Why is it so hard to get laid??

[Ruby_PlumRed]

Ok *rant*

When I left my husband, I told myself I could live life how I wanted and sleep around if I wished. All my friends told me that lots of cock (and some pussy lol) would make me forget him.

But why is it so hard to get laid now??!!

I would love to be able to just see a guy/girl I liked, walk up to them and just take them home to have fun. And then they would leave and I wouldn't have to think about them again. But it doesn't work like that!

Instead I find myself going nuts with hornyness, walking down the street eyeing up people like a pervert. To get laid, you have to talk to people, go on a date.. blah blah blah.

I think I could fuck anyone right about now. It's not like I'm going to - but that makes me even more annoyed. Grr. Maybe I should go back to a swing club.


sorry. rant over. x

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

Ok *rant*

When I left my husband, I told myself I could live life how I wanted and sleep around if I wished. All my friends told me that lots of cock (and some pussy lol) would make me forget him.

But why is it so hard to get laid now??!!

I would love to be able to just see a guy/girl I liked, walk up to them and just take them home to have fun. And then they would leave and I wouldn't have to think about them again. But it doesn't work like that!

Instead I find myself going nuts with hornyness, walking down the street eyeing up people like a pervert. To get laid, you have to talk to people, go on a date.. blah blah blah.

I think I could fuck anyone right about now. It's not like I'm going to - but that makes me even more annoyed. Grr. Maybe I should go back to a swing club.


sorry. rant over. x

Things happen best when they happen naturally. Just cool down!

 

[Ruby_PlumRed]

Hah yes, but I wish I would naturally walk into my bedroom and find 5 guys and 2 girls to have their way with me! x

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

Hah yes, but I wish I would naturally walk into my bedroom and find 5 guys and 2 girls to have their way with me! x

Well everything natural starts with intention. Thats part of the magic of the mind. If your intention is clear thats a start in the chain of events. But the rule is never try to force things...

As a great saint once said "Be like water my friend... for water... be like you."

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Ok *rant*

When I left my husband, I told myself I could live life how I wanted and sleep around if I wished. All my friends told me that lots of cock (and some pussy lol) would make me forget him.

But why is it so hard to get laid now??!!

I would love to be able to just see a guy/girl I liked, walk up to them and just take them home to have fun. And then they would leave and I wouldn't have to think about them again. But it doesn't work like that!

Instead I find myself going nuts with hornyness, walking down the street eyeing up people like a pervert. To get laid, you have to talk to people, go on a date.. blah blah blah.

I think I could fuck anyone right about now. It's not like I'm going to - but that makes me even more annoyed. Grr. Maybe I should go back to a swing club.


sorry. rant over. x

Yeah, if you eliminate talking, getting to know someone, developing any king of a bond......................then yes I would agree with your assesment. It DAMN hard to get laid! lol

 

[teknight]

Hah yes, but I wish I would naturally walk into my bedroom and find 5 guys and 2 girls to have their way with me! x

Swinger club? I think some are open to single women.
Or open a swinger club in your bedroom.

 

[Ruby_PlumRed]

^Lol yeah there a few I know of nearby, and they welcome single women.

It's great for some nights, but it somehow feels very contrived. Plus a lot of the guys that go there look really gormless and weird.


One in my bedroom would be amazing! You guys know what I mean though.. I just want to fuck sometimes, but that doesn't seem to be possible. But then some girls seem to manage it - what's that about? Any tips? x

 

[Jackotheshadows]

Heh, I learned this lesson when I got divorced. I thought, "Woohoo, finally, after a year without sex, awesome!"

Not so much. When I was in my twenties, it was easier, but I also drank a lot more, partied 'til all hours, and could survive on 3-4 hours of sleep. Those days are long gone.

If you just need a good fucking, well, start hitting the clubs.....and bring girlfriends, and condoms.

 

[MrEd63]

Ok *rant*

When I left my husband, I told myself I could live life how I wanted and sleep around if I wished. All my friends told me that lots of cock (and some pussy lol) would make me forget him.

But why is it so hard to get laid now??!!

I would love to be able to just see a guy/girl I liked, walk up to them and just take them home to have fun. And then they would leave and I wouldn't have to think about them again. But it doesn't work like that!

