Why I Hate Men Chapter 4328
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Samuari
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My HS debate partner was female and very good...she spoke well too. A really sexxy blonde, we used her good looks to set 'em up, then cut cut 'em off at the knees.
We actually had an opposeing coach complain that we were taking an unfair advantage... well you don't amass 787 NFL contest points in HS by accident.
We actually had an opposeing coach complain that we were taking an unfair advantage... well you don't amass 787 NFL contest points in HS by accident.
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I'll bet if you show some cleavage next time the boys will be nicer to you. You were wearing a turtleneck and a nice blazer, weren't you? tsk, tsk.
YogiBare
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I was a high school debater and did a little bit of judging while in college. For what it's worth, I got the same kind of crap, and only from the guys.
Do you get the same kind of reactions from the guys in law school? I would hope that they would have matured some by that time. By the time you get to my age (late 40s) you come to realize that a brilliant mind in a woman may very well be her sexiest asset. It's frustrating to have to wait but, eventually, many of us come to that realization,
Do you get the same kind of reactions from the guys in law school? I would hope that they would have matured some by that time. By the time you get to my age (late 40s) you come to realize that a brilliant mind in a woman may very well be her sexiest asset. It's frustrating to have to wait but, eventually, many of us come to that realization,
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I think this oens from the scotch...
Men and women manifest different needs. Women tend to need greater caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reasurance. Men, meanwhile, need to receive greater trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval and encouragement.
We can best get what we need, by giving our partner what he/she needs.
Remember that we come from two different planets and must master appropriate communication skills.
Martians are predisposed to focus on a few big things; Venusians consider small things to be importiant. A man thinks he scores big with a woman because he has a good job and can provide a comfortable standard of living. To her, however, the job and its benefits are negligible-espescially if he neglects her.
The "love tank" needs continual refilling. And the man should be willing to do a few small things each day, like listening completely for a few minutes, or giving hugs.
I am truely sorry you have such a disposition for men. But I cannot place blame where I do not know it lies.
Sometimes you have to ask for support in order to get it-and women seem to have the most difficulty asking.
now pay attention!
Women make the mistake of thinking they don't have to ask for support. Because they intuitively feel the needs of others and give whatever they can, they mistakenly expect men to do the same.
I am not like you. In many ways I wish I was...but I have a wiener and you don't. There are men out there that adore you. I see it everyday, here on the thread.
Are you looking for intellectual acceptance? You're smarter than I could ever dream to be.
If you give up on relationships, I can understand. But don't give up on men.
...Don't give up period.
Men and women manifest different needs. Women tend to need greater caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reasurance. Men, meanwhile, need to receive greater trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval and encouragement.
We can best get what we need, by giving our partner what he/she needs.
Remember that we come from two different planets and must master appropriate communication skills.
Martians are predisposed to focus on a few big things; Venusians consider small things to be importiant. A man thinks he scores big with a woman because he has a good job and can provide a comfortable standard of living. To her, however, the job and its benefits are negligible-espescially if he neglects her.
The "love tank" needs continual refilling. And the man should be willing to do a few small things each day, like listening completely for a few minutes, or giving hugs.
I am truely sorry you have such a disposition for men. But I cannot place blame where I do not know it lies.
Sometimes you have to ask for support in order to get it-and women seem to have the most difficulty asking.
now pay attention!
Women make the mistake of thinking they don't have to ask for support. Because they intuitively feel the needs of others and give whatever they can, they mistakenly expect men to do the same.
I am not like you. In many ways I wish I was...but I have a wiener and you don't. There are men out there that adore you. I see it everyday, here on the thread.
Are you looking for intellectual acceptance? You're smarter than I could ever dream to be.
If you give up on relationships, I can understand. But don't give up on men.
...Don't give up period.
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Lavender
Please don't tar us all with the same brush. Just look around you at Lit. Apart from a few, who we will not mention, the men here respect and honour the ladies.
In your incident it was undoubtedly age that was the problem.
Adolescent boys are full of hormones and some often see women as good for only one thing (and at that age they're no good at that either!). They are not able to accept authority or knowledge from a woman.
We do get better as we get older (too old in some cases!) or at least most of us do.
Even if you hate us, we still love you.
Please don't tar us all with the same brush. Just look around you at Lit. Apart from a few, who we will not mention, the men here respect and honour the ladies.
In your incident it was undoubtedly age that was the problem.
Adolescent boys are full of hormones and some often see women as good for only one thing (and at that age they're no good at that either!). They are not able to accept authority or knowledge from a woman.
We do get better as we get older (too old in some cases!) or at least most of us do.
Even if you hate us, we still love you.
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Sweetheart. I adore women. In every essence of their mortal beings.
Ever since Highscool I have sought the acceptance of the opposite sex. Not because I don't think I am not attarctive, but because I understand the need for anothers desires to be fufilled.
I do not expect any compensation for my actions, nor do I allow that particular person to take advantage of the situation.
There are "Men" who enjoy making women happy for the sole pupose of seeing them smile. If these afore mentioned women see this action as lame, then I have no further control
of the situation. But I hope that they don't run off and call me a loser just because I did not meet some prerequisate they already had drawn out.
I'm probably not making any sense right now. Please forgive =me for taking on this task in an uncapable mind frame.
If you continue to feel this way later, please let me know. I make it a point to talk to people when they are going through some conflicting times.
Ever since Highscool I have sought the acceptance of the opposite sex. Not because I don't think I am not attarctive, but because I understand the need for anothers desires to be fufilled.
I do not expect any compensation for my actions, nor do I allow that particular person to take advantage of the situation.
There are "Men" who enjoy making women happy for the sole pupose of seeing them smile. If these afore mentioned women see this action as lame, then I have no further control
of the situation. But I hope that they don't run off and call me a loser just because I did not meet some prerequisate they already had drawn out.
I'm probably not making any sense right now. Please forgive =me for taking on this task in an uncapable mind frame.
If you continue to feel this way later, please let me know. I make it a point to talk to people when they are going through some conflicting times.
Vinny
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Women are awesome
Women are awesome and I happen to work in a so-called womans field as I am a nurse. It is just so amazing how everytime I walk into a patients room they immediately think I am a docotor and the woman is the nurse. They only do this because they think me being a man can only be a doctor and not a nurse becuase men are doctors and females are nurses. Well for me, I would much rather have a female doctor, What I mean is, no matter what the gender, if they can handle the job give it to them. Women that are smarter than me turn me on.
Women are awesome and I happen to work in a so-called womans field as I am a nurse. It is just so amazing how everytime I walk into a patients room they immediately think I am a docotor and the woman is the nurse. They only do this because they think me being a man can only be a doctor and not a nurse becuase men are doctors and females are nurses. Well for me, I would much rather have a female doctor, What I mean is, no matter what the gender, if they can handle the job give it to them. Women that are smarter than me turn me on.
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Black_Bird
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Ravenloft said:
This is gender we are talking about, not monsters!!! You want the Hero Builder's Guide!
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WORD!
Your AV isn't exactly chopped-liver Eve...
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lavender said:
I'm not at one with the male gender right now.
That can be fixed no problem
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On a more positive note:
Sorry that you're feeling pissed off with men at the moment lavy, but hey, I'm sure something will happen next week to restore your faith. So stop this before it becomes a male bashing thread!
(or is that too late?)
Sorry that you're feeling pissed off with men at the moment lavy, but hey, I'm sure something will happen next week to restore your faith. So stop this before it becomes a male bashing thread!
(or is that too late?)
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lavender said:
You have?
Why didn't you say so earlier!
Women!
Now lets fuck
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lavender said:
Show some patience woman!
