I suppose so. I imagine it is associated with letting another man "supposedly more masculine" enjoy the pleasures that your wife or girlfriend can give him just like you have experienced with her?
Well, "supposedly more masculine" skirts the truth. My wife's colleague is obviously, undeniably more manly, muscular, masculine, assertive and alpha than me, and the fact that my wife responded to that the way she did and was so instantly, intensely, helplessly sexually attracted to him, gets to the heart of my humiliation and resulting arousal. There was no one "turning point." It was a long, gradual process. It started with months of interrogating her and extracting every detail she could remember, so I was confident she was being 100% truthful and transparent about everything that happened, her motivations, her feelings about it. Then more months of processing all that information and engaging in some heavy self-analysis to figure out if I could get past the betrayal and stay with her and rebuild trust and our relationship. I realized that to have any chance of getting back to some semblance of "normal" and being the happy person I used to be, I had to forgive her - much more for my benefit than for hers, so I set my mind to doing that. As I let go of my anger and resentment and started to genuinely forgive her, my mind cleared and I was able to step back and see the whole situation more objectively and appreciate the intense eroticism of what she had done, her powerful, primal attraction to him, his masculinity and alpha male aura and authority, his muscular body, his cock that's twice the size of mine that she couldn't get enough of, his extensive sexual experience and skills, his ability to easily give her one shattering orgasm after another, and I found myself becoming incredibly aroused by all that, by his vast sexual superiority, by the fact that my wife was so intoxicated by him, that she so badly needed to be fucked by him that she blatantly betrayed me, risked our marriage and our family for it, and then kept going back for more, over and over for 10 years before I found out. There's something about the humiliating and emasculating effect of all that, of what he blithely did to me, a stranger intruding into my life out of nowhere and fundamentally changing me, turning me into something I wasn't before - a cuckold - that has produced a level of sexual arousal I never imagined could exist. Though words aren't adequate to fully capture it, that's about the best explanation I can offer.
You have "captured it" pretty well in your own words.
Perhaps have her put her phone on FaceTime during the next session. If she knows you like it, she might put on a real show for you!
I’m sorry dude
did I ruin her?
THIS!
I also have never actually taken out a ruler and double-checked what a man has told me he is size wise. It always makes me laugh a little when a man tells me their size as it pops into my head they are sitting there in a room with a tape measure writing down numbers like their personal stats.
And wtf do you measure from where to where lol
If a man's doing the measuring, it's safest to ass-ume he's measuring from his asshole.
They say pubic bone on top to tip .
I never even considered this. Is it like base to tip or what?
This explains so much from some people. I love it!!!
I understand completely and revel in my situation. Just wish she allowed me to clean her always
Statistically, 8" is extremely large, and extremely rare. Ignore what men say and what porn seems to suggest. I'm 7x6.5c and have been with hundreds of people, women and men, and I've heard from enough of them to know that 7" is big. Not the biggest, but considered very big by most people.
Do you know of an app or site where I might be able to make sexual AIs, in particular, inserting myself into certain scenes? Or somebody who looks a bit like me?
There is solid evidence that male interest in penis size is an evolutionary trait, or the vestiges of one.
Actually, there is solid evidence that it has a basis in primate evolution. Look it up.Mostly it's a porn-driven obsession. When I was coming of age, long before personal computers, let alone smart phones, porn was not readily available. In those days, guys that were “hung like a horse” were regarded as sort of freaks of nature, and more likely to be snickered at than admired. At least that's the way guys felt; I never heard girls talk about it.
Johnny Holmes came on the porn scene in the early 70s, and the success of his films shows that there was a fascination for big cocks even then— maybe latent until then. Porn always repeats and imitates whatever sells, so I would guess that his films were the origin of porn's obsession with big cocks.
But even so, I watched a fair amount of porn during its ”golden age” (’70s) when you could see it in mainstream theaters, and most of the cocks I remember were maybe a little bigger than average, simply because they had to show up well on camera and in action— but they weren't huge, by any means. I usually went with my wife and one or more other female friends. I remember hearing them talk freely about the action on screen, and what they liked, but I don't ever remember hearing them talk about cock sizes. I'm sure it would have imprinted deeply if I had.
So, porn-inspired, but it also seems that a small but significant percentage of men are aroused by humiliation. I know i am and always have been, but it's only recently that I've begun to realize how common it is. So, male psychology being what it is, there are two sure roads to humiliation: one is to be denigrated for being sexually inadequate; the other is to be cuckolded. And when they come together, it's high voltagehumiliation. Hence, obsession. Hence, more big-cock porn. It's a feedback loop.
How do you have your orgasms? Or do you at all? Just curious.
I know that. Well under 1 in 1000, from statistics I was reading the other day. Based on what I've seen, the number is two small to come up with an accurate percentage, except if it's based on self-reporting. And we know how accurate that is!
