Wife secures conditional permission....

[MisterWolf26]

Wife very much wants to swing. Husband is reticent. She MUST have his buy in before she'll risk it, so she convinces/bribes him.

He's getting more into it, but still hesitates. She fantasies about study acquaintance. Thinking she'll drop it he says she can take a lover under conditions. The last condition being no vaginal sex.

She doesn't know how to make it satisfying without that.
She loves oral, but it only winds her up, never gets her off. She's happy to play all sorts of games, but, with her husband, the games aren't done until he "fucks her properly".

She's a bit over eager over her fantasy lover though.

In the end she becomes his anal lover.

She doesn't suddenly love it. But she learns how to make the best of it. And it works out cause it leaves her with libido left for her man.

I don't

 

[CalBishForNow]

Sounds like a great story to me. Go write it!

Do they eventually try DP? Making her airtight? Is the husband okay with that, as long as he's the only one in her pussy? If so, sounds like a good time for all.

Does the same rule apply to him, i.e. he can have other partners as long as they don't have vaginal sex? How does he feel about that?

Honestly, it seems like the husband's reticence is the biggest problem with this. I realize that people vary, but it's contrary to stereotype to have the wife eager to swing and the husband hesitant. I feel like you'd have to go out of your way to explain why.

 

[liliput1]

Sounds like a great story to me. Go write it!

Do they eventually try DP? Making her airtight? Is the husband okay with that, as long as he's the only one in her pussy? If so, sounds like a good time for all.

Does the same rule apply to him, i.e. he can have other partners as long as they don't have vaginal sex? How does he feel about that?

Honestly, it seems like the husband's reticence is the biggest problem with this. I realize that people vary, but it's contrary to stereotype to have the wife eager to swing and the husband hesitant. I feel like you'd have to go out of your way to explain why.

One of the (admittedly funniest) failure modes of open relationships is the husband pushes for it, the wife hesitantly accepts, and fast forward a few months and the woman has been offered six partners and the husband is still struggling to get one and is now mad about it.

Look. I know a number of poly people. My ex wife tried to suggest we open our relationship. I kept telling her no because I was… how do I put this? I wasn’t certain enough that if I slept with anyone else she wouldn’t make me an accessory after the fact to murder. I’m doing much better now thanks for asking. Also the only partner who has cheated on me so I had that going for me, which was nice.

There are very boringly real reasons the husband should worry about becoming a statistic. So I don’t know about counter to stereotype. Counter to majority? Absolutely, but not stereotype. Especially in the 30’s where female libido peaks and male starts to decline.

For a dash of realism, maybe you go the other way and the husband thinks anal is gross but she is fascinated so he gives her a hall pass for just that. They don’t call it swinging or opening. Just a pass. And maybe one per session so she gets some extra sexy times with the husband to keep him happy. He’s getting more blowjobs than when they were dating.

Or maybe he’s into spanking so she gets punished every time she “strays”.

 

[Rob_Royale]

You see, swinging is done together with other couples. They both have a good time.
It sounds like she just wants a free pass to fuck her friend or enter into a hotwife relationship.

So maybe she asks for a free pass for this other guy. Our hubby has always wanted to DP his wife and they have even RP'd a litle with small dildos and buttplugs. But she's never let him fuck her ass. Now is his chance.

So he agrees to a threesome where she fucks him while he is present and watching and then he joins in.

In the end she gets her brains fucked out of her pretty head as both men take her in both holes. They leave her exhausted, cum dripping from everywhere.

 

[CalBishForNow]

Look. I know a number of poly people. My ex wife tried to suggest we open our relationship. I kept telling her no because I was… how do I put this? I wasn’t certain enough that if I slept with anyone else she wouldn’t make me an accessory after the fact to murder. I’m doing much better now thanks for asking. Also the only partner who has cheated on me so I had that going for me, which was nice.

Sure, like I said, people vary. I didn't say it couldn't be explained, just that it would have to be.

Sorry about your wife.