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Astroman72 said:
Shape is a lot more important to me than size.

The ones I love are ones that are pretty similar to mine--white, cut, thick, flared head, just a little bigger than average, and slight upward curve. But if that shape is there, smaller or bigger is still hot to me.

I read some online discussion on another site about bisexual guys, and a woman posted her theory that the reason some guys crave cock so much was that when they started masturbating, they always looked at their cock while they were doing it, and then they just became hard-wired to associate the look of a cock with intense sexual pleasure.

I can't speak for other guys, but for me I think that's 100% accurate--and that's why I'm most turned on by cocks that look like mine.

Still, I imagine most guys have always looked at their cock while they masturbate, and most don't crave cocks. I guess you can never come up with a theory that explains why we all have different sexual turn-ons.
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I think there's a lot in this theory. I've heard another point of view which says that a person's first sexual experience largely determines their attitude to sexual situations that arise in the rest of life. I'm sympathetic to that because I can see how it mightbe true ofd me!
 
Astroman72 said:
Shape is a lot more important to me than size.

The ones I love are ones that are pretty similar to mine--white, cut, thick, flared head, just a little bigger than average, and slight upward curve. But if that shape is there, smaller or bigger is still hot to me.

I read some online discussion on another site about bisexual guys, and a woman posted her theory that the reason some guys crave cock so much was that when they started masturbating, they always looked at their cock while they were doing it, and then they just became hard-wired to associate the look of a cock with intense sexual pleasure.

I can't speak for other guys, but for me I think that's 100% accurate--and that's why I'm most turned on by cocks that look like mine.

Still, I imagine most guys have always looked at their cock while they masturbate, and most don't crave cocks. I guess you can never come up with a theory that explains why we all have different sexual turn-ons.
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I was with you until the age thing- I tend to go for older guys and I'm definitely not looking for MY dick.

But there are cocks out there that just make my fucking mouth water. My brain instantly goes to, "I bet I can get him to shove that down my throat".

I'd rather have them cut but honestly for me the biggest thing is hardness- I want that shit rock fucking hard, no give at all. Like how some guys get erect but it's still malleable and squishy? I want to move away from that- that shit should be like a pipe or someshit.

Which I guess should gear me towards younger guys but it doesn't. I want the best of both worlds like a spoiled little bitch.
 
stargame said:
Some times a huge cock can be a little scary, I am amazed at how big some men are. But......:heart:
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I had this experience with a Scottish / African guy. He was so big I was too scared to actually sleep with him. He was sweet though and we almost did but I did give him head and it was incredible, we filmed it and it’s still probably one of the hottest things I can say I’ve done. It was beautful and I adored it but I do wish now that I’d be brave enough to sleep with him. It was about 12/13 inches and like a coke can almost (for girth), it was a beautful cock and I’m proud that I at least could blow him. Well that’s my story such as it is! X
 
AmbroseBierce said:
I think there's a lot in this theory. I've heard another point of view which says that a person's first sexual experience largely determines their attitude to sexual situations that arise in the rest of life. I'm sympathetic to that because I can see how it mightbe true ofd me!
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Same here. I was having sex with other guys for several years before I ever had sex with a woman. I still am more attracted to guys than women.

But when it comes to cock size, a real monster is not as attractive as a normal sized cock. Even small ones have their charms.
 
Mqoi said:
Same here. I was having sex with other guys for several years before I ever had sex with a woman. I still am more attracted to guys than women.

But when it comes to cock size, a real monster is not as attractive as a normal sized cock. Even small ones have their charms.
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I agree all cocks are wonderful. But for some reason when I am cruising around looking at porn and things a big cock always draws me in. Maybe the fantasy maybe just primal.
 
Skpmulls said:
Looking at the threads here about black cocks and cocks that would make you take the plunge always make me feel submissive. It is the big ones that get me going.

Am I the only One?
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I'm the same, especially big and black...some great points made on here.

For me I believe it became a "fetish" for me for a few reasons.

My first sexual experience was sucking a guy with a larger penis than me.

When I watched porn initially, I noticed I was larger than most white male porn stars at the time.
I wanted to see cocks I could relate to or fantasize it being me fucking the hot women so I gravitated to interracial porn because especially then, only well hung black guys were cast in porn.

