What Do Men Look at?

[BigM]

Well, Goddess, looks like you're getting answers all over the board, which is appropriate. As someone hinted at earlier, for me it depends on what is most attractive about her -- whether it's her gorgeous hair, bee-stung lips, full breasts, hour-glass shape... You get the idea.

But honestly, what really catches my eye is if she's looking my way. I've found myself attracted to lots of women who, in hindsight, wouldn't normally meet my 'criteria' for looks. But the fact that they showed interest in me makes them suddenly very attractive. (Or maybe my id is tell me subconsciously they're an easier target, which is kinda sad.)

 

[HerVeryOwn]

In the day, clubs were absolutely out for me.

Mannerisms and eyes were the first thing I would notice.
From that point on, it was intelligence and personality.

That's not to say that a nice booty isn't noticed. It's just the icing on the cake.

 

[Winemaster]

wanted to add....

I do believe that face is the first...then if she has a nice butt and legs...OH, baby.
And it is so important how she carries herself...is it like a woman....soft and sexy. I have to say...I love active woman...and they can be active and still look soft and sexy....
great thread with some great answers....

 

[Xerxes82]

A pretty smile immediately gets my attention, and if she's got nice legs she'll keep it...

 

[aconsenter]

For some reason, as I have gotten older, I first tend to look at/for short haired women or ones with their hair pulled back on their heads. Can't explain it, hair pulled tightly back and they get a second look for sure.
Then tits. Cleavage is for attracting men's glances, period.
I also am more forgiving to older and "plainer" looking women and tend to look for beauty in small parts. They don't have to "have it all"/the whole package to be cute.

 

[seohdwm46]

her ass, of course that means nothing if she never smiles

 

[Marcus2]

Being someone that notices quite alot, I noticed that no one selected height yet...

 

[cpk50]

..being in a wheelchair, I always notice her legs and shoes (I love high heels) Then my eyes move to her ass and tits

 

[badmatt]

I can't lie, it's her ass. It's not how I make decisions, but it is the first place I look. Decisions are always based on personality and lasting attraction (beyond say 1 Hour)

 

[blkmack]

it depend on if i see her from the back or front first but you cant go wrong with some tits or ass lol im saying what everyone esle is thinking

 

[kaptain karnage]

For me the most important feature has always been a womans hair. Body types are not really that important I'm just as happy with small tits as large and a skinny girl or a bbw both have their unique thrills to offer.

I don't have a certain 'type' of woman I'm attracted to so each one is judged (that sounds a bit harsh!) on who she is rather than a preconceived idea of what they should be.

Saying that I do have quite a thing for girls with 'Irish' hair types especially redheads with long flowing curls.

 

[mugman]

What about the neck?

I'm always attracted to a woman's neck first. The way she turns her head... the way she carries herself says alot about her self-confidence.

 

[funinmd]

T & A guy here

 

[trom2004]

Usually its always the breasts because they're the closest attractive thing other than the face. They also stick out and are completely natural in attracting men.

 

[kaptain karnage]

Actually breasts were developed when we began (as a species) to walk upright and are an imitation of the ass. So when you think about it the ass is more naturally attractive to our species.

 

[ReadyOne]

Being someone that notices quite alot, I noticed that no one selected height yet...

Needs a good waist/hips ratio, and the tits must arrive before the tummy.

But in my case, the #1 thing I look for abover everything is HEIGHT as less than 2% of the female population are shorter than I.

And I might add that the way a woman walks, particularly if she's walking when I first see her, makes a very big impression.

 

[seohdwm46]

I usually check out the ass first because it's the only part of her I can scope out without her catching me I have noticed lately that there are many women who do not smile much. Why is that? Men take that as a sign of them having no intrest in us. Are we correct?