When was the last time you had sex?

[FictionRomantic]

and i do mean real sex - with a partner(s)

not with yourself, not face timing, not skyping, phone, nor heaven forbid, via pm.

hard, soft, quick, long, however it was, when did you have it last?



i had some last month, but then again, i make my dude work for the honor of being near my love cave

Unless you count some brief kisses with a woman who isn’t my wife this year, the last time I had full sex was with my wife just over 18 years ago, after a stillbirth she lost all sexual desire for me.

My wife is still the most beautiful woman in the world to me, but that’s not enough anymore.

I found out this year that (for my age of 53) I’m actually good-looking, only my wife finds me repulsive.

There’s been more than I few tears about that.

Why it’s so much easier to find women who want to be my other significant other than it is to win back my wife’s love is puzzling and seems a cruel trick.

My physician told me “You had to try [to win the affection of my wife back], it was good that you tried, but there was never any hope”

The choice remains do I want to cheat or never feel loved again?

I see no way not to feel like a betrayer in this situation, either or myself, my wife, or another woman.

 

[Lady2020]

Not too long before I uninstalled my Skype app.

 

[ian370]

Unless you count some brief kisses with a woman who isn’t my wife this year, the last time I had full sex was with my wife just over 18 years ago, after a stillbirth she lost all sexual desire for me.

My wife is still the most beautiful woman in the world to me, but that’s not enough anymore.

I found out this year that (for my age of 53) I’m actually good-looking, only my wife finds me repulsive.

There’s been more than I few tears about that.

Why it’s so much easier to find women who want to be my other significant other than it is to win back my wife’s love is puzzling and seems a cruel trick.

My physician told me “You had to try [to win the affection of my wife back], it was good that you tried, but there was never any hope”

The choice remains do I want to cheat or never feel loved again?

I see no way not to feel like a betrayer in this situation, either or myself, my wife, or another woman.

Not that I am specifically a husband, myself. Nor in the same age bracket that you are. But, I am still in general very sorry to hear this news and generally can maybe get some of your frustration. You no doubt love your wife and want to remain faithful. Yet likely, you're experiencing increased need having had a prolong period of living without.

You are thinking of others besides your own self here. That says a lot about you as a person. Not all answers have the perfect solution. At times we may need to make the very best one. Which is not always the same for all of us.

 

[FictionRomantic]

Not that I am specifically a husband, myself. Nor in the same age bracket that you are. But, I am still in general very sorry to hear this news and generally can maybe get some of your frustration. You no doubt love your wife and want to remain faithful. Yet likely, you're experiencing increased need having had a prolong period of living without.

You are thinking of others besides your own self here. That says a lot about you as a person. Not all answers have the perfect solution. At times we may need to make the very best one. Which is not always the same for all of us.

Thanks for your kind words

 

[Cubantripod]

The choice remains do I want to cheat or never feel loved again?

I see no way not to feel like a betrayer in this situation, either or myself, my wife, or another woman.

Why is divorce not an option?

 

[FictionRomantic]

Why is divorce not an option?

Divorce is an option, but it would mean selfishly prioritizing my own happiness over my wife’s and more importantly her children who are 16 and 5 years old, while they aren’t genetically mine I’m the only father they’ve ever known and they call me “Dad”.

My parents got separated and then divorced when I was a child in the 1970’s so I know what that’s like, plus I’ve read the statistics, divorce is mostly bad for kids, it’s only good when there’s high conflict or abuse to escape from and me and my wife are separated bedrooms and lives not fighting/arguing.

This is a constant struggle in my mind between how much to weigh the children’s happiness versus my own.

This last year after 18 years (following a stillbirth), and over ten years of sleeping separately, plus a two year campaign of extra flowers, words of affection, take-out, et cetera right before I finally gave up hope of winning back the love of my wife, got kissed by another woman and moved out, even so I’m still legally married to my wife and spend weekends with her and her kids (while the older one knows but the younger one doesn’t know that I’m not the biological father).

It’s hard, I’ve fallen in-love with another woman but she tells me “I can’t pine for you, you’re still in love with your wife”, and she’s right, there’s still residual love, but mostly it’s the kids I worry about, as I don’t want to do to them what was done to me.