So much of society tends to relate cock size with desirability and virility and guys tend to obsess about it or at least I did at a young age.

Guys tend to think women desire large cocks and gain more pleasure from them which is likely true on some scale but usually not as important as we tend to believe, but it still instills a level of penis envy.

The general societal obsession with bigger is better mentality with most physical features.

All these factors combine, perhaps especially for guys with a more fetishistic desire for cock as opposed to a true bi or gay male who wouldn't focus on one feature or act as obsessively.

Just my 2 cents on a topic I've pondered for years about. LOL :D
 
BBCfan said:
I'm the same, especially big and black...some great points made on here.

For me I believe it became a "fetish" for me for a few reasons.

My first sexual experience was sucking a guy with a larger penis than me.

When I watched porn initially, I noticed I was larger than most white male porn stars at the time.
I wanted to see cocks I could relate to or fantasize it being me fucking the hot women so I gravitated to interracial porn because especially then, only well hung black guys were cast in porn.

So much of society tends to relate cock size with desirability and virility and guys tend to obsess about it or at least I did at a young age.

Guys tend to think women desire large cocks and gain more pleasure from them which is likely true on some scale but usually not as important as we tend to believe, but it still instills a level of penis envy.

The general societal obsession with bigger is better mentality with most physical features.

All these factors combine, perhaps especially for guys with a more fetishistic desire for cock as opposed to a true bi or gay male who wouldn't focus on one feature or act as obsessively.

Just my 2 cents on a topic I've pondered for years about. LOL :D
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Well said.
 
txfuncouple said:
Its this:
https://m.xhamster.com/videos/guy-with-a-big-dick-jacks-himself-off-106472#mlrelated
Could not imqgine having one like this, but if I did......oh my!
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Big long fat ones can be fun but they can hurt so nice. Perfect when needing to be hurt. However this one so nice. Imagine the positions he could take me in. I do wonder of he put it all in would he cause upper intestinal problems? And if he went down my throat would he shoot directly into my lungs. Would he call it lung fucking. I want that COCK
 
when I was living the lifestyle, I did enjoy big cock bottoms...that was fun. their is a mystique, hung men are always the brute top. far from it. Big meat is exciting to look at, they of course are wonderful to have in your hands..

personally I liked hearing about the big dick my wife had...and her opinion is hear nor their...if you're 5-6in cut and thick...she'll go for that first over thin and 8in
 
4yourpleasureiam said:
Big long fat ones can be fun but they can hurt so nice. Perfect when needing to be hurt. However this one so nice. Imagine the positions he could take me in. I do wonder of he put it all in would he cause upper intestinal problems? And if he went down my throat would he shoot directly into my lungs. Would he call it lung fucking. I want that COCK
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That one is definitely very very nice. It would be fun to try.
 
Here's an interesting website that brings some science and actual data to the topic:

Penis Size Percentile Calculator

I note this because a lot of men have anxiety about their cocks. I think much of it stems from porn, where just about everyone has an 8+ inch cock, which science shows is rare. According to actual research the average cock is about 5-3/4 inches long and 4-3/4 inches in circumference when fully erect. But, us guys don't get that message and it's easy to have a larger than average cock but be made to feel that it's smaller than average.

The other thing research tells us is that women don't generally want 9-inch cocks. Research shows that girth is preferred to length and that the ideal length is somewhere in the 6 to 7 inch range depending on the woman. So again, having an 8+ inch cock just might be detrimental.

Do any women agree or disagree with this?
 
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CamronsInsider said:
Here's an interesting website that brings some science and actual data to the topic:

Penis Size Percentile Calculator

I note this because a lot of men have anxiety about their cocks. I think much of it stems from porn, where just about everyone has an 8+ inch cock, which science shows is rare. According to actual research the average cock is about 5-3/4 inches long and 4-3/4 inches in circumference when fully erect. But, us guys don't get that message and it's easy to have a larger than average cock but be made to feel that it's smaller than average.

The other thing research tells us is that women don't generally want 9-inch cocks. Research shows that girth is preferred to length and that the ideal length is somewhere in the 6 to 7 inch range depending on the woman. So again, having an 8+ inch cock just might be detrimental.

