What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

[willlph]

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Truth and we also
Make deals with the devil

 

[Chillygirl]

Playing with filters!

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[ccs29745]

Playing with filters!

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Looking beautiful Chilly.

 

[Deleted member 6607120]

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I get it. Especially with an empty cup .

Playing with filters!

Beautiful!

 

[Cogan]

Playing with filters!

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Very beautiful!

 

[Chillygirl]

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[Cogan]

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I love that sign!

 

[Chillygirl]

I am going to talk about this stuff. I’m gonna talk about how I can be completely fine and then a song will come on or a memory will bubble up and I’m crying. I’ll talk about how the divorce was good but I can still get so angry. I’ll talk about how the first relationship after the divorce gutted me and broke me in ways I never knew was possible. I’ll talk about it because so many times I felt alone and I don’t want anyone else to feel that.

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[Cogan]

I am going to talk about this stuff. I’m gonna talk about how I can be completely fine and then a song will come on or a memory will bubble up and I’m crying. I’ll talk about how the divorce was good but I can still get so angry. I’ll talk about how the first relationship after the divorce gutted me and broke me in ways I never knew was possible. I’ll talk about it because so many times I felt alone and I don’t want anyone else to feel that.

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I can totally relate to the memory that surprise you part. My father passed away two years ago (he was 89 years old so no chock or surprise) and I still have memories triggered by a song on the radio, or a movie he liked, or anything that reminds me of him, often creates tears rolling down my face.

I send big hugs your way!

 

[Chillygirl]

All the time…

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[ccs29745]

All the time…

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Every night

 

[SmokingFap]

Better that than telling them and finding all that affection is ‘wrong’

I don't think there's any downside to telling anyone that you love them. The pain of rejection is temporary. To NOT tell someone that you love them out of fear of rejection is a wasted opportunity. As they say, you can't win the lottery if you don't play.

 

[Thebrowneye]

Exactly vomit your feelings and hope they reach for the mop!

 

[Chillygirl]

I say you can say it and fuck things up or you can stay quiet and fuck yourself up…but I’m a lot better at giving advice than taking it. So I’ll just keep writing and deleting…besides it seems pointless now.

 

[Chillygirl]

I’m not gonna respond to that because I’m not gonna be rude on Chilly’s thread
Please say it on my thread so I can tell you what I think of that

I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. I get what he’s saying but I also know how it can feel.

 

[Thebrowneye]

I’m not gonna respond to that because I’m not gonna be rude on Chilly’s thread
Please say it on my thread so I can tell you what I think of that

Pass

 

[SmokingFap]

I’m not gonna respond to that because I’m not gonna be rude on Chilly’s thread
Please say it on my thread so I can tell you what I think of that

Can I say it, Chilly?

 

[Chillygirl]

Can I say it, Chilly?

Sure. I’m not looking to argue or be rude but I know there’s different sides yo everything and I enjoy seeing new perspectives. Hell maybe someone can finally get me out of the angry stage.

 

[SmokingFap]

Exactly vomit your feelings and hope they reach for the mop!

Dude, I know you think you were being clever, but you're really earning that screenname right now...

 

[Thebrowneye]

Right got it, I'll just back away slowly from this thread.

 

[MiaBabe23]

Right got it, I'll just back away slowly from this thread.

As Chilly said, all views are welcome. Some views get a particular reaction. That’s what happens when deep feelings are involved

 

[Chillygirl]

Right got it, I'll just back away slowly from this thread.

No need. For what it’s worth I didn’t think it was offensive. Goes back to say it and hope it doesn’t fuck it all up. As for the mop…either they’re in it with you or they’re not.

 

[Chillygirl]

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[Chillygirl]

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[Chillygirl]

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It’s the last part that guts me…all that and then walk away like it’s nothing. What was the point?