Like I said on my earlier post.The wife and I did the MMF thing dor several months.She had subscribed to a swingers site and we picked out a guy to meet.Set it up with him and we talked about it at great length and I told her it is just sex,that we Love each other but we want to make our sex life the most exciting it can be.We met the guy at a local Motel.He knocks on the door and I go answer it and at first it was awkward because this guy happened to be my best friend who is married.So we all talked a while then decided this was good cause we knew he was free from any STD's so we played strip poker and when the clothes were gone the loser had to do a sex act of the winners choice for one minute.My wife and I both loved it.I never saw her so hot.I had no problem with jealousy at all.Matter of fact I think it made us closer to each other.But the wife said she could never handle me and her with another woman.She say's she can't share me,that she would be jealous.So we did the MMF thing with this one friend for several months on a weekly basis then she kind of got bored with it after a while cause she said he is a dud in bed really.So now we use toys and fantasies and watch movies together to spark things up in the bedroom.