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Bowlerpa said:hi how have you been
Lorelei_11 said:I'm o.k its slowly getting better, I'm a bit less stressed now. I've been able to masturbate. I've made a thread on phone sex and its bringing back memories of it, I miss it.
ardentshaman said:where am I?
in bed.
Bowlerpa said:masturbating is good and i seen your phone sex thread looks like it is going strong.
Lorelei_11 said:I'd rather be there than here typing sitting up. No one seems to be into a phone chat this evening, so here I'am. I will go to bed soon though, its getting to be to much typing.
ardentshaman said:well.. I have the greatest bed I have ever felt... by leaps and bound in a king size... it's about 3,600 worth of bedding... so it's nice.. but i'm up... here and just as frusterated as you hon.. so even in a great place.....
like a sailor without wind for months... water water everywhere but not a drop to drink.
Lorelei_11 said:I had a king size waterbed for many years. Then queen, and now I'm in a single bed.
Sexless, in Vancouver.
I don't see water everywhere, but the desert is damned hard to stand.![]()
ardentshaman said:Single... i'm so sorry my dear! I have room, hop up.
lol
I had a party last night and all the girls fell asleep on the couch, so I corralled them all into the bed to nap there till the guys took them home. It's nice to have the room!
Lorelei_11 said:Hey, I was married a long time to an in the closet gay guy, getting pretty much no sex. Years between sex. He just had no interest in me sexually. I have suffered, and I have a lot of sex to make up for.
Just haven't found anyone to have it with yet. I even miss phone sex. Yeah, king size was nice.I wish I could hop up there. Sitting here typing is becoming no fun.
ardentshaman said:agreed i hate to type especialy on the boards like this because of the long delay between messages. I prefere to chat in IM and the likes if I have to type, but the people here are so great. I feel welcome evertime I am here. I feel home.
I feel like some of the people understand me, and how some people just have a more active sex drive than whats the norm...
Lorelei_11 said:I'm highly sexual. I'm not into it though unless I at least have a very good friendship with someone,or I'm dating them.
I'm a good girl, with a bad girl inside, that needs to be enticed to come out and play, with someone I care about and the feeling is returned.
I ended up having an affair when I was married, which isn't like me at all. You're description of the desert was a good one. Water was right there, but unavailable.
ardentshaman said:=)
I'm that man on a boat most days...
I understand.
Emotional feelings with physical expression is the most thrilling sensation in the world without a doubt.
Lorelei_11 said:Its so sad, when you're with someone, and they're supposed to be the only person you have sex with. It should be beautiful. It should be such a wonderful part of your relationship. You should feel blessed to have it all.
Even though, things slow down over time, and life gets in the way. They're the only person you think of sexually. They turn you on, and you find the time to make wild passionate, kinky love to them. As often as you possibly can. To give and recieve the ultimate pleasure, and to have that in your life, what an amazing thing.
So, its very sad when things go wrong and something as great as sex, is missing.
ardentshaman said:It's terrible.
I am an extremely sexual person. I am private usualy, but that is what got into an unstatisfied state. I love to enjoy my body and use everything I have to provide pleasure... usualy I'm a giver first....
To be denied the ability to make someone else feel wonderfull is painfull for me, then to never have myown gratification also makes it diffocult to even feel anything after a while.
TheEru said:...the feeling of being sexually frustrated. I'm newly single (from a not very long-term relationship). But I was starting to get used to the constant sex that comes at the start of any relationship.
Edit: Newly single isn't the only time I feel that, but it definitely brings it to the forefront!
Lorelei_11 said:I know its terrible
Because he had no attraction to me, and no desire for me, part of who I'am as a women was missing, went unexpressed. We are sexual beings, we need to express that part of ourselves. When it was missing, part of who I'am as a woman was gone.
Thats a nice thing that you're a giver sexually. My ex was cold and self centered.
ardentshaman said:he was as such because he you didn't have what he wanted and he was cruel to you for it. No one should have to have that pain....
We are sexual beings, but not all of us want that part of us to blossom.
it's just as hard to become sexualy athletic mental and physicaly as it is to become athletic at any sport. some won't make the commitment, that's something I don't understand.
Lorelei_11 said:It would be nice to have a phone conversation. If anyone would like a call, let me know. I'm going to lay on my bed soon.
ardentshaman said:you should cum lay in my bed instead. it's got much much more room!
Lorelei_11 said:Thanks for letting me know what happened.Yes, I think it would. I would have investigated skype, but my computer is full and I'm having computer problems. I need to erase everything, not sure what you call that, and then reinstall windows. None of my programs are working.
Yes, I've explored sexual things. I've progressed into things some I didn't even know I would enjoy. I've learned a lot, and because of it, became open to some things that I said I'd never do again, Anal is one of them. Tried it and it was uncomfortable and not pleasurable. Learned a lot about doing it right on literotica, so I'm open to trying it again and see what happens. I'm very open minded sexually.
newrandomperson said:Oh thats the same as me, I`ve always been open about sex and life in general, if you ask me something its very rare that i wont give you a straight answer about it. But i love to exp-lore and discover new things, I always find thats one of the most exciting things about this forum.
Hopefully your reinstall wont be too bad and you`ll be back on quick, would be great to keep chatting to you.