Xerxes82
Not here for you
- Joined
- Jun 10, 2002
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Understandable. It can be hard to listen when someone tells you who they are.I have a bad habit of looking at someone’s potential and not who they currently are. They can be yelling the truth at me and I’m too busy thinking about what could be. I just don’t want to be disappointed so I make excuses for them.
I've struggled with the other side of if, personally. Trying to understand, and then articulate, what I actually want from friends/sexual/romantic partners so that I can keep the people around that satisfy those needs but not the people that are just going to be social vampires or toxic problems.


