What was your first gay memory

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My first gay memory is as clear today nearly 40 years on as it was then.

I lived in a small town in Cheshire, England and it was 1986. Before then I had no thoughts about being gay, I didn’t even know anyone who was gay.

Anyway, one evening around 7pm I was walking back from a friends house on the other side of town, it had started to rain and of course at that age I had no coat on. I wanted a piss and spotted a sign for a public toilet, it was a no brainer, have a piss and get out of the rain.

I walked in through 2 doors and it was a small building with a urinal big enough for 2 people and 1 stall.
I took my cock out and started to piss, it was then I noticed all the writing on the walls, people looking for cock, short stories of men who had sex, some pictures of cocks cumming etc etc the whole of the wall was covered in it.

I found myself reading them and looking at the images, being a young man my cock was soon as hard as it had ever been.
I wanked until I came then I quickly left, I knew I would be back though and very soon.
 
I was hitchhiking on a weekend pass when a man late 50's picked me up and offered money to suck my cock. Of course after being stuck in a barracks I was very willing. He parked and sucked me so well I was out of breath after shooting my cum in his mouth. Before I could pull up my pants he offered more money to suck him. I told him no way but he looked so desperate I told him I would jack him off. He slid his pants down and had a beautiful fat cock standing straight up. I started stroking him and I don't even know why but when precum covered his cockhead I leaned down and licked it . He moaned and lifted a bit off his seat. I couldn't believe I was making this Older man feel so good. I licked more then took his cock in my mouth and started bobbing and sucking. I had just cum but was hard again as i slid my mouth up and down his shaft. I was really into it and having a great time but far too soon his thick warm cum filled my mouth and I swallowed it down like an experienced cocksucker..I licked and sucked out every last drop and as I sat up he leaned down and took my hard cock in his mouth again.I ejackulated so hard I nearly passed out
 
I am a German 51 year old man. Heterosexual, but open minded. So I had some homosexual experiences.
The first one: I was in my mid 20s and lost a bet wiht two male friends. So I had to jerk my cock in front of both.
Even if they laughed and insulted me in a dominanr way, I felt their pleasure while they watched me jerking off.
One made a lot of dirty talk including a suggestion to search in the future the oppurtunity to show my father my hard cock.
I guess that kind of talking was his kink.
 
My first time with a guy was before I knew almost anything about sex. He invited me for a sleepover (common back then), but it turned out that his parents were away for the weekend and he took advantage of that. After talking a lot about girls and sex (which got my attention because of my lack of knowledge) he asked me if I wanted to take a shower with him. I had already showered earlier that day so I said "No thanks," never realizing that he had something else in mind. After he got out from the shower he asked me if I would like to play with his dick, and dumb me again said "No thanks" because I had no idea why that would be fun. So he asked me if he could play with mine. Being shy, I just said "I guess so" or something lame like that. He did but I never got hard let alone came. The whole encounter was baffling to me because I thought dicks were just for peeing. But now I wish it could have been so much more.
 
My first time with a guy was before I knew almost anything about sex. He invited me for a sleepover (common back then), but it turned out that his parents were away for the weekend and he took advantage of that. After talking a lot about girls and sex (which got my attention because of my lack of knowledge) he asked me if I wanted to take a shower with him. I had already showered earlier that day so I said "No thanks," never realizing that he had something else in mind. After he got out from the shower he asked me if I would like to play with his dick, and dumb me again said "No thanks" because I had no idea why that would be fun. So he asked me if he could play with mine. Being shy, I just said "I guess so" or something lame like that. He did but I never got hard let alone came. The whole encounter was baffling to me because I thought dicks were just for peeing. But now I wish it could have been so much more.
I was very ignorant about sex early so at 14 I was having intercourse almost daily with my girlfriend but had no idea about pussy licking . She never actually touched my cock and I knew nothing about the clitoris . Pretty lousy lover but shot many loads of cum on her belly for 4 years. Man sex was absolutely a sin that would have me banned from society forever. When at 21 I got that first taste of cock and cum I won't say I was hooked but any future chances at such activities were welcome. .
 
My first gay memory is as clear today nearly 40 years on as it was then.

I lived in a small town in Cheshire, England and it was 1986. Before then I had no thoughts about being gay, I didn’t even know anyone who was gay.

