Wife Voyeurism

[Burlx]

You are correct, the person who derives sexual enjoyment and even gratification of showing his or her partner, often naked, is a candaulist the person viewing them for their own pleasure is a voyeur.

Both French terms, oh these kinky French!

Therefore, a candaulist, an exhibitionist and a voyeur would make a menage a troi

 

[Tayloroc]

It is very generous of you!

 

[zoso682001]

Therefore, a candaulist, an exhibitionist and a voyeur would make a menage a troi

That group would be a treat to party with !

 

[CuttingEdge]

Your couple is the reason why I disagree with those that classify Candaulism as a paraphilia. It seems to me that if all the parties are consenting adults, then, why classify it as a disparaging behavior?

Enjoy your kink safely!

Two key words there... "if all"...

That may not be the case however.

It could be something as simple as a wife thinking she is dressing up for her husband in risqué clothing, and really, he is having her do that so that other men ogle over her. Not a huge transgression because she ultimately chose to wear that outfit, even if it was done for one reason, but really for another unstated reason (candualism).

But other situations are not so benign and you see it a LOT on here; pictures of a persons wife naked. They always claim their wife gave them permission to post the picture, but is that the case? A look at the shower thread shows this. Many of the women on there look shocked or embarrassed; benign if the pictures are for the husband's eyes only, but how many know their naked picture is now on an international porn site? I bet many would be incensed.

 

[Burlx]

Exactly! Not to mention the amount of decapitations. There are much more interesting ways of keeping ones identity a secret.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Therefore, a candaulist, an exhibitionist and a voyeur would make a menage a troi

Well not exactly, the candaulist is not self showing, they are showing off someone else, usually their sexual partner. Of course with their consent.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Two key words there... "if all"...

That may not be the case however.

It could be something as simple as a wife thinking she is dressing up for her husband in risqué clothing, and really, he is having her do that so that other men ogle over her. Not a huge transgression because she ultimately chose to wear that outfit, even if it was done for one reason, but really for another unstated reason (candualism).

But other situations are not so benign and you see it a LOT on here; pictures of a persons wife naked. They always claim their wife gave them permission to post the picture, but is that the case? A look at the shower thread shows this. Many of the women on there look shocked or embarrassed; benign if the pictures are for the husband's eyes only, but how many know their naked picture is now on an international porn site? I bet many would be incensed.

Is there really any way to know if the person showing is who they say they are on the net?

 

[Burlx]

Is there really any way to know if the person showing is who they say they are on the net?

No, however sometimes it is just too obvious.

 

[Jamba11]

Voyeur at heart. Looking to watch couple on Skype. There are couples who love to be watched, but are afraid to do it with someone they know. This is the best of both worlds. If there are any couples who would like to indulge HMU.

 

[CuttingEdge]

Is there really any way to know if the person showing is who they say they are on the net?

I am not sure I understand the question.

You said that "if all the parties are consenting", and if you look at many of the pictures on here, specifically of the shower thread; it is very clear from the subject's shocked or outraged expression, that there was no consent given.

It does not matter who the poster says it is; it is SOMEBODY who had their image taken while naked, WITHOUT their permission and posted on an international porn site.

I am sure a few have the personality as such, that they would swoon knowing their image turned people on, but I bet far more would be incensed of being shown naked, from a picture they never gave permission to take. To me, the latter is hardly benign.

 

[SAILOR954]

Bring your wife to a nude beach and just soak it it. It creates an electricity that many toys, talk or porn can not. By the time we typically leave the beach we're ready to fuck at the first given opportunity...most often over the hood of the car. Lol...then suddenly, you're the guy that you saw fingering his Mrs in the bushes on the side of the footpath. Not to mention that when you bring your sexy conservative, submissive wife to the nude beach, her flower opens. Must be the sunshine and water. Thanks for the reminder. Going to feed my orchid this weekend at the beach now that it's full of people and their electricity

Very true. A nice nude beach will do wonders for opening her sexy flower right up.
And like your lady, it’s a rare occasion that we make it out of the parking lot without a good run in the back seat.

