Why did i become bi?

[Travler99921]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

 

[KinkStevens]

Dick has magic in it

 

[KingDavid234]

I became bi curious around age 40. I think it is because I love oral sex so much and my wife is just not much into it. She sucks my cock for about 30 seconds then asks me if I liked it. I always tell her yes, but that I would like more. Anyway, my love for oral sex has led me to explore sex with other men. My first time being suck by another man was absolutely incredible!! I posted a story about it previously. I have sucked cocks maybe 4 or 5 times in the past 10 years or so. I want to explore more

 

[funkeymonkeylove]

I think it takes us all that long to figure out that we like sex a lot more than women. Thought of it makes us look to whatever or whomever can provide it. Sex consumes our minds and finding a way to make it last longer more intense and more meaningful pushes us to bridge those gaps we never thought possible.

 

[nostuff]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

You pose a great question. I've spent years trying to figure it out, and I still don't have an answer other than to say I really like cock.

I'm especially puzzled, because I always thought the mere act of touching another man distasteful, if not disgusting. Not that I disliked gays in any way. I've always been a live-and-let-live kind of guy.

One day, however, I started wondering what man sex was like, why some men would be attracted to cock. It was a slow thing, nothing like that proverbial lightning strike. A long, drawn out evolution instead.

Was it because I wasn't happy at home? Perhaps, but that never made sense to me. If it was a matter of wanting more sex, I could have tried an affair with another woman instead of a man.

Was it because I started watching gay porn? I couldn't even watch William Hurt in Kiss Of The Spider Woman. Yuck, I had to close my eyes.

Was it something I read? If I couldn't tolerate a mainstream Hollywood movie, why would I find the written word any more appealing?

All I can figure is that something in me changed, something physical or psychological. Either way, I'm not smart enough to figure it out, so I just accept that I have an appetite for both men and women.

 

[Escierto]

You pose a great question. I've spent years trying to figure it out, and I still don't have an answer other than to say I really like cock.

I'm especially puzzled, because I always thought the mere act of touching another man distasteful, if not disgusting. Not that I disliked gays in any way. I've always been a live-and-let-live kind of guy.

One day, however, I started wondering what man sex was like, why some men would be attracted to cock. It was a slow thing, nothing like that proverbial lightning strike. A long, drawn out evolution instead.

Was it because I wasn't happy at home? Perhaps, but that never made sense to me. If it was a matter of wanting more sex, I could have tried an affair with another woman instead of a man.

Was it because I started watching gay porn? I couldn't even watch William Hurt in Kiss Of The Spider Woman. Yuck, I had to close my eyes.

Was it something I read? If I couldn't tolerate a mainstream Hollywood movie, why would I find the written word any more appealing?

All I can figure is that something in me changed, something physical or psychological. Either way, I'm not smart enough to figure it out, so I just accept that I have an appetite for both men and women.

Could you watch William Hurt now?

 

[Northwind75]

I became bi curious around age 40. I think it is because I love oral sex so much and my wife is just not much into it. She sucks my cock for about 30 seconds then asks me if I liked it. I always tell her yes, but that I would like more. Anyway, my love for oral sex has led me to explore sex with other men. My first time being suck by another man was absolutely incredible!! I posted a story about it previously. I have sucked cocks maybe 4 or 5 times in the past 10 years or so. I want to explore more

I am like you except I was in my 60's when I became curious

 

[cdstefi]

I think it takes us all that long to figure out that we like sex a lot more than women. Thought of it makes us look to whatever or whomever can provide it. Sex consumes our minds and finding a way to make it last longer more intense and more meaningful pushes us to bridge those gaps we never thought possible.

Perceptive. Also I think with age and maturity comes the realisation that you don't need to give a fuck for societal norms or what you grew up with, and just decide what you like for yourself.

For me, anal sex. I was a latecomer.

 

[nostuff]

Could you watch William Hurt now?

Easily. In retrospect, that scene was quite tame.

 

[Britva415]

Could it be that you like the fact that men are hella easy?

That right there is the single biggest difference, for me, between sex with men and sex with women. Even more than what gets done with what particular body parts - by far.

It's also the thing which makes me, overall on the whole, prefer women. I mean, sexually I'm 50/50 bi, but romantically or whatever, men aren't exciting to me. They’re TOO easy!