Anyway, one evening around 7pm I was walking back from a friends house on the other side of town, it had started to rain and of course at that age I had no coat on. I wanted a piss and spotted a sign for a public toilet, it was a no brainer, have a piss and get out of the rain.

I walked in through 2 doors and it was a small building with a urinal big enough for 2 people and 1 stall.
I took my cock out and started to piss, it was then I noticed all the writing on the walls, people looking for cock, short stories of men who had sex, some pictures of cocks cumming etc etc the whole of the wall was covered in it.

I found myself reading them and looking at the images, being a young man my cock was soon as hard as it had ever been.
I wanked until I came then I quickly left, I knew I would be back though and very soon.
WOW! would love to hear what happened next!
 
I was 22. I was in the Navy and was walking back to Norfolk Naval Station. I had quite a few drinks. A car pulls up beside me and a guy, about mid 30's asked if i wanted a ride. I said sure. Before this i had never done anything gay or even fantasized about being gay. I get in his car we were still pretty far from base. He's a civilian who cut hair.

To this day i dont know why but i started getting hard. Obvious thru my shorts and he called me out on it. "It looks like you got a hard on." Ialmost choke but said "I do". He starts rubbing me thru my shorts and almost cum from just that. He's wearing short runner shorts and i see his big cock growing past his shorts. I start stroking him and he pulls in behind a closed business. I expose his cock more and start sucking him. It was an awkward position and i couldnt get a good angle. He said "lets go back to my place" I agreedband he drove me to his condo on the water.

We walked in and i stripped just inside the door. He directed me to go upstairs. When i got to the steps he grabbed my hips and began rimming me. Never felt anything like it in my life. Almost came again. He slapped my ass and we went upstairs. He had a sofa in his room. I pulled his shorts off and started sucking him. He stopped me, turning me around and started rimming again.

He was sitting on the sofa and pulled me back facing away from him i sat slowly on his lap. He guided his cock to my asshole. He was very gentle, didnt force me. His cock was huge. About 8 inches and very thick. It took about 15-20 minutes to get the first few inches in. My hands were on his knees and was sweating like crazy. He finally slowly, gently started thrusting into me. My precum was steady dripping from my cock which was rock hard.

We fucked like that for a while then he took me to his bed laying me on my back pushing my legs up and started rimming me again. Then he used some lube from his nightstand. He pushed into me again. I swear his cock got bigger because it hurt a little more this time. He did slow down until i adjusted to him. He was a little heavier set.

It felt so good having a bigger guy dominating me so gently. He fucked me like that for quite a while. We kissed and, well we made love. Most sensual, erotic night of my life. He started stroking me and really started pounding into me. I didnt last long and started shooting all over myself. He pulled out and shot his load all over my chest and belly. I did taste some of his cum that made it up to my mouth. We showered after that and he drove me back to base. We seen each other for 2 years after that. I have a lot of stories from our time together, but that was my first gay encounter.
 
I was hitchhiking on a weekend pass when a man late 50's picked me up and offered money to suck my cock. Of course after being stuck in a barracks I was very willing. He parked and sucked me so well I was out of breath after shooting my cum in his mouth. Before I could pull up my pants he offered more money to suck him. I told him no way but he looked so desperate I told him I would jack him off. He slid his pants down and had a beautiful fat cock standing straight up. I started stroking him and I don't even know why but when precum covered his cockhead I leaned down and licked it . He moaned and lifted a bit off his seat. I couldn't believe I was making this Older man feel so good. I licked more then took his cock in my mouth and started bobbing and sucking. I had just cum but was hard again as i slid my mouth up and down his shaft. I was really into it and having a great time but far too soon his thick warm cum filled my mouth and I swallowed it down like an experienced cocksucker..I licked and sucked out every last drop and as I sat up he leaned down and took my hard cock in his mouth again.I ejackulated so hard I nearly passed out
I was an over the road trucker for 45 years. Anonymous gay sex was great. Sucking, getting sucked and 69. The thrill of the hunt and then the climax! I miss it!
 
It was in jr. high where I met my best friend. Found out he was gay but so what. Not sure how it started but he would jerk me off at first and it moved on to him sucking me and swallowing my load. He never let me reciprocate.
I started with a friend in grade school. We sucked each other off . For years. That big thick cock was great
 
Mine was when I fell in love with my classmate, and one day gave into those feelings and gave him his 1st bj. We were both 7th grade and ended up being bfs untill his mother found out 3 years later, and whisked him off to another city. It was the late 70s, the term femboy didn't exist. He had a better shape than half the girls at the pvt school. I would love to go back and relive 1st love, it was new, exciting, and riveting.
 
