What do Dommes like to wear during kinky playtime?

[KimGordon67]

Surely if someone's in the dom/domme role, they wear whatever TF they want and no one complains ... isn't that the point?

 

[LI Kerwell]

Surely if someone's in the dom/domme role, they wear whatever TF they want and no one complains ... isn't that the point?

Not quite..... "and the sub will like it!"

LOL.

 

[KimGordon67]

Not quite..... "and the sub will like it!"

LOL.

lmao - exactly.

 

[dominatrixNY]

I like to dress up and wear different things: leather, latex, naughty lingerie, high heels, high tight boots, stockings, dif, corset , uniforms and some other things....

 

[lilcuriouscatt]

Another Domme piping up.

I believe in being comfortable so no latex or skintight anything for me. I usually have on regular clothes and so does my sub, until I undress him. Sometimes I do enjoy wearing something silky but I have never needed fetish clothing to dominate anyone.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Surely if someone's in the dom/domme role, they wear whatever TF they want and no one complains ... isn't that the point?

Exactly. My wife doest have to dress up. Sweats a really comfy T-shirt and a hair tie. I’m already excited.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Somehow I missed this thread when it was created, but I don't think my answer now will be much different than it would have been five years ago.

I've never been one to dress up for sexy time, I prefer to be naked. However, if I were to attend some sort of kink event as a Domme, I would certainly put some thought into my outfit, although it likely still wouldn't be what shows up in FemDom stuff on XHamster. Let me think about it and come back with something.

 

[Goldenfinger]

She can wear.
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or she can wear
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it doesn’t matter, either way she’s sexy as hell.

 

[wallstreetguy]

During play, I like to be full clothed, most often in a suit. I can take off tie and/or jacket. But it stays on until I am done and it is my turn to cum.

 

[emme8]

I switch roles so I tend to prefer to give some cue for Bob of what to expect. I have a few sort sexy nighties I bought with the intention of wearing when I feel submissive. And several long sexy nighties to wear while being dominant. Normal nights are just unsexy PJ'S. Bob is always submissive enough to wait for my cues before he makes any moves. And when I need to submit, he can be dominant enough to top me.

 

[BiBunny]

I either wear nothing, or I wear something comfortable. I am not a "Domme clothes" person.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I switch roles so I tend to prefer to give some cue for Bob of what to expect. I have a few sort sexy nighties I bought with the intention of wearing when I feel submissive. And several long sexy nighties to wear while being dominant. Normal nights are just unsexy PJ'S. Bob is always submissive enough to wait for my cues before he makes any moves. And when I need to submit, he can be dominant enough to top me.

Great idea!
It’s easy to forget that communication can take many forms.

 

[lisaharlot]

I have a leather jacket and a leather skirt but I don’t wear them for playtime. My outfits range from nothing to underwear to whatever I happen to be wearing that day.

 

[MikeLucas]

Very great question

 

[Vardai]

As for the initial question what are you wearing for playtime.
Im a switch and what im wearing as a Domina or a sub can be various, related to my mood, the preference of me and my lover. From goth look to bohemian boho dress.

Here is one of my favorite as Domme, im more a classy one that make me feel powerful and sexy than with pvc slutty dress.
https://pin.it/5tLM9o3

As a sub well my master or mistress lover will decide for me

 

[MikeLucas]

As for the initial question what are you wearing for playtime.
Im a switch and what im wearing as a Domina or a sub can be various, related to my mood, the preference of me and my lover. From goth look to bohemian boho dress.

Here is one of my favorite as Domme, im more a classy one that make me feel powerful and sexy than with pvc slutty dress.
https://pin.it/5tLM9o3

As a sub well my master or mistress lover will decide for me

Dear god. That’s a great outfit

 

[Gln1517]

The Dom should wear whatever they want and the submissive should be naked.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I know this is an old thread but since there aren't a lot of dommes answering I'll give my two cents. Easy access skirt, tank top, and thigh high socks are my go tos. They're sexy without being uncomfortable and I don't *need* to take them off for anything. Sometimes being clothed while my sub is naked can add to the fun. My partner likes it when I wear heels and I like making him kiss the combat boots I wear all the time. Here's a recent outfit of mine.

I like the outfit. Simple and practical (easy access skirt) but still outlines the alluring curves of your torso. And the combat boots you mentioned definitely got my attention -- especially if you've used them to press down on a partner's sensitive areas. There's definitely an added sense of dominance when the person "topping" is clothed, versus the unclothed "vulnerable" bottom.

 

[danbuff]

As for the initial question what are you wearing for playtime.
Im a switch and what im wearing as a Domina or a sub can be various, related to my mood, the preference of me and my lover. From goth look to bohemian boho dress.

Here is one of my favorite as Domme, im more a classy one that make me feel powerful and sexy than with pvc slutty dress.
https://pin.it/5tLM9o3

As a sub well my master or mistress lover will decide for me

Love the choice!

 

[EStaccato]

Every Dom looks good in a suit. Pecs or tits, both are equally hot. And a tie is the Swiss Army knife of the bedroom.