Of course it’s always nice to see others doing the same as you’re walking to your car.

Good memories.

 

[Tayloroc]

Mmmm. That’s very generous!! TY

 

[Erodicus]

Bring your wife to a nude beach and just soak it it. It creates an electricity that many toys, talk or porn can not. By the time we typically leave the beach we're ready to fuck at the first given opportunity...most often over the hood of the car. Lol...then suddenly, you're the guy that you saw fingering his Mrs in the bushes on the side of the footpath. Not to mention that when you bring your sexy conservative, submissive wife to the nude beach, her flower opens. Must be the sunshine and water. Thanks for the reminder. Going to feed my orchid this weekend at the beach now that it's full of people and their electricity

That was exactly our experience when my wife and I went to a nudist beach. We fucked like randy rabbits as soon as we got home.

 

[Travass91]

So, does anybody else love when a voyeur sees your wife nude?? I found this out about myself a few years ago when my old college room mate walked in on my fucking my wife. He saw a few strokes, her boobs bouncing and stood there while we both jumped up drinking in her full frontal scramble for her clothes. I was mad for one second, then I realized that it was hot to have her seen..

This is my favorite and hope to be in a relationship like this in my future

 

[impresso]

We occasionally have situations where strangers admire my wife's private parts. And it's always exciting. Open blinders on hotel windows, slits in fitting rooms, flashes of breasts and panties in revealing clothing. She might be meeting a delivery or running out to the fruit store next door in a tank top without a bra. Or watering flowers on the balcony completely naked. I know that one of the neighbors across the street smokes a lot in these moments )

 

[Dolle]

I'd love to see anybody whose willing to share pics or vids and talk dirty about their wives to me I would love to stroke myself to her and cum nice and hard

 

[Melsid69]

My husband and I practice this kind of thing, I believe the correct term is actually candaulism.

I didn’t know there was a word for it! My husband is DEFINITELY into candaulism! Lol

 

[Filipinawife]

I didn’t know there was a word for it! My husband is DEFINITELY into candaulism! Lol

My husband is too

 

[Melsid69]

My husband is too

Mine has a fantasy of going to a motel, older type with the walk way right outside the windows, he then blindfolds me and secretly opens the curtain before he slowly strips my clothes off and gives me a massage on the bed as strangers walk by.

 

[Filipinawife]

Mine has a fantasy of going to a motel, older type with the walk way right outside the windows, he then blindfolds me and secretly opens the curtain before he slowly strips my clothes off and gives me a massage on the bed as strangers walk by.

I love it!

 

[Rob_Royale]

I think my wife is into this more than she lets on. We've had hot tub and pool sex many times where we 'could' possibly be observed. She's never said anything about the idea of being observed turning her on, but I'm pretty sure it does. Because she has remarkably powerful orgasms when we did so. We now live out in the country where our nearest full-time neighbor is nearly a mile away. There have temporary neighbors that come out occasionally on weekends in RVs, that are closer. There were no curtains or blinds when we moved in and there still aren't and she's very fond of walking around naked. Our house is obscured by trees, but a determined voyeur would have no trouble getting an eyeful if they were so inclined.

 

[Erodicus]

I didn’t know there was a word for it! My husband is DEFINITELY into candaulism! Lol

I didn't either then I found there's a Wikipedia entry citing its origin and several historical instances of it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaulism#History_of_the_term

 

[davenjenn]

When we go on vacations, I love to show off my body on hotel balconies or by standing near the windows so that strangers can see me

 

[rmstitanic7]

Angie like to show them at the beach. If you look, give her a review. Thanks.

https://boobcritic.com/?s=angie

 

[haventdonethat]

When we go on vacations, I love to show off my body on hotel balconies or by standing near the windows so that strangers can see me

My wife sat naked in a big armchair in the open doorway of our ground floor room while on vacation. I sat on the floor in front of her, caught up in some naughty playtime. She was disappointed that nobody walked past to see her show. And what a show it was!