I was a 15/16 year old virgin I'd had my cock sucked by a girl,she said "it's not very big" I wasn't really into it anyway . A few days later a group of us went camping and I told my tent mate what happened. We ended up showing each other our cocks,his was nearly twice the size of mine. I couldn't believe how big it was. ,He wanted me to touch it but I didn't dare we both played with ourselves, I shot a load after about 30 seconds. He teased me about that for years. He still does nearly 45 years later when we chat on Facebook.
 
I was a 15/16 year old virgin I'd had my cock sucked by a girl,she said "it's not very big" I wasn't really into it anyway . A few days later a group of us went camping and I told my tent mate what happened. We ended up showing each other our cocks,his was nearly twice the size of mine. I couldn't believe how big it was. ,He wanted me to touch it but I didn't dare we both played with ourselves, I shot a load after about 30 seconds. He teased me about that for years. He still does nearly 45 years later when we chat on Facebook.
Did you have any regrets not touching his.... way younger than you, we always played hide and go get with the neighbor kids on our block. It was done on our property, we had pert near a acre of land. So whoever you found yourself hidden with, you tended to do more than hiding. I had both boys and girls, and we took advantage of it. I knew all the best hiding places..... and did we get a great sex Ed growing up.
 
Did you have any regrets not touching his.... way younger than you, we always played hide and go get with the neighbor kids on our block. It was done on our property, we had pert near a acre of land. So whoever you found yourself hidden with, you tended to do more than hiding. I had both boys and girls, and we took advantage of it. I knew all the best hiding places..... and did we get a great sex Ed growing up.
I did regret not touching it, I masturbated about 20 times thinking of it . The next weekend we camped out in his grandparents field so I made up for lost time. We went swimming in the fishing pond it did take long for him to pull down my shorts and run back the tent with them. When I got there he was waiting with a raging hard on and it wasn't long until I had one too. I had to touch his dick to get my shorts back then kiss it. Needless to say I touched and kissed it a few times that night. He played with my dick while I was sucking his and I came in his hand.
That was a regular thing for a couple of years until he had a steady girlfriend.
I've never had a girlfriend! Plenty of boyfriends though.
 
My first time. i was very young but had bigdick im living at egypt it somthing sort of not acceptable here. Walikng atstreet when a man about 50 yo riding motorcycle ask me a place and invite me to ride behind him . He had big chubby ass . While i riding he try to turn me on by hiss ass stick to my dick. I was young and i dont know much about sex.
He make me horny by 5 minuts.
After that he stopped at place that no one near . And taked off pants to show me hiss butt hole. And put my dick in his ass by his hand and riding my dick for 3 minuts before i give him the first cum ever.
 
I did regret not touching it, I masturbated about 20 times thinking of it . The next weekend we camped out in his grandparents field so I made up for lost time. We went swimming in the fishing pond it did take long for him to pull down my shorts and run back the tent with them. When I got there he was waiting with a raging hard on and it wasn't long until I had one too. I had to touch his dick to get my shorts back then kiss it. Needless to say I touched and kissed it a few times that night. He played with my dick while I was sucking his and I came in his hand.
That was a regular thing for a couple of years until he had a steady girlfriend.
I've never had a girlfriend! Plenty of boyfriends though.
I was 7th grade my 1st love. The name femboi didn't exist yet. But that's when I found out my type. And what turns me on more. I am Bisexual, but prefer being with males. It's less stressful I found out, and I've never had any problems with males vs females. Drama is always abound with them. I wonder how straight men take it. Thank God I am Bisexual 😂 😂. All the wishes in the world, I wish I could relive those years we had together.
 
I was 7th grade my 1st love. The name femboi didn't exist yet. But that's when I found out my type. And what turns me on more. I am Bisexual, but prefer being with males. It's less stressful I found out, and I've never had any problems with males vs females. Drama is always abound with them. I wonder how straight men take it. Thank God I am Bisexual 😂 😂. All the wishes in the world, I wish I could relive those years we had together.
Oh honey that's so sweet and good
 
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