What's it FEEL like to be a bottom?

When it comes to guys I am a complete sub. There is nothing like sucking cock and then being fucked in the ass. I also like cleaning him off when it is all done (im kind of a whore) but oh well. Never been with more than one guy at a time i plan on it though
 
My first post, but I couldn't pass this one up!

Something I would suggest would be one of those butt plug sets, with the three different sizes.

But then again, maybe not!

LOL

Briefly, a long time ago a lady friend was into anal play as part of her "interests". And prior to that, I had never really thought of my ass as anything erotic. However, the first time I felt her fingers and tongue, I was thoroughly convinced otherwise.

I do have a problem divulging this to women, though. I'm not sure how one inserts, "Hey would you lick my ass?" into the conversation. As a result, a dildo or vibrator has been a part of my mastubatory practices for a long time, but not very often was it a part of my repoitore with women.

Later on, when I became active with my bisexual desires, I experienced the most amazing orgasm I have ever had.

On occasion, I do like to dress. And on this particular occasion, I was attired as such. In a thong, garter belt, and slip, along with RHT stockings and pumps; I was on all fours.

My roommate was really going at it, and started spanking.

All of a sudden I felt an orgasm begin to build. It was absolutely amazing, as I had never experienced such a thing, nor have I experienced anything like that since then.

I remember gasping to my roommat, "Oh f**K, I'm gonna cum!" and I then tried to look behind me from underneath, but my view was blocked by the slip I wore.

Then, with no contact, no friction, or any other outside stimulation, I came in a torrent.

That, my friend, is how good anal sex can be!

Now I don't know your situation, as far as being able to purchase online, or having things delivered to your house, or even keeping things in your home, but hell... When I'm "desperate," a smooth hair brush handle works just fine!

The next time you are in the shower, experiment a little... I have found that while in the shower, the absolute best lube is simple hair conditioner. While you masturbate, just put some in your hand, then reach around and see what your own finger feels like. Close your eyes and imagine the most gorgeous cock you have ever seen, and see where it goes.

I would think that if you are really into it, you'd be surprised how much you can accomodate back there.

Go for it!
 
Welcome to Lit, Long Snapper. That's one hell of a post for a newbie! Great job, and we all look forward to hearing more from you.
 
Thank you

badger9 said:
Welcome to Lit, Long Snapper. That's one hell of a post for a newbie! Great job, and we all look forward to hearing more from you.


Thank you.

Your greeting is certainly appreciated.

I am compelled to write some stories, and get them into Literotica, as well as more posting.

Thank you once again.
 
mediumtesticle said:
I'm a bi male and being a bottom for another male makes me feel like a female with an incredible rush of submissiveness. I let them fuck my hole while pushing back hard in order to take all of my tops cock. I love the feel of his testicles slapping my ass while he fucks me. I especially love the wet feeling when he cums deep within my bowels. Be sure to use plenty of lube. :nana:

My top has a girlfriend who likes to watch me get fucked in the ass. It's really sensuous and exciting for me to have a woman watch me take it.
If there was a girl watching and telling us what to do I am there!, but its got to be close to home.
 
samlet76 said:
I really am intrigued by this, I would love to try, then I get scared. What if he tears me.

If I could find someone who would be gentle, then I would love to try. I have managed an 8' vibe, so it should be ok - any suggestions ?

What girth can you take. THis is what I think is key to receiving?

BTW: I have never received with any partner.
 
jshawk74 said:
I can't wait to be able to try a dildo - anyone have any suggestions as to size or shape?

I did some measuring today using a dildo and I can take at least 6" long 4 1/2" girth. Got to try something a bit bigger like 7" long x 5 1/4" girth.

Were in the NE are you? PM me if you like.
 
When I first learned of anal I thought it was disgusting. However, the more I thought of it, the more I was turned on by it. I never had anal penertation by another person, but I have used my fingers at first then went to a butt plug. Awesome orgasms :) .

I share some of the concerns experssed by others namely tearing. I also would like do try it but with a "gentle person", not a ram it to you guy. Unfortunately W is not intersted in helping and is still at the "its disgusting" phase.