My longest relationship besides my wife was with a man (4 years) but all my other relationships/situationships/friends with beneships have been with women.

But getting older (and opening my marriage) has made me appreciate how easy men are. I'd still more-or-less rather play with women, even on the casual level, but when I want sex and I know that's all I'm after, I can get started in under 20 minutes with a man.

 

[Curiousforcock24]

I have known since puberty that I am bi, have always been curious about sucking cock and getting taken anally. I finally did give my first blowjob a month ago and loved it. Still waiting to find the right person to fuck me. It's all about giving pleasure for me. I love women and have been told I am very good at eating pussy so I guess i'm just a giver. Lol.

 

[Dreamer110]

I have known since puberty that I am bi, have always been curious about sucking cock and getting taken anally. I finally did give my first blowjob a month ago and loved it. Still waiting to find the right person to fuck me. It's all about giving pleasure for me. I love women and have been told I am very good at eating pussy so I guess i'm just a giver. Lol.

Sounds like you're looking to be a taker pretty soon. Lol

 

[Curiousforcock24]

Sounds like you're looking to be a taker pretty soon. Lol

Whenever the right opportunity presents itself. Lol

 

[Dreamer110]

Whenever the right opportunity presents itself. Lol

So you'll like somebody else being the giver.

 

[Curiousforcock24]

So you'll like somebody else being the giver.

I guess we would both be givers and takers. He'll get his pleasure while I get mine.

 

[Dreamer110]

I guess we would both be givers and takers. He'll get his pleasure while I get mine.

Both winners. Hopefully you really enjoy it.

 

[gary04]

I became bi because I need more oral then the wife would give. Also after I retired I found out that gay porn was more exciting . Now I enjoy sucking cock more then sex with the wife.

 

[Travler99921]

I became bi because I need more oral then the wife would give. Also after I retired I found out that gay porn was more exciting . Now I enjoy sucking cock more then sex with the wife.

My experience was similar. The oral sex my wife gave me was not very satisfying, however why did we seek out men rather than another woman?

 

[Biguy77578]

I think it takes us all that long to figure out that we like sex a lot more than women. Thought of it makes us look to whatever or whomever can provide it. Sex consumes our minds and finding a way to make it last longer more intense and more meaningful pushes us to bridge those gaps we never thought possible.

Exactly!
I love sex period!
I sucked my 1st cock at an early age and loved it years before I had pussy. Male or female I just love the rush feeling and have done some risky things to have it.

 

[gary04]

the reason why i went with another guy instead of another woman is because i feel men know what feels good when getting a blowjob. There are some ladies that are really good but its alot easier to get a guy to suck your cock then a woman

 

[Greytruck]

Became bi in my mid 30’s. Married, kids, mortgage
I needed more. Discovered chat rooms. So many men were curious like me
Tried one and said this ain’t half bad..
I’m now 70 and this part of my life a deep secret.. will take it to my grave

 

[Bi4Older84]

the reason why i went with another guy instead of another woman is because i feel men know what feels good when getting a blowjob. There are some ladies that are really good but its alot easier to get a guy to suck your cock then a woman

It's definitely easier-and another difference is that when men suck cock it's because they WANT to, not out of a sense of obligation. Male or female, enthusiasm is the key to a great blowjob. I've had some mediocre blowjobs from women, but I've never gotten a bad BJ from a man. Granted, I've had a lot more blowjobs from women than from men, but I feel like it's a fair generalization from my experiences.

 

[Biguy77578]

It's definitely easier-and another difference is that when men suck cock it's because they WANT to, not out of a sense of obligation. Male or female, enthusiasm is the key to a great blowjob. I've had some mediocre blowjobs from women, but I've never gotten a bad BJ from a man. Granted, I've had a lot more blowjobs from women than from men, but I feel like it's a fair generalization from my experiences.

You're absolutely right about men sucking cock because they want to do it. My wife enjoys sucking me and will do it anytime I ask because she wants to please me but its not like she does it because she just wants to suck cock. She has sucked others cock in front of me to excite me and we have sucked cock together because she knows I like doing it.

 

[Landshark1]

Cause you could!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

And it feels good