What's the best thing...?

[Marcus2]

Alright ladies, this is for you. What's the best thing a guy can do for you in bed?

 

[Cakegirl]

Listen.

 

[Candee]

Listen is definately huge, but not always with just his ears but with all of his senses, watch how I'm responding to things and listen when I tell him what I want him to do and how to do it!

Also make a little noise! That soooo does it for me!

 

[tealsphynx]

Sexually....show signs of response..noise, funny faces, going faster, harder, softer or slower in response to my motions
otherwise...not giving me a hard time when I'm not in the mood...cuddle up to me, feel my naked skin on yours and pray I'm horny once I'm well rested ( I normally am)...it will reward you the next time I'm in the mood 10 fold whereas pushing me to have sex will only end up with me being a cranky demon woman for a day or so....


note to hubby: you do all these things beautifully. thank you

 

[Vixandra]

I'm with Tealsphinx on this one.

Also- care. Want my pleasure more then your own sometimes. Do something that you may not really enjoy but know that I love. I'll return the favor ten fold in the next round.

 

[Marcus2]

Awesome, well, unfortunitly for me, I'm still a virgin but I'm 19. So, yeah. Basically, I plan on having sex with my girlfriend since we play with each other, ALOT. lol, personally I dun see why we don't do it. But yeah, seems like there was alot more things to know than I thought there were.

 

[tealsphynx]

19 and a virgin...Kudos to you man! My husband waited until he was about that too...he wanted to wait for someone who he felt was special enough to him to give to...he's also a big fan of if you don't feel you are prepared to be a father, don't have sex because it could happen. It happened to a friend of mine who also waited until he was 19 to do it....they used a condom..she claimed to be on the pill....yah, he's a daddy now..first time could be the time it happens...
Because of this my hubby waited until he was sure he could bear the idea of being with this one woman, or atleast supporting a child born by her,to have sex. Kinda a neat ambition in my opinion...I didn't wait long (I was 16), I don't regret it...and now 4 years later here I am..pregnant...Ok I'm not upset about it...we didn't exactly plan it, but we didn't exactly prevent it either...play with fire get burned? sure, but we're really excited and happy about it..have been since the day the blue line showed on the stick!

Uhm...I guess my point is don't feel pressured to do it just cause you're 19 and you and GF play around alot....wait until you are really sure it's something you want...and I suggest going for the gold on protection if you are worried about pregnancy...my friend sure was and he didn't listen to me when I told him, even if she's on the pill use a condom AND spermacide that way you've got 3 forms of protection...if she gets pregnant at that point then it must have been ment to be. Good luck and happy (and safe) sexual exploration!

 

[niteloser]

I think listening is a good idea. But also don't just do it to get off... most of the time. sometimes that is okay. Sex is something that your whole body should be feeling not just your penis or vagina! I like whole body sex!

 

[Teddybear1626]

Listening is key and focusin on the other person not just yourself. I love being the only thing he focuses on and cares about my orgasms more than him getting off. Dont worry after Ive had my fill i treat him with the same respect.

 

[cymbline]

The best thing a guy to do for me in bed is to hold me close, caress me and assure me everything will be okay. If he make me feel safe then everything else is just dessert.

 

[RedIntense]

I would recommend a combination of the above thoughts. Make her feel safe. The best way to do that is to be aware of her responses, both physical and verbal. If she knows you'll respond to her responses, not only will she trust you emotionally, but she'll let you try more things because she'll be confident that you'll stop if she is uncomfortable.

 

[Marcus2]

kickass, thanks everyone that gave me there o9wn thoughts, helped alot. Actually, my girlfriend read this and well, she asked me if we could and who am I to complain, we did and shes not pregnant so we're both, VERY happy. Personally, I'm really glad it was her. Do people always remember there first time and wish to be with the one that took there virginity? Just a question that came to mind.

Also, thank you tealsphynx, we both agree on your thoughts.

 

[RavenousRae]

Massages
Good Sex
Listening
Kissing
Cuddling
Wake me up with More Good Sex

 

[Cloud-hidden]

Alright ladies, this is for you. What's the best thing a guy can do for you in bed?

Take me.

 

[Cathleen]

Alright ladies, this is for you. What's the best thing a guy can do for you in bed?

I think the best thing he can do is to know that making love doesn't happen just in bed. It is the soft caress as your leaving for work. It is coming up behind her to nuzzle her neck. Sitting with your arm around her or holding her hand - those things are what lead to the bedroom.

Listening, connecting, communicating and learning about each other will help make the bedroom experience more meaningful.

 

[Marcus2]

New Questions

I've noticed alot of people, mostly men have been asking what is okay for them to do to woman so, might I chance it on you a guys a bit?

What do you, want from guys? What's the best thing a guy can do for a girl, in and out of bed, kinda already answered in but, hey. If your with your friends, is okay, to have your boyfriend around? Women, ask away, I know you guys have questions.

These things seemed so random at the time but i felt like asking and getting womens opionions and what not.

 

[Marcus2]

I've noticed alot of people, mostly men have been asking what is okay for them to do to woman so, might I chance it on you a guys a bit?

What do you, want from guys? What's the best thing a guy can do for a girl, in and out of bed, kinda already answered in but, hey. If your with your friends, is okay, to have your boyfriend around? Women, ask away, I know you guys have questions.

These things seemed so random at the time but i felt like asking and getting womens opionions and what not.

New: For some reason it came out twice, and I can't delete it...

 

[Guest]

Alright ladies, this is for you. What's the best thing a guy can do for you in bed?

Communicating back and forth in the bedroom- before making love, during and after.

I love it when my man talks to me, and compliments. It really gets me off when he says how beautiful I am when I'm riding the pony

 

[sweetgirl666]

Care is probably the main one

We all are different and have different needs. I for one need a lot of cuddling and touching to be happy and need a guy that is not pressuring.

The best thing in general is that cuddling after sex, both still sweaty, smelly, just being close and sharing intimacy....

 

[Guest]

Care is probably the main one

We all are different and have different needs. I for one need a lot of cuddling and touching to be happy and need a guy that is not pressuring.

The best thing in general is that cuddling after sex, both still sweaty, smelly, just being close and sharing intimacy....

Ditto that!

 

[Luv2PleasureF]

Listening is key and focusin on the other person not just yourself. I love being the only thing he focuses on and cares about my orgasms more than him getting off. Dont worry after Ive had my fill i treat him with the same respect.

I'm sorry, can you say that again? I wasn't listening.

 

[miss_kate]

gorgeous eyes!

Eye contact is the biggest turn on for me. I love to watch my partners face as he gets excited. It doesnt have to be longing stares- but the eyes are such a give-away to how someone feels.

Watch as his eyes light up as he fucks you.


Seduce the mind and the body will follow