What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

Anniversary dates….two years ago this week I got the text from my husband that ended it all.

He recently admitted to my daughter that he had a knee jerk reaction to life and let it go too far.

I’m petty enough that I’m glad he sees it. I’m not dumb enough to give him another chance.
 
So for those following along I don’t think the date is going to happen. Our last convo he admitted he lied about his age (small red flag) but then he got really sexually aggressive and when he later asked how I felt about things between us I admitted he’s a bit overwhelming and it was scary and the tiniest bit excited. He also tried to send a dick pic 🙄 but I was able to stop him. Anyway he’s been quiet since then. And honestly I’m ok with that cause it was starting to feel like less of a date and more of an episode of Criminal Minds! (He mentioned he had no neighbors so he could tie me up and I could be as loud as I like)
 
So for those following along I don’t think the date is going to happen. Our last convo he admitted he lied about his age (small red flag) but then he got really sexually aggressive and when he later asked how I felt about things between us I admitted he’s a bit overwhelming and it was scary and the tiniest bit excited. He also tried to send a dick pic 🙄 but I was able to stop him. Anyway he’s been quiet since then. And honestly I’m ok with that cause it was starting to feel like less of a date and more of an episode of Criminal Minds! (He mentioned he had no neighbors so he could tie me up and I could be as loud as I like)
There are strange people out there......
Just curious, was the age lie younger or older? (not important, just curious)
I hope he stays quiet. It doesn't sound as a match at all for you....... :rolleyes: But I'm also sorry that he was an ass. I hoped it would be at least a fun night out. :heart:
 
There are strange people out there......
Just curious, was the age lie younger or older? (not important, just curious)
I hope he stays quiet. It doesn't sound as a match at all for you....... :rolleyes: But I'm also sorry that he was an ass. I hoped it would be at least a fun night out. :heart:
He said he was 46 but he’s 51 and he used an older picture so the man I matched with was not the man I was talking to.

And thanks, I was hoping for a fun night out too!
 
So for those following along I don’t think the date is going to happen. Our last convo he admitted he lied about his age (small red flag) but then he got really sexually aggressive and when he later asked how I felt about things between us I admitted he’s a bit overwhelming and it was scary and the tiniest bit excited. He also tried to send a dick pic 🙄 but I was able to stop him. Anyway he’s been quiet since then. And honestly I’m ok with that cause it was starting to feel like less of a date and more of an episode of Criminal Minds! (He mentioned he had no neighbors so he could tie me up and I could be as loud as I like)
What an ass he seems to be.

I'm sorry this didn't work out for you. Sounds like you may have dodged a bullet. But he missed out on an amazing woman. ❤️
 
I have been really run down, depressed, emotional the last couple days and couldn’t figure out why. On the drive home today I sighed and suddenly huge tears and I couldn’t stop them. Then I realized this timeframe a couple years ago my whole world changed. I don’t remember if it hit this hard last year or maybe I was too busy healing to notice. My mind didn’t remember but my body sure did. March 2023 set in motion big things, good and bad, for the whole year. I’m hoping this passes quickly if I acknowledge it. In the meantime it’s 42 and sunny out so I’m gonna lay in the sunshine.
 
I have been really run down, depressed, emotional the last couple days and couldn’t figure out why. On the drive home today I sighed and suddenly huge tears and I couldn’t stop them. Then I realized this timeframe a couple years ago my whole world changed. I don’t remember if it hit this hard last year or maybe I was too busy healing to notice. My mind didn’t remember but my body sure did. March 2023 set in motion big things, good and bad, for the whole year. I’m hoping this passes quickly if I acknowledge it. In the meantime it’s 42 and sunny out so I’m gonna lay in the sunshine.
🫂
 
He said he was 46 but he’s 51 and he used an older picture so the man I matched with was not the man I was talking to.

And thanks, I was hoping for a fun night out too!
A liar is a big no no! You'd never know what else he's lying about if he lies about a small thing as his age.
I have been really run down, depressed, emotional the last couple days and couldn’t figure out why. On the drive home today I sighed and suddenly huge tears and I couldn’t stop them. Then I realized this timeframe a couple years ago my whole world changed. I don’t remember if it hit this hard last year or maybe I was too busy healing to notice. My mind didn’t remember but my body sure did. March 2023 set in motion big things, good and bad, for the whole year. I’m hoping this passes quickly if I acknowledge it. In the meantime it’s 42 and sunny out so I’m gonna lay in the sunshine.
It's interesting that such low temperature feels warm after the winter. We had 53°F here this weekend and I was outside in just a t-shirt and jeans. Not for the whole day but in the sun in the garden.

Sending big hugs and I hope that you feel better soon. 🫂:heart:
 
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