What is your most intense or memorable BDSM session/scene?

[mow707070x]

For those of you that experience BDSM in real life, I'm curious about what your most memorial or intense scene was? What is the experience that you tell about the most? Or the one you tell a new potential partner if showing how extreme you are?

 

[scarlett_babygirl]

In my opinion, if you are telling a story to show how, "extreme," you are, the dynamic you are developing isn't headed in a great direction.

A great scene isn't about the acts you do. It is about the connection, the trust, the interplay between you and your partner. The scenes that stick in my mind are the ones where I felt completely at ease because of who I chose. What I will and won't do is often a direct reflection of connection, trust, and communication.

 

[hrdmngd2find]

For those of you that experience BDSM in real life, I'm curious about what your most memorial or intense scene was? What is the experience that you tell about the most? Or the one you tell a new potential partner if showing how extreme you are?

If you are asking people to share a memorable scene or moment, then I like this idea, and would be interested in sharing and hearing what others may say.

A great scene isn't about the acts you do. It is about the connection, the trust, the interplay between you and your partner. The scenes that stick in my mind are the ones where I felt completely at ease because of who I chose. What I will and won't do is often a direct reflection of connection, trust, and communication.

I agree with scarlett_babygirl about the importance of trust and connection, though I would say that some form of consensual power exchange/dynamic is involved that requires that trust and connection.

Like scarlett_babygirl, I am not comfortable with what seems to be the assumptions behind the next two sentences.

What is the experience that you tell about the most? Or the one you tell a new potential partner if showing how extreme you are?

I don't think there is a simple formula that "extreme=good," therefore "more extreme=better," and the "most extreme=the best." BDSM is a very, very broad thing. It encompasses a very wide range of behaviors and practices, and I dislike having value placed on this or that practice as somehow better. This or that thing may be better for you and your partner, and that's totally awesome for you, but not in the absolute sense.

To me, the specific practices (or accoutrements)... restraints, impact play, pain, orgasm denial, sensory deprivation, etc, these are all different ways to experience the power dynamic. Some may be "more extreme" but that, in and of itself, doesn't make that practice better, or even necessarily more "intense." As scarlett_babygirl alludes, you can have an incredibly intense experience with none of the specific practices involved.

So, if I have a new partner, I'm won't try impress them with how "extreme" I am. Based on what I see on fetlife and around lit and elsewhere, I'm somewhere in the middle, but another person might rank me higher or lower than that. I do want a potential new partner to know what my favorite flavors are, and to know that some of those are more important, but some are negotiable. I like Dan Savage's GGG concept, and the last G, Game, applies here.

I'm not judging what anyone is doing, btw. To me, BDSM is a realm where we get to choose our own flavor. That's one of the freedoms of it. Not that there aren't some overly doctrinaire people. Those people show up everywhere.

 

[loic333]

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[LtxGdss]

For me the most memorable scenes are those where I feel most connected or empowered and not the most extreme.

It was a high rise and we played above the city at night, which was such a turn on. Prior to this we went for a drink in the hotel bar where I wore a latex dress, which in itself was probably the sexiest I have ever felt in a public space.

I had an amazing session in a hotel room, it was quite impromptu where I blindfolded him with a stocking as he knelt naked facing the city and used implements I found around the room and in our cases... a food fork, a belt. But most importantly a grape, which he held between his teeth, if the grape remained in tact throughout the tease he would be rewarded. I'll spare the details but it culminated in a lot of latex shine from the back of my dress on the hotel window.

 

[lowcollar]

The most intimate was being fisted anally.
The kinkiest was shaving my legs, armpits, face. I crossdressed in pink and my mistress made me up as a woman including bra, panties, high heels, nylons, silicone breasts etc.
For me the most extreme was being sounded with three different size sounds.
The most subsurvient was licking her puddle of piss off the bathroom floor while she stood over me and spit on me.

 

[loic333]

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[loic333]

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[loic333]

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[loic333]

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[base10]

My most intense memorable was giving a sub a rough punishment spanking. She had not followed my instructions and punishment was needed.

She is a bit of a masochist, but this was more pain than she found fun. She took her punishment like the good sub she is, and as I delivered the last few spanks she stared into my eyes with such an intensity. That I was the person giving her so much discomfort, yet was also the only one who could make it stop.

When I finished, she collapsed into my arms on the verge of tears, our bodies melting together. I was so proud of the spanking she took for me. Shortly thereafter it led to some of the best sex of my life, and more orgasms for her than she could keep track of

 

[Venefica]

My husband, me and a good friend entered a rentable "dungeon" to have a session with me as the sub pleasing both