Have fansisized about wearing thigh highs and panties and being taken.

Any suggestions, thoughts??
 
Wow

Great thread ! I have also tried vibs and plugs and they do feel great. Yes, you must use lots of lube with them and I can see where the fear of tearing is coming from. But I would imagine of you go slow and use lots of lube, everything would be fine.

pokeyride
 
Being new to all this, I'd like to know are there techniques to go from a butt plug to a regular dildo/vibrator that is 1 1/4 diameter? With a plug you can sit gently on it and voila :) , but the vibrator/dildo doesn't have a base that will hold it in place while straddling. I know to use pleanty of lube, but what is a good and safe way to get it in; positions and technique??
 
This is for a couple of the recent postings...

I don't know how to say this...

Well, how to say this without being gross...

When you go to the bathroom, you ever look before you flush?

(I'll just leave it at that...)

You ever notice the diameter of what comes out?

Wouldn't it stand to reason that if it can come out that size, you should be able to put something in that size?

I put that in as a way of alleviating some of your fears about tearing.

Also, another point I'd like to bring up is that you probably feel a certain amount of discomfort when you are first inserted. Some of you may even feel a little pain, but realize that the pleasure-soon-to-be is worth it.

Well, if you take this a little further, don't you think that if you were about to tear, the pain would be absolutely excruciating? As in, don't you think you would remove whatever it was that you inserted before you actually tear?

This came out a little more on the dramatic side than I had originally intended, but the point I'm making is that tearing is the last thing you should be worried about.

What you have to do, if you are motivated by the pleasure, is to condition yourself.

Make a fist, and look at your hand...

Notice how wide your hand is across the knuckles. Pretty big, eh?

Well, all of us are capable of accomodating a fist! However, if you've never endeavored to experience anal penetration, and start off with a fist, I guarantee you will never approach the subject again!

What everyone seems to miss is that we are all different. We all have different pain thresholds, and we all interpret levels of discomfort differently.
What I may find uncomfortable may be cause for someone else to yell, "More! More!"

But along with this, with conditioning, we can all "expand" our horizons, so to speak.

I will tell you that the first time I experienced this, with the lady friend I mentioned in a previous post, it was with one finger. I automatically felt this as something incredibly pleasurable --Some do, some don't...

It was during this first exposure that I realized I liked two fingers even more than one, but three fingers sent me to the ceiling! Not in pleasure, mind you, but as something horrific.

The point here is that you will feel a certain amount of discomfort as you stretch yourself (condition yourself). But with practice and doing it on a consistent basis, you will be able to accomodate more and more.

Now along with this, I would also enter another aspect to this. When there have been times when I hadn't penetrated myself in a long time, and I am tighter, I will take my smallest dildo or vibrator and play. The sensation I receive from that is no less intense than if I had been playing all along and was using something three times as big.

So, my question...

How much do you want to accomodate? An axel shaft from a '59 Cadillac?

Don't be as concerned with the girth of what you are using. Concentrate on how good what you are doing right now feels!

Chances are you aren't going to encounter too many lovers with organs that approximate 3 inch PVC pipe!

But to answer your questions, the miminal pain threshold, that I read once, had to do with 1/2 inch increments. That should be a safe margin to work with.

I think that if you go to a site that sells toys, and you look up beginner butt plug sets, you will find that they increase in 1/2 inch increments.

This is also becoming a much longer post than I had originally intended, but, "what the hell..."

For Dimples Charlie, my answer to your question would have to do with the mood I'm in.

I have a couple dildos with a suction cup base. Typically, when I'm in the mood to just get pounded, I will jump in the shower, and insert myself one of two ways. The easiest is just to stick the dildo against the wall of the shower and back up into it. Knees bent, body bent forward, you just back up into it. Obviously, you use your hand to guide it in, but once you are inserted, just enjoy the ride!

Sometimes when I'm feeling a little "dirty," I will place the dildo on the floor of the tub. From there I can either squat over it, or get on my knees and lower myself onto it. Now in a bathtub, both of these techniques are more difficult because of he narrowness of the tub, but once inserted, you can truly impale yourself with much more force then when you are standing and against a wall.

