What do smart, sexy younger women look for in older guys?

Older men are elegant calm mature sensible ! Love how they flirt so effortlessly
It's easier now that we're older. We understand women better than in our youth. It's about presence...showing up...putting her first in so many ways. And the salt and pepper hair doesn't hurt!
 
It’s difficult to explain, but for me, the older, more sophisticated man, has a certain mystique about him. They recognize how to make me feel attractive, and wanted. There is the experience and style in their efforts to seduce me, and they tend not to be in a frantic rush to get my knickers off. Once involved, they know how to bring me to a level of sexual enjoyment. Taking their time, instead of rushing, and thinking only of their own gratification. (Sometimes there are disappointments though). I’m drifting more to the aged, more mature men and learning a lot from them. Much more than from the young fellows, who think a fast, vigorous pounding is what I want. Although, there are times when that is exactly what I need.

Lucy.
Thank you Lucy. That is the best explanation I have heard yet,
 
A friend once wrote: "Making love to a young man is like a Top Fuel drag race: It takes off hard and fast and super-loud! It's a white-knuckle high acceleration ride, big and loud and thrilling. But it's over in about 4 seconds, and once the chute pops, he's done. But I'd rather have the 24 hours of Le Mans, and that requires a more mature man."
 
A friend once wrote: "Making love to a young man is like a Top Fuel drag race: It takes off hard and fast and super-loud! It's a white-knuckle high acceleration ride, big and loud and thrilling. But it's over in about 4 seconds, and once the chute pops, he's done. But I'd rather have the 24 hours of Le Mans, and that requires a more mature man."


We definitely have that advantage and know how to take our time. It isn't all about us and getting there quickly.
 
A friend once wrote: "Making love to a young man is like a Top Fuel drag race: It takes off hard and fast and super-loud! It's a white-knuckle high acceleration ride, big and loud and thrilling. But it's over in about 4 seconds, and once the chute pops, he's done. But I'd rather have the 24 hours of Le Mans, and that requires a more mature man."
you can still ride it hard and fast into the corners in the 24 hrs Le Mans
 
It's easier now that we're older. We understand women better than in our youth. It's about presence...showing up...putting her first in so many ways. And the salt and pepper hair doesn't hurt!
Its the salt and pepper for me....
That smile, and the warmth in his touch....
I feel seen and heard ...

Its usually an undeniable connect that I don't ever feel with others
 
A friend once wrote: "Making love to a young man is like a Top Fuel drag race: It takes off hard and fast and super-loud! It's a white-knuckle high acceleration ride, big and loud and thrilling. But it's over in about 4 seconds, and once the chute pops, he's done. But I'd rather have the 24 hours of Le Mans, and that requires a more mature man."
The thing about NASCAR though is a little bumping and grinding is expected.
 
A friend once wrote: "Making love to a young man is like a Top Fuel drag race: It takes off hard and fast and super-loud! It's a white-knuckle high acceleration ride, big and loud and thrilling. But it's over in about 4 seconds, and once the chute pops, he's done. But I'd rather have the 24 hours of Le Mans, and that requires a more mature man."
Fuck....
When you put it that way, me too....
But I'm already sold .... I love me a silver fox....
 
It’s difficult to explain, but for me, the older, more sophisticated man, has a certain mystique about him. They recognize how to make me feel attractive, and wanted. There is the experience and style in their efforts to seduce me, and they tend not to be in a frantic rush to get my knickers off. Once involved, they know how to bring me to a level of sexual enjoyment. Taking their time, instead of rushing, and thinking only of their own gratification. (Sometimes there are disappointments though). I’m drifting more to the aged, more mature men and learning a lot from them. Much more than from the young fellows, who think a fast, vigorous pounding is what I want. Although, there are times when that is exactly what I need.

Lucy.
As an older man who appreciates all women it was a delight to read Lucy's thoughts😘
 
I would look to the title of the thread: smart was the first descriptor. Mature men (at least I do) like interesting women. We're more interested in the long game. Money is part of it for most women, but in the sense of security, not gold digging. Unfortunately some attractive women learn how to manipulate men instead of becoming their partners. taht turns out bad all around.
 
I'm an older man, 54, with some stories here, but I am always curious about what makes the older man/younger woman dynamic click. Yes, I'm experienced in this area, but one can never learn too much :) Any thoughts from younger women would be much appreciated. And who knows what can happen from there?
I don't think it's entirely money. At that age many of these gals are starting to fully embrace their sexuality. They become disillusioned with their immature boyfriends who simply cannot fulfill their sexual needs. As far as the young/old dynamic goes, they are most likely trying to fill a void; plus, there may be some daddy issues as well. If you ever find yourself in this position, don't expect anything long-term, just enjoy it while it lasts. Trust me, your ego will swell tremendously once you get your hands on some tight and willing college pussy!
 
I'm an older man, 54, with some stories here, but I am always curious about what makes the older man/younger woman dynamic click. Yes, I'm experienced in this area, but one can never learn too much :) Any thoughts from younger women would be much appreciated. And who knows what can happen from there?
1. The same thing we look for in all men.
2. Generally not ‘54 yo looking for 22 year old’ because it’s creepy as fuck. We don’t want someone who could possibly be on the Epstein side of that island.
 
Unpopular opinion, but I haven’t found older men to be better in bed. Younger men tend to be more attentive and focused on women’s pleasure in my experience.

But I’m drawn to older men more from a fetish perspective. I like the sexual objectification or inbuilt power dynamic of it.
Obviously your opinion is what matters most to you but I would disagree. I will be the first to admit that younger men have more stamina which is why I believe older men are more attentive and focused on the woman's pleasure. We are not going to be able to get it up three times in an hour or so. We have to pace ourselves, so we spend more time in the foreplay and bringing her arousal up. Also, the number of younger women that pay attention to older guys, not calling us creepy, is small so if an older guy finds a younger women, he is certainly going to do his best to take care of her because there is not another one around the corner like there is for young guys.
 
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