Will I regret a same sex experience?

[davidf]

DO...and enjoy. Have fun and e careful.
~David

 

[sseg]

regrets?

I'm a guy who wants a same sex experience. Like many men who frequent this board, I'd love to know what it feels like to have a cock in my mouth.

My best friend who is female, said that it may not be the exciting experience I'm hoping for, and that I may regret it after.

It's inspiring to read postings from guys that say something like: "I sucked my first cock last night and loved it" - and it's great to read about so many positive experiences. Is it the case though, that the negative experiences just don't get written about here?

So, is my friend right? Is there a good chance I may regret 'going through with it?'

I can only relate my own experience. One reason I resisted so long with my first same sex experience was because I was 'fraid it would "change" me. It did. I found that it was both better than I expected, though not the sex part, and no big deal.

The sex was ok. It's taken me a long time to really come (pun intended) to enjoy it. What I learned there was that sexual response is by and large a result of experience and positive associations. It took me a while to really like sex with women, and though it didn't take as long to enjoy sex with men (probably because part of that is just the whole "hey there's another person here!" thing), it did take some time.

What was better was losing that self and society imposed inhibition that was clogging up my thinking about what I wanted. I felt much freer after that. Before the thought of sex with another man was "dirty" "bad" "wrong" and so on. So I suppressed it and felt bad about myself for feeling that way. Now I celebrate the fact that I like it all

 

[sseg]

Trying things...

I once skied down a slope that was far to steep and far too advanced for me. I fell numerous times. Did I regret it? No, I just did not try it again. There is such finality to the word "Regret". The worse thing that can happen is that you will not choose to do it again.

Just remember, if at first you don't succeed, skydiving may not be for you!

And a more topical variant:

If at first you don't suck seed, you need more practice!

 

[mreneetg]

Regrets

If you are curious about anything in life, try to find out/do something or experience that part of life that you are curious about. But just like skydiving, be prepared and think about safety.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

It is your decision whether or not you regret it.

If you learned something from it... that it wasn't that great, that it didn't do it for you, that ... I dunno, anything... there is no reason to regret it.

I regret nothing in my life... because I choose to learn from each less-than-positive thing.

 

[Mastersall]

Just do it .. try it .. not once but a few different times then deceide if its
for you.. Sucked my first cock in college did it for a bit then drifted away.
Now at 50 i find it interesting once again and can enjoy pussy and cock

 

[rcuhljr]

Does that insinuate a woman's ass isn't as sensitive? I've fucked a few women in the ass that had their most intense orgasms that way by far. She used a toy on my ass or finger and those were some of my most intense as well.

Males have a prostrate gland, making it a more intesnse experience generaly speaking.

 

[Auxar]

Just remember, if at first you don't succeed, skydiving may not be for you!

And a more topical variant:

If at first you don't suck seed, you need more practice!

Wow that suck seed comment was golden. Someone posted above that they had sucked cock and regretted letting the guy cum in his mouth. Personally I think that would be the reward and if I sucked a cock I would want a guy to fill my mouth multiple times over with his jizz until it was all over my face between me letting his cock slip out of my mouth to swallow as it sprayed my face and sucking on it as it filled my mouth over and over. I've tasted my own cum and it isn't a big deal. I think the only thing I don't like about tasting my own cum is that by the time I get it I don't really care about tasting it anymore. But another man's cum would be great to taste since I would still be plenty horny and all worked up from sucking a cock before I got my treat .