My husband is interested in this dynamic, a no-humiliation scenario. He wants to watch me with another man "like it's live porn" then perhaps join in for a MFM or a soft MMF. Sounds good on paper but I've always hesitated because you never know what you're getting into until you're there and the jealousy in the moment might rear it's ugly green monster head.
If it interest you, you might want to try it. It's likely your husband would be all on board. It would be a shame if the two of you live your life not doing something you both want to do.
Not sure we both actually want to do it. He thinks he wants to, I'm interested but a bit short of "wanting to." PM me if you have experience with this, curious how you got started if you did and how it went afterward in terms of managing any feelings that came up.
For me, the risk is running into someone you know at the club. I know there is the whole "they're there for the same reason you are so you have nothing to be embarrassed about" notion but what if you see someone you know or a couple you know and they are much further into their exploration than you are. Biggest fear would be running into another couple we know and having to turn them down because we weren't ready or weren't interested. One thing that lead to my husband and I talking about these things was that a couple we know not-so-subtly propositioned us a couple of times. We weren't interested so we pretended we didn't know what they were throwing out there.
Sounds fun! Would love a mistress like that!
Thats what we done after doing threesomes for a few years. They started off as just for fun for both of us and in doing those we both realized how much smaller I was than most. Not tiny but smaller. I seen how she like the larger cocks. We done a cuckold thing a time or two because things worked out where I couldn't go with her. We both found we loved it. So for the last several years we have done that We have slowed down some but she still has a couple of regular boyfriends. I rarely go any more unless it's a special event or someone new. I haven't fucked her in several years either. I love her showing me how much they fucked her and eating their cum out of her and jacking off for her.
I have been w two hot wives where the hubby like to watch and occasionally join in. And I’ve been w my wife when she’s taken a lover and I got to watch and join.
I agree. Hotwife couples or cuckold couples are very secure in their relationships or they wouldn't be doing it. They both like it and accept variations.