Instead I find myself going nuts with hornyness, walking down the street eyeing up people like a pervert. To get laid, you have to talk to people, go on a date.. blah blah blah.

I think I could fuck anyone right about now. It's not like I'm going to - but that makes me even more annoyed. Grr. Maybe I should go back to a swing club.


sorry. rant over. x

I know exactly how you feel . Shame you don't live nearer - I'd willingly help out

 

[Ruby_PlumRed]

Well thanks for the sympathy. But going on this site and looking through ampics doesn't help me either. I swear I ended up salivating sometimes. x

 

[MrEd63]

Well thanks for the sympathy. But going on this site and looking through ampics doesn't help me either. I swear I ended up salivating sometimes. x

It has to be said that your profile pic gets the blood rushing south

 

[DarkSimian]

I feel your pain. When I got divorced, I thought I'd start dating (and having sex again) in no time. No such luck. And I've found in my area women that will date me won't fuck me, and women that will fuck me won't date me. I can't believe its so hard to find someone that you share interests with and have a sexual attraction to.

 

[Morrigu]

I'm sorry you're in a sad place

It's not hard to get laid.......it's difficult to find amazing sex though. And I think after your experience you need fabulous hot sex, not just a lay.

I hope you find that soon

 

[luvzmature]

I'm sorry you're in a sad place

It's not hard to get laid.......it's difficult to find amazing sex though. And I think after your experience you need fabulous hot sex, not just a lay.

I hope you find that soon

Once again Morri is spot on highlighting the differences between sex and having an amazing time in bed.

But if I read Ruby's post correctly she would be happy with just a quick fling, no strings. She just wants to feel a strange cock plundering the depths. There are times when this is just what the doctor ordered. It will come Ruby, stay the course and you will succeed.
Just try to keep it out of the workforce, those are always messy....

Good luck!

Oh and I agree with Mr. Ed.... Yummy profile pic there sweets..

 

[MrEd63]

I feel your pain. When I got divorced, I thought I'd start dating (and having sex again) in no time. No such luck. And I've found in my area women that will date me won't fuck me, and women that will fuck me won't date me. I can't believe its so hard to find someone that you share interests with and have a sexual attraction to.

Tell me something I don't know - the ones you want only want to be your friend and the ones who'll fuck are not women with enough in common to have a relationship with

 

[Pinktacokitty]

I feel your pain. When I got divorced, I thought I'd start dating (and having sex again) in no time. No such luck. And I've found in my area women that will date me won't fuck me, and women that will fuck me won't date me. I can't believe its so hard to find someone that you share interests with and have a sexual attraction to.

That is because the women do not want to be in an exclusive relationship, either not ready or just choose not to ...I am very much like that right now.....I do not sleep with the guys I date, but don't go without either...

As for the op, I would think you have to put yourself out there after being "off the market" for a while. Be social, make yourself available, be picky, and be safe....Go where guys are, clubs, sporting events, gyms, anywhere guys hang.....Right now in this area it is sports bars, gyms, and clubs that cater to all ages from 20 somethings to 50 somethings....

 

[WakoJako]

Its easy to get laid. Just walk into a club Friday/Saturday night wearing a skimpy outfit Someone will probably come onto ya

 

[MrEd63]

Its easy to get laid. Just walk into a club Friday/Saturday night wearing a skimpy outfit Someone will probably come onto ya

I haven't got the legs for it

 

[WakoJako]

I haven't got the legs for it

Nah but you got the body

 

[jmarx20102012]

I am married and hardly ever get laid so at least you have an opportunity.

 

[LaurahW]

Sex is easy, good sex is harder. It's a matter of what you really want.

 

[mark197205]

I'm sorry you're in a sad place

It's not hard to get laid.......it's difficult to find amazing sex though. And I think after your experience you need fabulous hot sex, not just a lay.

I hope you find that soon

Feel like helping Miss Plum out Morri?

 

[RUlookingup]

It simply isn't quite as hard for a woman.....but it all depends upon how choosy you are with your company.

 

[Ruby_PlumRed]

Wooohoo! I'm back from a trip around Europe and I've finally broken my dry run!!!

Lol it was some of the best sex I've had recently, I think it deserves to go in the slutty moments thread if I can find it.

Thanks for all the supportive messages guys, this girl just needed some hot sex! x

 

[RUlookingup]

Gormless?