What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

I feel like crap so I want comfort stuff. I heated up a frozen chicken pot pie and made an apple crisp. This is what I have to offer to a partner lol. I will make you comfort food when you feel like crap (physically or mentally). I will keep you cozy and warm and safe. That’s it, that’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️

Oh and I like lots of crazy sex and free use but whatever…
A person could do a whole lot worse than having someone to love them that richly. Actually, I think most do.
Add to that the hot monkey love stuff, and damn! That's an awesome opportunity!
 
I am going to talk about this stuff. I’m gonna talk about how I can be completely fine and then a song will come on or a memory will bubble up and I’m crying. I’ll talk about how the divorce was good but I can still get so angry. I’ll talk about how the first relationship after the divorce gutted me and broke me in ways I never knew was possible. I’ll talk about it because so many times I felt alone and I don’t want anyone else to feel that.

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I am going to talk about this stuff. I’m gonna talk about how I can be completely fine and then a song will come on or a memory will bubble up and I’m crying. I’ll talk about how the divorce was good but I can still get so angry. I’ll talk about how the first relationship after the divorce gutted me and broke me in ways I never knew was possible. I’ll talk about it because so many times I felt alone and I don’t want anyone else to feel that.

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I can totally relate to the memory that surprise you part. My father passed away two years ago (he was 89 years old so no chock or surprise) and I still have memories triggered by a song on the radio, or a movie he liked, or anything that reminds me of him, often creates tears rolling down my face.

I send big hugs your way! :heart:
 
Better that than telling them and finding all that affection is ‘wrong’ 🤷‍♀️
I don't think there's any downside to telling anyone that you love them. The pain of rejection is temporary. To NOT tell someone that you love them out of fear of rejection is a wasted opportunity. As they say, you can't win the lottery if you don't play.
 
I say you can say it and fuck things up or you can stay quiet and fuck yourself up…but I’m a lot better at giving advice than taking it. So I’ll just keep writing and deleting…besides it seems pointless now.
 
I’m not gonna respond to that because I’m not gonna be rude on Chilly’s thread
Please say it on my thread so I can tell you what I think of that
I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. I get what he’s saying but I also know how it can feel. ❤️
 
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