don't fill my pm box with nasty grams.

 

[HottieMama]

I am determined NOT to become a man hater. I will admit that men try my patience quicker than women now and I am working on that because everyone deserves to be treated the way I insist on being treated......no matter how wrong the guys are.....I mean even if they don't quite get it.......no that didn't come out right either.......oh ya'll know what I mean. guys I am j/k please don't fill my pm box with nasty grams.

I am not a man-hater. I actually firmly believe I "think" more like a man than like a typical woman in some areas. I just have learned the hard way, that I am not cut out to be in a long term relationship with a male any longer. If I look at my life and at my more successful relationships, my relationships with women have lasted longer and have been more fulfilling overall than my relationships with men. I "see" myself growing old with a female partner, not a male.

 

[Fmature2play]

Hottie please don't think I was calling you a man hater by any means. I quoted your post because I agree with it and you make a lot of good points in your posts. I have a couple of friends that are soooo bitter after divorcing and even tho I simply don't want to have a relationship anymore with a man I don't want to let myself turn into the ultra bitch toward them all the time. That only serves to make one hard hearted and hurts everyone around them.

 

[Krystal89]

I have begun to realize over the last several months that I really don't want a relationship with a man again. I have dated several women the last couple of years and one very seriously to the point that I simply have no desire to be romantically involved with men anymore. Problem is I still enjoy sex with men. Sometimes I find myself wanting that more than same sex. Does not happen a lot but it does happen. The question I posed was rhetorical really but I do sometimes wonder how it is I could want sex from a man and not be the least bit interested in anything more. My vib would take care of that urge if that is all it is.

I am struggling with that same thing. Married, and enjoy sex with the hubby. But there's something about women. It's special.