But these are for the times when I am in the mood to just get f**ked!

Other times I enjoy a much more liesurely and "tingly" experience.

In this situation I love to wear hosiery. This may or may not be for you, but rubbing my hosiery clad thighs together is just indescribeably luscious! And with this tease, I like to use a vibrator of some sort.

What I do is lay on the bed. I lay on my hip to one side. I seem to do these things better with my right hand, so I lay on my left hip. I apply generous amounts of lube to both my anus and the vibrator. And with this, I first "tickle" back there by just sliding the tip up and down, over my opening. Then I will take the tip and press it against my opening, and use just enough pressure to hold it in place.

This is almost my favourite part of the masturbation. As I lay there for a moment, it almost feels like the vibrations center in the small of the back, and from there, they radiate all over. And also, there is the anticipation of actually penetrating myself.

Sounds like fun?
 
Hey Longsnapper:

Great post and informative. Thanks for the info and reassurances :) . Too bad you are in MI, otherwise we could get together and you could show me the techniques and who knows... ;) .

I've had some great orgasms with the smaller butt plug and just want to experience the pleasure of a larger more cock like "thing" (know what I mean). Hey, I enjoy thigh highs when I play with the plug; makes me feel really into it.

Any more suggestions, PM me.

DC
 
What's it feel to be a bottom?

I have been an oral bottom not anal. I love having guys get so crazy while looking at and touching stockinged legs. Although they are in control when I have sucked them I love the control I feel when they have become overwhelmed and spurt. My record with one guy was that he shot three loads in an hour.
 
nylondad - pm me - I'd like to hear more about your experiences.
Seems like we have something in common
 
nylondad said:
I love the control I feel when they have become overwhelmed and spurt. My record with one guy was that he shot three loads in an hour.


Will you marry me?

(Grin)

WOW, and I concur with the aforementioned post. You can divulge more of your experiences anytime!

I'll say it again...

"WOW!"
 
What's It like to be a bottom?

I have had many experiences wearing nylons and pantyhose and milking from very nice cocks in my life. The swishing of a pair of nyloned thighs seems to bring out the best in certain men. My first time was when I was fifteen years old. My cousin (aged 17) and I talked about how we both loved hosed legs on girls and women and he mentioned to me that he thought my sister (aged 19) had great legs (she does). I kidded him once that the next time I was to see him that I would bring a pair of ner nylons to him as a gift. He became very excited and I said it basically kidding. He called me nearly every day at my house for the next week and asked me when I would be coning over to his house. My cousin by the way is a very good looking macho type of guy who later would be in the Army paratroopers. I was surprised at how vulnerable he became over a pair of nylons. About one month later my father and mother were planning on visiting my aunt and uncle and they said to me that when my cousin found out that they were going to visit my cousin wanted to know if I was going to be there and if I could stay overnight. I said okay. I called my cousin the night before our visit and said to him that if I could get into my sister's room prior to leaving I would try to get a pair of her nylons and that if I had them with me when we arrived, then I would signal him by pinching my nose. As my parents were getting ready to leave I went to my sister's room (she was out for the night) and went into her drawer and found a pair of beige nylons that she evidently wore on occasion with a garterbelt. I stuffed them into my overnight bag and off we went to my aunt and uncle's house. My cousin was nervous as we were greeted at the door asn my parents stayed and had coffee and cake. At the kitchen table I pinched my nose while looking at my cousin and he got so agitated that my aunt asked him if he was okay. After my parents left we all watched television (much to my cousin's dismay) until 11:00 P.M. My cousin an I went to his bedroom (there were twin beds) and when we got there he asked me where the nylons were. I handed them to him. He rubbed them across his face. He took his jeans off and rubbed them across the outside of his underwear. He appeared to be hard. He then went to wash up. At this time I took off my jeans and shirt and left on my underwear. Just to see what would happen I put the nylons on remembering how my mother put hers on when I saw her as a child. I had nothing to hold them up with but pulled them up. Since my sister is tall for a woman these nylons were long and nearly made it to my crotch. I turned off the light and the only light in the room was a nightlight. When my cousin came into the room he asked where the nylons were (we were whispering so as not to have anyone hear us) and I pointed to my legs. I had sat down on a chair in the corner of the room. I crossed and uncrossed my legs making the swishing sounds that I had seen women make. My cousin came over to me and asked if he could rub my legs. I said yes. He then asked if he could rub his cock against my legs and I said yes. He took off his underwear. I saw for the first time a cock other than my own. It seemed to pulse as he rubbed it against his hand then against my legs. I was sitting as this was going on adn I became aware how much power I had. He asked me to touch his cock then to play with it. He got clser with his cock to my face. i could see him staring at me in the near darkness. He asked if I could kiss it and after a few minutes of thinking of it I kissed the head with pursed lips. He was breathing very hard and shaking. I was shaking from both nervousness and being horny.I placed the head just inside mouth and then I closed it. Time stood still. My cousin was breathing so hard I thought he would faint. I started moving my mouth on the head. He asked me what I thought and I said it was different but fun. I could taste something salty. i moved my hand up and down the length of his cock. I then rubbed his cock against my nylons and he moaned. I thought I heard something and stopped. He went to the door and found out that it was his dog in the hallway. I resumed. At the time I did not think of him coming. This was all new. All I know was that he was so excited and I was in control. The head was towards the back of my throat when he came. I cannot rmemeber how many spurts there were but I remember the taste being salty and the texture being thick. He seemed to spurt forever and I swallowed. We continued on for months after this time and I even sucked him and his best friend while they took turns driving one weeknight. Its weird. I always had girlfriends one of whom posed for a very famous magazine and I have had have had numerous sexual excapades with both men and women but it is difficult to top that first time with my cousin. If you want I can tell more, did I say my sister?
 
