What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

I have a bad habit of looking at someone’s potential and not who they currently are. They can be yelling the truth at me and I’m too busy thinking about what could be. I just don’t want to be disappointed so I make excuses for them.
Understandable. It can be hard to listen when someone tells you who they are.

I've struggled with the other side of if, personally. Trying to understand, and then articulate, what I actually want from friends/sexual/romantic partners so that I can keep the people around that satisfy those needs but not the people that are just going to be social vampires or toxic problems.
 
Understandable. It can be hard to listen when someone tells you who they are.

I've struggled with the other side of if, personally. Trying to understand, and then articulate, what I actually want from friends/sexual/romantic partners so that I can keep the people around that satisfy those needs but not the people that are just going to be social vampires or toxic problems.
It’s hard to be honest. It makes you vulnerable. There’s the delicate balance of do I say how I feel and screw it up or do I keep my mouth shut and screw myself up.
 
To be fair…I think men lower themselves for women too. It’s never “just men” or “just women”
I think we try to 'please' a bit more initially...so she likes us better !!! I agree...it's never just one. I have been trying to be more open and vulnerable. It's hard....but....is appreciated I am told
 
I think we try to 'please' a bit more initially...so she likes us better !!! I agree...it's never just one. I have been trying to be more open and vulnerable. It's hard....but....is appreciated I am told
There’s nothing sexier than consistency and open communication.
 
There’s nothing sexier than consistency and open communication.
I think I am learning that too late in life! LOL! But I agree. Sometimes I think we need to learn HOW to talk, in all honesty. There are ways to say things ....tones of voice...inflections...etc that make the conversation SO much better! DONCHA THINK? lol
 
I think I am learning that too late in life! LOL! But I agree. Sometimes I think we need to learn HOW to talk, in all honesty. There are ways to say things ....tones of voice...inflections...etc that make the conversation SO much better! DONCHA THINK? lol
Wording is huge! And tone! And body language lol.
 
soooooo...when I come up to go hunting with you....I need to bring my 4 wheeler so we can do THAT as well?
Sir
 
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