Do any women agree or disagree with this?
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Interesting. very cool.
 
The first guy I was with, combined with porn, definitely gave me anxiety about my size.

However now, after some experience, I'm pretty comfortable with it.
 
Long ago I sucked a couple of really big cocks. 1 was really long and the other was super thick. With the long one I spent a really long time jerking, rubbing, licking, and kissing it. I didn't want him to cum. I enjoyed it that much. I rubbed it all over my face. It was one of my favorites of many.
 
What turns guys on (or off) is so varied. Cock just never was something I craved. I'm more into craving a handsome man who is masculine muscular, hairy, smells good, nice temperature (not all hot & sweaty or cold and clamy), tan lines are hot as it makes the guy seem a bit more saving of his ass than someone who tans their behind in the nude. Also I love a guy with a bit of a heart -- not some cold, heartless jerk. I appreciate balls, not because it was a fettish but because with my own infertility, I just assume nice balls might mean fertility and lots of testosterone. I can also get so moved by a guy with 5 o'clock shadow (or a nice beard -- not scruffy-- I myself can grow a nice goutee, but my cheek hairs can be rather scruffy -- hate it). I could also get moved by tuffs of hair peaking out a man's shirt collar, hairy arms in short sleeves, hairy legs in shorts, etc. I do not care for hair out the nose -- some guys need to make sure they trim them. I suppose some guys also need to watch hair on the ears, but I never saw that much. I used to think hair on the back (not butt, but back) was kind of strange, but as I saw more of it, I found it to be not a detracting feature in a hot man. I should add that a few non-hairy guys can be hot, but only if they are beafy enought to make up for the lack of hair.

As to cock itself, I always saw it simply as a sexual tool. If I could have designed my own creation, I wish there was something such as an expanding length. Meaning, you could keep it small to medium for those times when your partner doesn't want to be too stretched. Then long and/or thick for those times a partner wants it such. I also love drippers, but I have seen so few that drip a lot. A dripping man makes you feel like you really turned him on somehow with what you were doing. Sometimes more so than just him being hard. I think the hottest look on naked male crotches are thick balls in a smooth sack, with a thick cock that is short so that the balls stand out as looking even more so noticeable and fertile. With all the years with my partner now, I also got to where I find a soft cock on a bottom when he is being fucked as beautiful. I used to think that it meant I sucked as a top. However, seeing plenty of happy bottom men over the years who are soft, I realize that you cannot judged yourself a failure as a top if the bottom isn't hard. Some bottoms are truly enjoying themselves, regardless if they are hard. That is why sometimes seeing a dripper can be as much if not more a sign that the bottom is enjoying your presence.

I have mention this before, but I have found that I was bad about judging men based on cock size -- not on my attraction to them, but whether they would be attracted to me. I'm just average. It used to hurt when I was rejected to top, but then with age I realized there are plenty of other fish in the pond. One hung bottom set me straight when I confided in him I turned him down as I didn't feel I had enough cock to measure up to his standards of what he wanted in a top. However, he confided to me that if he turned down every top that wasn't hung as much as him. That he might have been close to being a virgin. Likewise, sometimes the biggest size queens are guys with average or small cocks.

Again, cock is the last thing I judge a man's sexual desire on, but I confess I was guilty of turning down hung guys for fear that "I" didn't measure up. That was my failing. Hung bottoms don't always insist that their tops be their equal down there or close. Sometimes a nice guy (regardless of dick size) simply wants another guy inside him. That is always why I see plenty of bottom men as the nicest people on earth. They are like angels that want you inside them. It wasn't until I topped (two years into starting m2m sex that I finally realized how wonderful m2m sex was. There is nothing as fulfilling as loosing yourself in the insides of a hot man's ass.
 
hex2112 said:
Long ago I sucked a couple of really big cocks. 1 was really long and the other was super thick. With the long one I spent a really long time jerking, rubbing, licking, and kissing it. I didn't want him to cum. I enjoyed it that much. I rubbed it all over my face. It was one of my favorites of many.
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HOT! You should write a story about that :)
 
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