Thanks for taking the time to write that Nylondad. A very nice and intriguing look into your feelings and quite erotic too!
 
Update

Last week I went to the movie theater in St Pete. There were four guys there watching a girl guy movie, I sat alone and watched for a little while, then I decided to move to a corner seat next to one guy so I could jack off, and he could watch, or maybe help.

I sat down and he immediatly pulled out his cock and told me to suck it. I hesitated for a second, and he said go on, and I'll suck you. So I bent over and took his cock in my mouth, he told me that he had cum three times that day, but just as I was getting him close (I could feel him moving) he told me to stop, and then he slipped off his chair, pulled out my cock, and started to suck me. The feel of his lips on my cock, and the others watching was a tremendous thrill. I thought about asking him to take my anal virginity right then and there accross the back of one of the chairs at the theater, but was scared of a cop coming in, or a raid or something (I figured I could move quickly enough if it was just a BJ)

I came (quite a lot) in about three minutes and he swallowed every drop sucking hungrily at my cock, then he proceeded to kiss me (which I did not like - for some reason I enjoy the direct sex, and love to be stroked and touched all over, but don't want to kiss).

I then knelt over and started to suck him again, just then another 'patron' entered, so I stopped, but the the people in the theater beackoned him near to them to watch. I was able to make him cum (he came just a little) and swallow it all, again he kissed me and asked if he couls see me again. I felt embarrassed and wanted to get out of there, but still it was in my mind to ask him to be my first. In the end I just left quickly, and have not been back .............. yet.

A couple of questions for you. When I am giving him head, he pressed my face down so I was taking him all, this almost made me gag, but it obviously made him feel good, so I tried to do it more often, sometimes it made me gag a little, and sometimes not. How do you do this so you don't gag, because it obviously made him feel good, and also, I am concerned about STD's as we were both unprotected .

One thing I did enjoy was that whilst I was sucking him the first time bending over from the side of the chair, he was ablt to fondle me ass and he kept pressing his finger against my ass hole (though my trousers stopped him from penetrating my ass).

Just to give you an idea - I am early 40's, but look late 20's - he looked late 50's or 60's.
 
NaplesSenior said:
... I was travelling for work and went to the hotel pool to cool down and relax...
Hmm, seems like hotel pools are great cruising spots. I'll have to keep that in mind!
 
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