What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

[Chillygirl]

Today my therapist told me I need to work on reconnecting with myself and finding my voice. I had thought I was confident in myself…until she pointed out that I was still letting my ex control my life.

 

[Joxlrg]

Someone *ahem @DeerTrace118* says you can’t spoil a …. I’d say he’s pretty damn spoiled cause I cook for him and hold his bowl!

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As things should be

 

[Joxlrg]

Today my therapist told me I need to work on reconnecting with myself and finding my voice. I had thought I was confident in myself…until she pointed out that I was still letting my ex control my life.

These things take time

 

[snexxer]

Today my therapist told me I need to work on reconnecting with myself and finding my voice. I had thought I was confident in myself…until she pointed out that I was still letting my ex control my life.

Remember that special word. EX.
Take your time it will come.

 

[Deleted member 6607120]

Today my therapist told me I need to work on reconnecting with myself and finding my voice. I had thought I was confident in myself…until she pointed out that I was still letting my ex control my life.

You are doing such hard work. It's worth it, you will find yourself again.

 

[Cogan]

Today my therapist told me I need to work on reconnecting with myself and finding my voice. I had thought I was confident in myself…until she pointed out that I was still letting my ex control my life.

Both your lawyer and your therapist are strait forward and tells you the truth? I'd say they are good people and want the best for you. ( Well, a lawyer is a lawyer...... )
I don't know if the therapist told you to remember that when you go look for yourself, you will not find the person you were when you met your ex. You now have more experience, knowledge and some "luggage" that has shaped you to the person you are today. And I'm sure that person is very lovable!

 

[Chillygirl]

You are doing such hard work. It's worth it, you will find yourself again.

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I keep going back to this and can’t help but laugh. That was totally me yesterday in therapy. I was crying and screaming and then I’d blot my eyes and laugh and apologize for my language. This shit is hard!!!

 

[Chillygirl]

Exactly…don’t call me beautiful or baby and then suddenly stop and use my government name!!!!

 

[Chillygirl]

Getting coffee this morning and had the best chat with this good boy

 

[base10]

Exactly…don’t call me beautiful it baby and then suddenly stop and use my government name!!!!

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That episode of sunny is so good

 

[Cogan]

I keep going back to this and can’t help but laugh. That was totally me yesterday in therapy. I was crying and screaming and then I’d blot my eyes and laugh and apologize for my language. This shit is hard!!!

I can't say I have any experience with breakups/divorce like this.
But from what I understand it's good to get it out of your system and not keep your feelings inside.
I'll send big hugs to you! You are strong and will get over this!

 

[Joxlrg]

Getting coffee this morning and had the best chat with this good boy

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He looks like he could use some lovin too

 

[Chillygirl]

 

[TrueNorthDadBod]

Wait…isn’t that my snack?

 

[Joxlrg]

Off topic... How are the fires coming along.. Are they mostly extinguished around you??

 

[hotcpu]

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I thought you were saving it for me

 

[Chillygirl]

Off topic... How are the fires coming along.. Are they mostly extinguished around you??

Well no smoke around us anymore. The weather is definitely fall here…cool and wet so I think we’re good!

 

[Joxlrg]

Well no smoke around us anymore. The weather is definitely fall here…cool and wet so I think we’re good!

Good to hear... Thanks

 

[FlyingThruLife]

Well no smoke around us anymore. The weather is definitely fall here…cool and wet so I think we’re good!

It's always nicer to know that the fires aren't burning around you

 

[Chillygirl]

 

[Cogan]

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Strong and spiked with booze of your choice might help?

 

[Chillygirl]

 

[Chillygirl]

Ugh my feels got me tonight. Got me overthinking and hurting my own feelings. Or maybe making me confront some things I’d rather avoid. Either way it sucks.

 

[Chillygirl]

Right in the middle of Walmart with no meds

 

[Chillygirl]

So @spankableBelle and I were talking private island and we’ll interview and handpick the men that can work there and serve us. Rotate them out so we don’t get bored.