 

[Cubantripod]

Divorce is an option, but it would mean selfishly prioritizing my own happiness over my wife’s and more importantly her children who are 16 and 5 years old, while they aren’t genetically mine I’m the only father they’ve ever known and they call me “Dad”.

My parents got separated and then divorced when I was a child in the 1970’s so I know what that’s like, plus I’ve read the statistics, divorce is mostly bad for kids, it’s only good when there’s high conflict or abuse to escape from and me and my wife are separated bedrooms and lives not fighting/arguing.

This is a constant struggle in my mind between how much to weigh the children’s happiness versus my own.

This last year after 18 years (following a stillbirth), and over ten years of sleeping separately, plus a two year campaign of extra flowers, words of affection, take-out, et cetera right before I finally gave up hope of winning back the love of my wife, got kissed by another woman and moved out, even so I’m still legally married to my wife and spend weekends with her and her kids (while the older one knows but the younger one doesn’t know that I’m not the biological father).

It’s hard, I’ve fallen in-love with another woman but she tells me “I can’t pine for you, you’re still in love with your wife”, and she’s right, there’s still residual love, but mostly it’s the kids I worry about, as I don’t want to do to them what was done to me.

You said the kids aren't genetically yours. I hope they're adopted then. There seems to be some gray area there. You keep trying and she isn't responsive to you. She's not in love with you. I hate to say it, but even your doctor can see it. I don't know why you consider it selfish to want to divorce. Why is not selfish for her to completely disregard whatever it is that you need? Why does she stick around if she finds you repulsive? I know the statistics about kids from divorced families, but if you're not mentally and emotionally ok, you can't be a good father to the kids either.

 

[thør]

3 hours ago.

Now, you're just bragging.

 

[thør]

Maybe next time I should actually read the thread . After the above comments I do come off as a braggart. My bad. I'll try to be more sensitive in the future.

Heh...

Sure you will.

 

[youneedatonguelashing]

What, like with a person?

 

[Goldenfinger]

3 hours ago.

 

[water_moutina]

Thursday afternoon

 

[water_moutina]

What, like with a person?

uh.... yes, preferrably

lol

 

[kinkeetess]

19 days too long

 

[sangerin]

Too long

 

[sunshine_butterflyfairy]

It's been a long time for me.

 

[water_moutina]

last week

 

[Goldenfinger]

Oral sex, last night.

 

[MKvDeepSea]

Hmmm, will have to check my calendar and get back to you...

 

[MGC770]

It’s been about 26 days since the last time I had sexual with my wife, you can read that a few posts back.
This morning though she gets up and heads to the loo and then back to bed at about 4am.
I am aware and sort of a bit awake, she hops into to,bed and says are you asleep, I respond ‘not really’.
She grabs my hand and takes it under the bedsheets and places it on her bare pussy .
Suddenly I am awake, she hasn’t got any night clothes on and my hand is on her pussy. She leans into me and kisses me on the lips and says get rid of yours.
My cock by now is waking up and getting hard. I slip my jocks off and she moves herself into a position where we can intertwine with my cock head close to her pussy.
She grabs my hand again and places it on her crotch and I get the message.
Needless to say for the next 1-1/2 hours I teased her with my fingers and fucked her with my cock to the edge about 5 times before she finally says ‘ I want to cum so bad, just fuck me ‘.
I pick up the pace with both plunging my cock into her deep and rubbing her clit. I can feel her pussy clamping and releasing on my cock and then she is arching her back and forcing her pussy onto me harder, grinding herself , breathing hard , she says ‘fuck me harder i’m Cumming’.
She is wet slippery, tight , grinding and thrashing and moaning deeply as she comes.
My cock is overloaded with pleasure as I bottom out in her pussy over and over and then as she is coming down I groan i’m Cumming, she grabs my hip and pulls me into her tighter as I explode filling her with whatever cum I have to give.
I hope we she feels horny again soon.

Hot story!

 

[Plane_Guy]

Few days ago.

 

[Trubbycat]

Several years.

 

[HornyJunkMail]

last year

 

[SugarPlease]

Shower sex this last weekend.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

at this point it was two days ago.